5 Games for Teasing Your Partner in Chastity

Being chaste doesn't have to be the same old lock-and-key situation. These five games will add some spice to your chastity play.

Ever think about managing your partner's orgasms—or lack thereof? Chastity can be an enjoyable hobby for couples to pursue, regardless of whether you're in love with the idea of perpetual denial or you find the thought of complete control to be a turn-on.

The chaste person's body is locked with a gadget that expressly prevents masturbation and pleasure. The controlling partner controls the key and determines when the locked partner will be released. Typically, the controlling partner is referred to as the "keyholder."

Cock cages are among the most widely used chastity devices. They are typically made of metal or plastic, fit over the penis' head, or cover the entire shaft, and are secured with a lock. They essentially prevent penetrative intercourse and limit erections. Urinating and cleansing are made possible by certain functionalities in those that are intended to be worn for an extended period.

While some couples enjoy playing with chastity for a few hours or a day, others get committed and stay together for a long time. Keep in mind that safety and health are crucial! The keyholder must account for cleaning breaks if the gadget interferes with proper hygiene.

Both participants must enthusiastically accept the agreement and make an unbreakable commitment that the scene will terminate if the safe word or gesture is used.

This can be a pleasant and exciting way to keep both parties focused on the sexual aspect of a relationship, regardless of the gender or power dynamics of the partnership.

Even though being chaste is undoubtedly a fun activity in and of itself, some couples find that the typical "Can I be unlocked now?" question that arises from long-term chastity agreements bores them a little. The typical "no" can become a little monotonous when your spouse has been turned down for three months!

All it takes to give your new kink a little more variation is to play a chastity "game." It gives chastity an "unknown" element in addition to relieving some of the strain on you as the keyholder.

Take a look at a few of these easy chastity games, or use them as a model to create your own:

Game of Chance

Use a game of chance for amusement for both of you. Spend some time recording different incentives and penalties on small pieces of paper.

Think about things such as "10 minutes of edging," "5 minutes with your favorite sex toy", "3 more days of chastity," "Pegging," "Back massage," "Intercourse with no orgasm," "30 strokes with your favorite impact play toys", among others. Feel free to add blank sheets or activities like "Clean the shower," "Do a 30-minute workout," or whatever else you want to make it less sexual.

You don't even need to inform your spouse that you didn't orgasm; don't include any slips that permit it if you don't want them to. To keep these tiny slips a secret, you can place them in any small, airtight container.

Now, each day, you both choose a piece of paper and do what is written on it.

Take into consideration a less automatic system if you wish to regain more control. Only when your partner has done something you think is worthy of thanking them may they earn one of the opportunities. Did they use your preferred Evolved Trifecta to give you a fantastic orgasm? They can, however, earn the opportunity to crack open one of the eggs and discover what's within!

Social Media Involvement

Many chaste couples want to write about their experiences on the internet or blog about them. You can take your game online if you're one of those couples! Make a poll so followers can cast their votes on a particular activity. Do they want an e-stim cage to get things buzzing or your imprisoned companion to use a strap-on to gratify you in your next adventure?

Think about giving your readers a vote on how long your partner should be imprisoned or giving them numerical values for certain chores they can complete. For instance, you may determine that your partner is adding three more days of chastity for each "like" on your article.

However, you may wish to establish a "limit" here. Attempting this could result in your companion being locked for three years, depending on your level of popularity!

Get a Perfect Ten

You may adapt this to fit any activity you choose, and it can be wildly entertaining. Request that your chaste partner engage in a specific activity, such as hand jobs, e-stim vibrators, folding clothes, loading the dishwasher, or oral sex.

After they're finished, give them a score between 1 and 10, much like you might give a professional athlete. For each number below 10, add one or two days to their chastity. They might be unlocked if they receive a score of "10."

To maintain your partner's perpetual chastity until you decide otherwise, you may believe that they are never truly "deserving" of that perfect ten, depending on how you're feeling.

Another option is to keep repeating the exercise until they have "perfected" the ability you want them to possess. For instance, they might only receive a "4" the first time they engage in oral sex with you. That's six more days of abstinence. You'll give them another chance six days later, and perhaps they'll receive a "5" this time. Then, five more days. You can continue doing this until they receive a flawless "10." They will genuinely "deserve" to be liberated at that point.

Key Hide-and-Seek

This one has the potential to be quite entertaining and drag on for a while. Similar to how this game is played normally, the keyholder will conceal the key in a predetermined spot (for example, "within our home" or "within the bedroom").

If the chaste partner locates the key in the predetermined amount of time, they will be unlocked. (Alternatively, if the time constraint is wholly removed, the game can continue for weeks!)

Demand that the chaste spouse clear up or clean up any location where they look for the key to make this duty really enjoyable. In addition to having a clean home, they may have a chance to be opened!

Roll of the Dice

If someone misbehaves, you can use the dice as a kind of discipline. Add that number of days of chastity to the number of dice you have. To be genuinely sadistic, use more dice (or geeky D20 sets!). The next time your partner misbehaves, they will undoubtedly reconsider.

Who would have thought that dice could be so punishing?

Bonus: Quiz Time!

This is for you if you have a locked partner who needs to learn anything in particular! Based on your own study, formulate ten or twenty questions regarding the subject.

Decide how many days of chastity each missing answer is worth before the game begins. If you determine that each incorrect response would result in an additional three days of chastity, they will undoubtedly be more motivated to study the next time!

The Bottom Line

You probably had no idea that keyholding could become such a lighthearted and enjoyable pastime, did you? Your partner's orgasm is undoubtedly being denied, but it doesn't have to be that way all the time. To keep things interesting, think about occasionally engaging in chastity games like these. Utilize these games, or get creative and create your own!