7 Best Sex Toys for FTM Transgender People with Bottom Growth

There are options available, but there aren't many sex toys that give trans men and transmasculine persons a sense of validation and support. Look around and experiment until you discover what suits you.

I've spent twenty-five years writing about sex. Testing and reviewing sex toys is a part of my work as a sex writer. I test every inch of my body—as well as my partner's—week after week in the pursuit of orgasms and inquisitive pleasure. In order to provide my readers with the most excellent suggestions, I have tested hundreds, if not thousands, of sex toys.

My transgender guy spouse has different sex toy demands than I have as a cisgender woman. His usage of testosterone-based gender-affirming hormone therapy (GAHT), which helps him masculinize his body to better align with his gender identity, is the reason for this. Bottom growth, or an increase in the length and width of the clitoris, is one consequence of his testosterone use.

There is a dearth of information on the subject because transgender individuals and trans-related health are not well investigated. Although it varies significantly from person to person, most people have some bottom growth on testosterone. For instance, one study discovered that the average growth at one year on GAHT was 1.8 inches (4.6 cm).

(Short note: Despite being often used, the term "FTM," or "female-to-male," presumes a binary of transitioning between genders. A wider range of gender identities, including those who may take testosterone and are gender-agender, genderqueer, gender-fluid, and non-binary, are not included in this assumption.)

It should come as no surprise that transmasculine individuals and trans guys lack sex toys that validate and support them, yet there are alternatives available. Additionally, it's crucial to remember that these may be helpful for intersex individuals as well as FTM individuals themselves.

The following list of seven top sex toys for FTM transgender individuals with bottom development follows:

1. LELO Sila

Sometimes size is essential when it comes to clit sucking toys. The majority of comparable devices have heads that are too small to fit my partner's growing bottom. The LELO Sila, on the other hand, is firmly positioned on my partner's genitalia because of its size and shape.

Perhaps the most potent clit sucking toy available isn't the Sila. On my partner's extremely sensitive clit, its acoustic vibrations are still more than sufficient to simulate oral intercourse. Extra points for Sila's user-friendly design and comfortable shape. Additionally, it is completely waterproof, making it a great bath and shower friend.

2. Inya Triple Delight

We haven't stopped playing with this sex toy since it came. (Very few sex toys end up in this renowned standing location!)

With its vulva-pump-style cup (which comes in round and oval shapes), flicking tongue, and vibrating handle that also functions as a clitoral or G-spot vibe, the Inya Triple Delight is a triple threat of pleasure. Once more, this toy fits my partner's sensitivity level and bottom growth in terms of size. He always succeeds thanks to the enchanted mix of the light suction characteristic and the long, flat, moving tongue. The pump cup's see-through acrylic construction allows me to observe, which I appreciate.

3. Fun Factory Limba Flex Dildo

Okay, so transgender persons on GAHT aren't the only ones who engage in sex and strap-on dildos. However, the Fun Factory Limba Flex is available in non-skin colors devoid of veins or testicles for those who want shallow penetration without the realism of other dildos. (The insertable length of the tiny size is 4.33 inches.)

Whether you're pegged or penetrated, or on top penetrating *insert hole of choice here*, the core of the Limba Flex adapts to your postures. For hands-free enjoyment, you may also utilize the detachable suction cup base on any level, smooth surface. It's waterproof, too!

4. CalExotics Red Hot Flare

At first, it's challenging to determine what the Red Hot Flare can do for bottom-growing trans bodies. Despite having a similar appearance to other vibrators, it is very different.

Instead, the smooth, flared head uses ten settings to gently flick and tease the clit. The spacing between the two prongs dances wonderfully on my partner's clit, and you don't have to force the toy down to experience all of its enjoyable effects. It's undoubtedly a powerful toy.

Therefore, this is the perfect whisper-quiet toy for you.

5. SpareParts Joque Harness

Particularly for transgender individuals on GAHT, the SpareParts Joque is among the most comfortable strap-on harnesses available.

You may use this harness and have firm control over the dildo because SpareParts does a great job of accommodating a broad range of sizes (it can be adjusted from 20-inch to 60-inch hips). For vulva-having partners who enjoy clitoral stimulation and penetration, there is also a pocket for a bullet vibrator.

6. NY Toy Collective Trans Masc Pump Deluxe

A clitoral pump can be used by transgender individuals who are beginning or already taking testosterone to boost sensitivity or the size of their bottom growth temporarily. They're pretty easy to use:

  1. Don't omit the base; instead, squeeze some lubrication inside the transparent cylinder.
  2. After positioning it over the clitoral growth, begin pumping gradually.

Compared to shorter, faster pump pulls, my spouse prefers long, not-too-fast, but not-too-slow pulls. As the clit enlarges and gets more sensitive, you'll notice an increase in blood flow to the genitals. My spouse observed a sensation of squeezing from the outside and pressure from the inside. After he stopped pumping, the size shrank, but sensitivity persisted for a few minutes.

7. FTM Pitstop Shotpocket

The size and design of this 100% silicone masturbation sleeve are tailored for transgender individuals with bottom development.

Apply a small amount of lubricant to achieve a strong suction; the ribbed core will massage the labia minora and clitoral hood. After using the Shotpocket, make sure to turn it inside out and quickly wash it with warm water and soap.

Conclusion

There are options for everyone (and everybody), even though the sex toy business needs to focus more on the requirements of trans individuals. My spouse and I have found these seven toys helpful, but everybody is unique!

So, look around and try several things until you find what suits you. Similar to having sex, there is no "right" way to purchase or use sex toys (apart from taking safety precautions); as long as everyone is having fun and giving their consent, you're doing it correctly.