8 More Awesome Sex Positions for Big, Beautiful Bodies

Finding sex positions for large, attractive bodies shouldn't be difficult, and this helpful guide makes it so!

I long for a culture that celebrates people of different sizes for their bodies, sexuality, and enjoyment despite the nonsense model-thin ideals that are prevalent in society. Being a woman with a larger frame, I am entitled to pleasure. And if you're a large, attractive person, you also do.

Yes, getting naked and having sex with a partner can be intimidating for anyone, but it can be more difficult if one's size makes specific arrangements difficult. The truth is that our ability to express and experience sexual desire is legitimate, regardless of how soft, voluptuous, and bounces our stomachs may be. We might require a little more room and assistance to acclimate, but we don't have to accept poor sex.

According to research, "the best sexual satisfaction occurs in relationships with a deep emotional connection," says Dr. Brenda Wade, advisor to Online For Love.

Being adventurous and trying out different sex positions and methods to connect is encouraged because variety is the spice of life.

Keep in mind that you are a large, attractive, sexy person who deserves to have what you want when you want it and how you want it. Big, attractive bodies may be partial to these sex positions, but they are by no means the only ones. Think of this as an imaginative way to begin having sex.

Try anything and experiment. Worrying about how you appear in a particular position will divert you from the incredible, sweet pleasure that is meant to be had during sex. Do what is convenient, safe, and feels right for you. This list of postures should make you feel more at ease and provide you with some exciting new possibilities to experiment with. Let's get laid, fellow Bs!

The Butterfly

The butterfly sex position can be a great one for larger bodies if the penetrating partner is at the proper height to enter the other partner while standing on the floor. The way it operates is explained by TooTimid's Sex Expert, Angela Rosario: The penetrating partner stands beside the bed and enters the receiving partner, who is lying on their back on the bed. "The receiving partner, in particular, can relieve pressure on their stomach and back by keeping their legs straight in this position, which offers good support," she says.

People who use mobility equipment or have disabilities could find this position challenging to access. This posture might be suitable for the penetrating spouse who uses a cane or walker due to their disability.

This kinky posture can be adjusted with pillows if the receiving spouse has chronic pain and alignment concerns.

Missionary

Big bellies can pose problems. Thus, some more prominent people believe that the strap-on/penis-haver-on-top position, often known as the missionary position, is off the table. Early to Bed's owner and sex educator, Sarah Deysach, claims that a strategically placed cushion or sex position wedge can be pretty beneficial. Gravity draws some of the stomachs away when your hips are inclined upward, which makes penetration simpler than it would be without the pillow, according to Deysach.

"Wedges or pillows are also excellent tools for providing access for oral sex while on your back," says Deysach, who suggests the Liberator Jaz, which is comparable to the Liberator Wedge or Dame Pillo. Additionally, for more immense people with impairments or if their spouses have problems, cushions and wedges can be used as mobility aids. They can provide comfort and ease pressure during the climax.

"Pap Smear" Missionary

Alice Queen, the creator of Vanilla is the New Kink, prefers what she refers to as the "pap smear" missionary position, which is similar to the Toad Position but with supported legs. The essential idea? A wedge is placed behind the receiving partner's butt to raise their pelvic region while they are on their back. "You need support for your knees so that they are easily up, just like a pap smear," Queen adds. "You can use cushions, pillows, blankets that have been folded, etc." The Queen purchased a pair of little cube-shaped ottomans specifically for this position since she loves them so much.

If the receiving partner's disability prevents them from spreading their legs, this posture could be challenging. In order to alleviate spasticity, it can be beneficial for both parties to try massaging certain regions in advance.

Seated Position

For large, attractive recipients, seated sex can be very advantageous. According to Rosario, the perch position involves the penetrating partner sitting in a chair, ideally on non-slip flooring. Next, either facing them or away, the receiving partner straddles them. According to Rosario, "People with big bodies may find it more comfortable to face away." For extra support, place the chair adjacent to a surface that can be utilized to steady the receiving spouse. This is a well-supported position that may be more pleasant for prominent, attractive couples.

