8 Steps to Giving a Woman Amazing Oral Sex

To make a woman go crazy, you just need a few essential moves—forget awkward kisses and jackhammer tongues.

Only 30% of women can experience an orgasm during vaginal sex, in case you were unaware. This implies that loving partners need to have a few more tricks up their sleeves in order to impress a woman truly. For many women, oral sex is their favorite, but it's not as easy as diving in. Continue reading to learn how to impress her with amazing oral sex.

Take Your Time

Even when a tongue is moist and velvety, a dry vagina still doesn't feel comfortable against it. Warming her up requires you to take your time kissing and stroking different body parts. This also applies to scented lubricants: while they might be entertaining and valuable, they cannot replace foreplay, which is the traditional method of warming women up.

Keep the Compliments Coming

Although the majority of women enjoy oral sex, many are a little uncomfortable with it. Things down there are typically a source of stress for women. Does it appear to be in order? Good-smelling? And what about the flavor? Many men (and women) actually enjoy disparaging their partners. Tell her how much you love being between her legs if you want her to unwind and have fun.

Find the Right Position

It's essential to find the ideal position because aches and pains aren't beautiful. If you want to be together for the long term, you can use furniture, cushions, or specialized sex props to help you both feel comfortable. (See some of the best sex furniture available in Sex Furniture: Love Your Home.)

The Tongue Matters

A lover can use their tongue in one of two ways: either gently prodding with a soft, flat tongue or insistently touching with a stiff, stronger tip. Some women enjoy it when their boyfriend keeps things interesting, whereas many women prefer one of the two options. To solve this, communication is the key.

In general, a variety of oral sex is the best. Probe, lick, swirl, suck, and kiss. However, avoid the error of "fence painting." If your tongue moves like a paintbrush, she will soon be checking her watch. (Need more advice? Moreover, images? Oral Sex That'll Blow Her Mind: An Illustrated Guide to Giving Her Amazing Orgasms is worth checking out.

Celebrate the Clitoris

Imagine the clitoris as a miniature penis, with four times as many nerve endings as the head of a penis, all packed into a much smaller space. As you can imagine, it feels fantastic when appropriately touched, and just as a good blow job should focus on the penis, so too should a fantastic cunnilingus, but start gently—we did mention that it's susceptible, right? (Read more about this great piece of female anatomy in Holy Clit, Batman! 9 Amazing Facts About the Clitoris.)

But Not Just the Clitoris

Don't ignore the other delicate areas beneath a woman's waist, even if the clitoris should be the main focus of oral sex. She will go crazy if you gently kiss her inner thighs and nuzzle her labia. Only go to the clitoris when she begs for it, and tease her by kissing everything but it. It can be delicious to wait so long! (See The No. 1 Secret to Female Orgasm for more information on the significance of the tease.)

Spice Things Up

Oral sex only needs two consenting partners in its most basic form. That can be pretty thrilling in and of itself. Other components, though, can significantly improve the experience. A vibrator or their partner's fingers could be an excellent addition for women who like penetration. To experiment with various sensations, you may also try holding an ice cube in your mouth or using a warming lubricant.

Shut Up and Listen

Despite the abundance of sex books and advice available, the truth is that every woman is unique. However, what makes one person hot and agitated may leave another feeling just that—bothered. The most excellent method to learn how to make your spouse crazy is to pay attention to both her body language and her words. Please take note of her breathing patterns, body language, and reaction to your touch. And don't quit if something seems to be working!

Some have referred to cunnilingus, or oral sex, as an art form. This implies that most people will need time and experience to learn how to perform it successfully. Well, that doesn't sound all that horrible.