8 Unique Handjob Tips That'll Blow His Mind

Some of us don't put much effort into improving our handjob skills, despite the fact that they are incredibly underappreciated sexual actions. We're capable!

It's confession time! I detested hand work a long, long time ago. Even though I would do them, I didn't find them enjoyable. My arm would hurt. I was always curious about when it would end. To do something unusual, I would eventually either get on top of it or transform it into a blowjob. How depressing. I wonder how good it was for him if that's how I reacted.

Several years later, I feel much better about it. I genuinely want to touch my partner in ways that make him writhe and groan, and I don't see it as a chore. I'm willing to give him a handjob if that's what he needs.

Some of us don't put much effort into improving our handjob skills, despite the fact that they are incredibly underappreciated sexual actions. Too many men don't complain because they are content that their cock is receiving any attention at all. We're capable of more.

Here are some pointers that can help you give him the handjob that will blow his mind—and possibly his load—if, like me, you're not proud of your handjob skills.

Lube Up

Lube makes everything better. It is simply a fact. If there's too much friction, he might think you're attempting to light a fire down there. Instead, before you start working, make sure his cock and your hand are both nice and slippery. You won't have to worry about causing a fire danger, and you'll be able to move more freely on his skin. Additionally, everything feels so much better with a nice lubrication.

Add Some Tongue

Even if a handjob isn't a blowjob, you can still have a little fun. Move your tongue over his glans or the meatus, which is his slit. His response will be relatively straightforward when it's unexpected and combined with your hand gesture. Rock-hard cock, goosebumps, and a "Yes!" tell you to do that again.

Use Both Hands

When I offer a handjob, I don't think I'm the only one who concerns about tendinitis. We must cease wanking him like we're eager for it to end or repeatedly making the same motion! You will divide the effort if you use both hands. Better yet, you will increase his enjoyment. Strike with one hand as the other plays with his glans, balls, or frenulum, or try a twisting motion.

Change Things Up

Vary the pace. You can slow down or hurry up, but you probably don't want to treat him like a jackhammer. Increase the pressure. Add your second hand after you've licked, stroked, and squeezed it. Switch it up a bit as you're playing, but eventually, you should settle into a pattern that invites him. You two shouldn't be bored while this is going on.

Remember the Balls

Too frequently, during blowjobs and handjobs, the testicles are overlooked. Cup his balls with one hand since you're already using two. Touch his flesh with your fingers. In your palm, move them back and forth. If he likes it, he might even lick them. In fact, my partner enjoys it when I (gently!) run my fingernails up his shaft and across his testicles.

Move a Little Further Down

Since you're already at his balls, let's continue. So to speak, stop at the backdoor. The perineum, sometimes referred to as the "taint," is a region of skin and nerves that lies between the scrotum and anus. You might be shocked at the magnitude of the reaction if you properly rub him. Congratulations, you just gave him a massage of his prostate from the outside.

Find Out What He Likes

Each penis requires and desires its special treatment, just like our genitalia. Avoid assuming that the dick in front of you needs to be kissed and stroked in the same manner as those who came before him. Request to see him masturbate. Say, "Tell me what you like" or "Do you like this?" Then, do it for him when he does. Some men desire harder and faster. Some people can handle a little discomfort. He will be blown away if you give him what he enjoys.

Go Virtual

In a long-distance relationship, you can be locked apart. Perhaps you want to stay in touch even while you're on a family vacation or business travel. Maybe you enjoy trying new things. Thanks to Kiiroo's award-winning Pearl and Onyx combo, a virtual handjob is now a reality. You play with the shaft/vibrator while he wears the sleeve. He will be able to sense what you're doing through the sleeve regardless of where he is, so fuck yourself, rub it, or suck it.

Work shouldn't feel like a handjob. Whether it's foreplay or the primary act, consider it an additional means of establishing an erotic connection. Learn what your spouse enjoys, offer him more of it, and be open to trying new things. Treat your partner the way you want to be treated. In the end, you'll be rewarded with a contented spouse, which may result in even more erotic enjoyment for you both.