A BEGINNER'S GUIDE TO PEGGING
What is Beginning Pegging?
Are you wondering what pegging means? Wearing a strap-on to pierce another person's anus is known as "plugging."
What Accessories are Used in Beginner Pegging?
Strap-On / Harness
- The devices that the dildo fits into are called harnesses, and they can be made of a number of materials. The O-ring and the Vac-U-Lock system are the two primary varieties. O-ring harnesses are the most widely used and adaptable due to its compatibility with a greater range of dildo sizes and types.
Harness Compatible Dildos
- There are many of different dildo alternatives! Look for a flared base to ensure compatibility with harnesses. Recall that in this case, bigger is *not* necessarily better. Before making a purchase, be careful to discuss what both you and your spouse find comfortable.
Wearable Dildos (Strapless Strap-On's)
- Depending on the wearer's desire for penetration during pegging, these dildos can be "worn" with or without a harness.
How to Peg a Partner: Pegging 101 Guide
Everyone can enjoy pegging, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. It may be empowering as well as seductive if done right. Although this kind of change-up can cause some confusion, we've outlined a few procedures to help calm your fears!
Communicate Your Desires & Get Consent
The first and most crucial step is to have a conversation with your partner about it. By starting this sexual experience, you can get a sense of what you both are (or are not) seeking for.
Never push something that you or the other person are not comfortable doing. Booty play doesn't always mean pegging. If you're interested in the sensation but not ready to commit, try using butt plugs instead.
Purchase Supplies
When you're both set, find a comfortable strap-on or harness and dildo (they can occasionally be purchased together!). The spouse donning the harness should think about the materials that fit and feel comfortable. What the receiving partner feels comfortable sharing should be communicated. Consider the form, size, and shape of the object you want.
Don't Forget the Most Important Ingredient: Lubricant.
LUBE. A lot of grease. Note: Although silicone-based lubricant lasts longer and is preferred, silicone dildos are harmed by it. Which is why we advise a water-based! (To be extra safe, we also recommend using a toy cleaner!)
Spend Time on Foreplay
Your bodies require enough time to awaken, prepare, and become fully present in the moment. In order to maximize pleasure and minimize suffering, foreplay is essential. The more, the better.
Check In With Your Partner
Throughout, make sure there is a lot of communication! You will only have a better time if you can find a rhythm, depth, and pace that seem right.
Try some anal training activities first if you are unfamiliar with anal stimulation. The idea is to teach your anus to become at ease throughout the receiving process so that it can be pleasurable. And once more, please, make sure you have a ton of lubricant on hand!
Try Positions That Increase Comfort & Control
Though it's fun to explore various positions, don't be scared to attempt the classic doggie position as well! For beginners, laying on your stomach is a terrific pose. Enjoy the feelings of your newly discovered sexual flavor as you move about.