Additionally, if the penetrative partner has a wheelchair or other mobility aid, seated sex might be very accessible. They can get into this position if they are already in a wheelchair. The receiving partner can engage in passionate, seated fun with the penetrative partner if they are able to walk and sit on their wheelchair or other mobility aid.

Cowgirl (or Rider) Position

It can be not very safe to get on top of your partner if you have a larger body. If the conditions are appropriate, the cowgirl position can be a wise decision. "You can control the depth and how much weight is on your lover if you can kneel on top of them," Deysach explains. Additionally, it may be time to introduce a chair, such as the pitcher's mound position. Make your partner sit on them and straddle them. The majority of your weight can be placed on the floor, and you can use the chair's back as a handle. Bigger bodies are encouraged by Deysach to not worry about their partner's weight tolerance.

In actuality, your partner might be more at ease with you being on top of them than you realize. This is something that many of us, more prominent people, believe is impossible. Indeed, before you determine that you are too big for a position, consult your spouse.

Reverse Rider

When facing away from the penetrating partner, the receiving partner straddles in the reverse rider (or cowgirl) posture. According to Rosario, this position benefits larger bodies because the receiving partner has control over the penetration's depth, speed, and angle.

For further enjoyment, they can also stimulate their clitoris on their own. "Big, attractive women benefit most from this position because it provides a lot of clitoral stimulation," Rosario explains.

It could be necessary to modify the reverse cowgirl position with pillows or wedges for partners who have restricted dexterity due to a disability. Talk to a partner about the restrictions of your physical disability before trying this position.

Doggy Style

According to Deysach, the doggy style is the most accessible posture for many people with large bodies. However, there are other methods to support oneself, including bending over the bedside with pillows stacked under your chest or, if more comfortable, on your hands and knees. "Big bellies won't get in the way," she says. One more advantage? In this posture, it can be simple to hold a vibe to your clitoris (or perch one on a strategically placed pillow).

Those with disabilities may also need to discuss doggie style because it can be challenging for those with chronic pain disorders to remain on their knees in this posture for extended periods.

Little Lift

This modification of the typical doggie stance is called the "little lift position" because it literally raises the position by adding a wedge.

According to Kayla Lords, "you don't have to support your body to be on your knees." "Instead, you press your thighs against the back of the wedge, lie across it, and let the furniture do the work while you get sucked in, have oral sex, or engage in other kinky activities."

With a wedge used by the receiving partner, the Little Lift posture can be more accessible to those with disabilities. Double-checking the penetrative partner's handicap and access needs is particularly crucial since people with conditions like Ehler 's-Danlos Syndrome, cerebral palsy, etc., frequently experience persistent pain.

Spooning

Spooning is an easy and private position. Rosario explains, "The penetrating partner enters from behind while the receiving partner has their back to them, and both couples lie down on their sides next to each other." Because the penetrating partner can switch up their angles and quickly touch the rest of the receiving partner's body for more enjoyment, she claims that this position is advantageous.

Because spooning is easy to do and causes little stress, it is also a very popular and comfortable partner position for people with disabilities.

Curled Angel Position

Rosario suggests this mild spooning modification. She explains how the curled angel works: On their side, the receiving partner lies rolled into a ball, and they can use their arms any way they like, such as gripping their legs for stability, resting beneath their chest, or puffing their head. The penetrating partner enters from behind, just like while spooning.

Rosario says, "This position has all the advantages of spooning, but it is even more accommodating for people who still find traditional spooning difficult." In addition to making it simple for the receiving partner to self-stimulate, it is incredibly intimate and enables the penetrating partner to touch numerous parts of the receiving spouse's body. It is also easy for the penetrating partner to change angles.

Additionally, people with impairments who suffer from muscle pain, contractures, and spasticity may find the Curled Angel to be reasonably accessible. Pains associated with disabilities may be lessened by a partner's touch in this situation.