10 Pegging Tips for Plus-Size People

Pegging while overweight? Despite the difficulties, there is no reason to lose out on the enjoyment.

For plus-size people, the world of sex and sex toys can be a stressful experience, particularly when kink and fetishism are involved. In addition to the fact that your body is rarely featured in pornography or pictures of specific kinks, some gadgets and items might not be designed to fit your body type. Some groups will even suggest that your weight prevents you from engaging in specific kinks! I admit that I've been smitten by the appearance of a new strap-on harness, only to turn the packaging over and discover that it only fits hip sizes up to 42". I could never fit that harness, even at my smallest!

The good news is that most kink activities and sex practices are perfectly acceptable for larger bodies. You can engage in pleasure and activities just as quickly as someone with a more petite frame if you work within the restrictions of your own body. However, it may take some trial and error to find the ideal method to enjoy different activities in a way that feels good for you because larger bodies aren't frequently shown in porn and may not be as quickly addressed as smaller ones. We'll examine pegging when you're plus-sized here. No matter your size, it's full of fun and enjoyment despite its hurdles.

Pegging When Plus-Size

One of the activities is pegging. Certain sex positions may need to be adjusted to fit your body comfortably, much like some yoga poses may need to be modified for larger bodies. To find appropriate pegging sex positions that suit you and your partner, you may need to spend more time trying them out and perhaps look for customized harnesses that fit you. Here are some suggestions for having a good time pegging whether you or your partner (or both!) have larger bodies, though it's preferable to leave playing as a plus-sized body in other kinks to the counsel of different articles.

Use Sex Furniture and Props

For larger bodies, sex furniture and props can significantly improve accessibility, as many plus-size sex guides would advise. The stomach can be moved, and the genitalia made more accessible by elevating the hips in the missionary position with a plus-size receptive partner. A piece of sex furniture can be a tremendous help if the receptive partner has trouble bearing body weight in the doggy position. When sex furniture and sex forms are used, similar sex positions can be "improved." A stack of hard pillows can be used as a last resort, but you'll be shocked at how much easier it is to use sex-specific props. Larger bodies are more likely to "compress" cushions than smaller ones. You might find that body weight-supporting props are a great purchase.

Use Sex Position Aids

There is no reason not to employ sex position aids if they would enhance your pegging experience. To lessen the strain on the top person's knees and legs during partner-on-top, think about using a sex stool. Consider using a behind-the-neck sex sling, which secures the thighs or ankles to the neck and keeps them in the air if the receptive partner finds it difficult to keep their legs in the air during the missionary position. Think about using a doggie-style support sling if the entering partner struggles to gain leverage for effective thrusting. Place some pillows or blankets beneath your knees if they hurt from being on a hard floor without any protection. You should be enjoying yourself instead of concentrating on the difficulty of attempting to put up with a position. Make that happen by using the available sex aids.

Consider a Longer Dildo

I don't know about you, but I like to appear especially "well-hung" while I'm wearing a dildo. However, most "average"-sized dildos appear relatively little on me because of my larger thighs and stomach. Screw that. If I can change my dildo whenever I want, I'll make sure it gives me a sense of self-worth and empowerment. Your strapped-on toy's "length" may also be shortened by larger bodies because your stomach and thighs may prevent the dildo from being entirely placed into the base. Because of this, I advise people who use plus-size dildos—particularly those who are pegging a plus-sized partner—to look into longer dildos rather than average-length ones. Your dildo may slip out less and have fewer logistical penetration issues if the toy is longer. However, this is obviously a matter of personal preference and experimentation.

Research Plus-Sized Sex Positions

Finding sex positions designed especially for plus-size bodies can be pretty helpful, in addition to sex furniture and toys. Sex positions designed for plus-size individuals will provide you with more ideas and inspiration on how to fit your bodies together, even if you are unable to discover anal sex positions.

Be Up-Front About Your Limitations

There's no justification for putting yourself through uncomfortable or challenging sex positions or activities. Be honest with yourself about your limitations. Although you don't have to tell your pegging partner everything, you could explain that you would instead do something else if you knew that doing it doggy-style on your knees would cause pain. Offer your partner to start on top during the slow adjustment time if you know it will be difficult for you to gradually sustain all of your weight in a missionary position while using an enormous dildo that will take your partner ten minutes to get used to. You can experiment with a lot of different sex positions, so there's no need to put up with the uncomfortable ones for your body.

Switch Off as the Active Partner

You don't need to be the active partner during the entire 20-minute sex marathon if your cardiovascular and physical capabilities aren't sufficient. The receptive partner can be switched off as the active partner. They can "fuck" themselves on your dildo while you can remain motionless, or they can ride on top during various sex positions. You don't need to be the only one putting forth effort when pegging. Use a collar and leash to "force" someone to ride you if it fits your dynamic. This will bring a new dimension of excitement to any pegging session.

Look at Customizable Harnesses

Consider getting a custom strap-on harness if you have a unique style of carrying your weight or if mass-produced harnesses don't fit your physique. Many leather artisans on Etsy will create a strap-on harness according to your exact specifications. Although these will cost more than the mass-produced alternatives, you will get a harness that fits your body better and gives you a more attractive and self-assured feeling.

Consider a Rope-Tied Strap-On Harness

Bondage rope can be used to create a rope harness that holds a dildo against your body if you're on a tight budget or don't like the thought of buying a bespoke harness. Numerous online guides explain how to fasten a strap-on rope harness on your body. The only restriction on these harnesses is the length of your rope. Acquire extra rope if you require a larger harness! When you need a specific size, a rope-tied strap-on harness can be one of the least expensive ways to have strap-on sex, but you will have to tie the rope harness again each time you want to play with pegging.

Look at Non-Hip Harnesses

The discomfort or unpleasantness of pegging from the hips may vary depending on your level of activity and flexibility. Hip-bound harnesses don't have to be the only option for strap-on sex. Actually, there are many other harness options available for consideration! You may sit back and unwind while your spouse rides your thigh when you use a thigh strap-on harness. You might be able to move more efficiently using a harness that straps onto your chest. For improved access to the dildo and vision of the action, some strap-on harnesses are positioned very high on the abdomen, close to the stomach. Hip harnesses are "typically" used to demonstrate pegging, but that doesn't mean it's the only method!

Check Out Plus-Size "Straight" Sex Tips

Put, pegging is anal sex with the traditional "gender roles" inverted. This implies that many sex recommendations designed for anal sex plus-size intercourse and heterosexual plus-sized intercourse will also function perfectly for you. There are numerous sex positions to attempt in some of these books, along with helpful tips on how to ensure that you are enjoying each other. There are many fantastic ideas out there to make your pegging session more enjoyable, so don't rely just on this article for advice!