10 Tips To Tr-EAT The Pussy Right!
We wanted to take advantage of the fact that April 14th is Cake & Cunnilingus Day to make sure that all pussy owners are getting the best treatment possible!
1. R-e-s-p-e-c-t The Pussy.
First and foremost, make her and her vulva feel gorgeous before you even go south. Many people may feel self-conscious about their vulva parts and perhaps have unfavorable thoughts about their appearance, feel, taste, and/or smell as a result of the stigma associated with them.
By complimenting her and/or demonstrating why her pussy is so gorgeous, you can make her feel better. Give her the impression that there is nothing wrong with her or her vulva and that you can't wait to get straight in!
2. Slow Down.
This is not a race, regardless of what you may have learned from porn! Increase the suspense by starting slowly. That doesn't imply you should go slowly; instead, we urge you to move your tongue quickly back and forth! However, don't assume that a quick 5-minute lap will work.
The warm-up is not only crucial but also required for specific individuals. Many folks require different forms of stimulation before even going down because things might be really sensitive down there. To start things off, try kissing her all over, nibbling at her thighs, etc.
3. Look, Listen, and Feel.
Her physique! Please pay attention to the sounds she makes and/or the instructions she gives you, and observe how her body responds to your actions. Don't stop if something is working! It's time to change things up if she's wriggling a bit too much.
4. Forget What Worked With Your Last Partner.
Because each individual and vulva is unique, it cannot be removed by universal motion, unlike penises. What one individual finds enjoyable may not be the same for another. Don't forget to communicate and take your time learning what works and what doesn't!
5. Tongue Technique!
The "alphabet" counsel you were given is entirely out of date, friends. Haven't we gone past such blasé tongue tactics? Using your tongue to write out each letter of the alphabet on the vulva was known as the "alphabet trick." It was beneficial because it encouraged you to experiment with other tongue patterns without giving them much thought—after all, everyone is familiar with the alphabet, right?
Instead, use your imagination! You can use your tongue in a variety of ways; try different things until you find what suits you the best, and then go for it! Try a flat tongue, a sharp tongue, swirls, laps, flickers, quick, slow, up and down, left to right, circles, circles, oh my, and more to get you started.
6. Spoil the Clitoris, But Don't Forget About the Rest of the Vulva.
How about we review the vulva?
Because of its extremely high number of nerve endings, the clitoris is highly vital, but it shouldn't be your whole attention, and perhaps not at first. The clitoris becomes sensitive due to its abundance of nerves, and each woman and vulva has a unique level of sensitivity. For some people, going straight to the clitoris or spending too much time there can really cause pain or discomfort.
Investigate the other vulva sections as well; they are equally significant and enjoyable! If consented to, the outer and inner labia can be licked, sucked, or even nibbled. Since the perineum is also a region rich in nerve endings, you may also try applying pressure to it with your tongue or fingers.
7. Don't Let the Name "Oral" Fool You.
You should use your nose, chin, and lips in addition to your mouth.
By adding some fingers or a vibrator, you may intensify the sensation even further. You can use it in the vagina or on the vulva at the same time, or you can use it to stimulate other erogenous zones like the nipples.
8. We've Said It Before, and We'll Repeat It...LUBE!
You can quickly catch up here if you were unaware of all the magic that is lubrication. However, adding sensuality is one of the wonderful things that lubrication can accomplish. Not romantically, but in a way that makes you feel like you're feeling a lot more. Every tiny lick, lap, and suck will be more intense with lubrication.
In addition to offering all the advantages of ordinary lube, a flavoring lubricant (which is genuinely made for oral sex) tastes AMAZING and may also help you stay a bit longer.
A warming or cooling lubricant adds an enjoyable sensational effect that can be tingly, warming, buzzing, etc. In the end, it is more stimulating (you can feel it on your tongue, too!).
9. Skip The Missionary & Explore New Muff-Diving Positions.
Try some of them, even if there's nothing wrong with a classic!
Face-sitting. Have her sit or kneel over your lips while you are face up, making sure your head is not under any strain. This will give her some control over the pressure and movement and free up both of your hands for other uses.
Doggie fashion. While you stand or kneel behind her, have her on her hands and knees with her back to you. Getting a level below her (try kneeling on the ground) and being raised (like on a Liberator) makes things easier.
Getting to your feet. Kneel on the ground beneath her when she is standing (either forward or against the wall) against a door, wall, etc.
10. Performing Oral Sex Doesn't Always Result in Orgasm...and that's O.K.
Oral sex can orgasm for some people, but that doesn't indicate that it's not enjoyable for her, that she's not into you, or that she doesn't enjoy it. Sometimes, it simply doesn't occur!
Rather than concentrating on "orgasm" as the ultimate objective, focus on the private act of gratifying her; after all, was it not enjoyable for you both either way?
