Anal Fisting: An Educated Look at Performing a Famous Porn Move

In porn, anal fisting is not uncommon. To be safe, there are a few things you should know if the concept appeals to you!

Let's redefine what a "high five" means!

The art of receiving a person's entire hand into your ass is known as anal fisting. Mitt as the whole—the palm, knuckles, and all five fingers. Some of you are probably clenching and wriggling in your seats at the prospect of such an act, but know that when done right, anal fisting is a delightful experience that may result in mind-blowing orgasms that are beyond anything you have ever experienced.

You've undoubtedly seen some pretty crazy anal-fisting sequences if you enjoy porn with an ass theme. Do you know how people in the circus talk about the greatest of ease and the trapeze? That's how anal fisting appears in porn. Porn offers the sense that a ravenous bum can devour an entire hand in a matter of seconds, regardless of whether performers are harming themselves or others.

However, it's not actually that simple, either for the donor or the recipient. A lot more so for the recipient, all right.

Is it possible to fit a hand inside an asshole? Of course. Is it simple to provide a hand there? Not at all.

Patience, commitment, and a great deal of sincere reflection on one's sexual desires and limitations are necessary for anal fisting. Do you feel prepared to give it a shot? Take a look at these suggestions to improve your anal fisting experience.

Constant Communication

Make sure to express your demands, wants, anxieties, discomfort, and joy at every stage of your anal-fisting encounter. The discussions that bring up the topic are actually where anal fisting really begins. It is rarely a passive act, attempted in a moment of need because it is a specialized activity.

Instead, it is discussed at every stage. It becomes crucial to communicate openly throughout the actual deed. In addition to describing bodily sensations, being able to instruct your partner to slow down, stop, pause, and move forward will help you better grasp the entire process and improve the experience.

However, the fister's capacity to listen and respond is equally as crucial as articulating needs. Anal fisting leaves minimal opportunity for innovation. It's much better to publish and declare everything you plan to do before really doing it. The entire situation can quickly bottom out (pun intended) due to surprises.

Recognizing Challenges

There is no denying that anal fisting is at the more end of the sexual range. It's absolutely not for everyone. You must be ready to acknowledge that you may not be able to complete this act. Both parties must use a great deal of patience and body awareness when anal fisting.

We are sometimes instructed to endure the suffering and take any necessary action. You really don't want to adhere to that theory when inserting a hand inside a rectum. Indeed, it may finally work, but you may experience severe agony as well as possible bleeding and tears. Additionally, because we're discussing the ass and what comes out of it, you want to keep it to a minimum in order to prevent infection.

Therefore, if you're thinking about anal fisting, examine the hand you're dreaming about and evaluate whether the ham hock will actually fit up there.

Breaking Stigma and Myths

The practice of anal fisting is associated with a great deal of stigma and mystique. Let's debunk some of these myths so you can return your focus to the task at hand.

If you enjoy anal fisting, will it cause your ass to become stretched out? No.

Do you think your ass will get loose? No.

The anus, like many other muscles in the body, is a muscle. It is highly elastic and long-lasting. You may perceive an anal gape as looseness if you have witnessed anal fisting in porn. One person may leave their asshole "open" after removing their hand from the other's. Don't worry, this will pass. It will tighten up again to that adorable little pucker you know and adore once the anus has had time to rest and relax.

Getting Ready

Anal fisting preparation takes place both prior to and during intercourse. Avoiding meals that cause gastrointestinal problems will help if you'd really like to get your hand-bang on quickly. Put an end to the greasy, spicy, etc. foods. Before opting in, observe your bowel movements and determine whether you're feeling well. Saying, "Hmmmm, no anal fisting today!" is always acceptable if you fear it will become awkward or untidy.

The ideal approach to begin a hot fisting session, though, is with a nice, hot shower if your butt is giving you the thumbs up. Get in there for a sumptuous soak and steam, whether you're both there or just you. Your muscles will become more relaxed, and you will have more time to clean your body thoroughly.

Safer Sex Options

Let's remember to think about safer sex options before continuing. Condoms and gloves can be used in anal fisting even if you and your partner are fluid-bonded. If the fister has minor, undetectable injuries or abrasions on their hand, using gloves will safeguard both partners from a safety standpoint. Squeezing your hand into a condom or wearing gloves are also helpful options. Both nitrile and latex are smooth and perform better than skin when lubricated. To make it easier to glide in, they can smooth off parts of the knuckle and finger curves.

Additionally, wearing gloves might lessen fingernails (which should be neatly filed and clipped beforehand!). If the fister has longer fingernails, put cotton balls into the ends of the glove's fingers to shield the receiver from an accidental poke.

Lube, Lube, and More Lube

The importance of using a lot of lubrication for anal fisting cannot be overstated! Make sure the lubrication is flowing, even if you're beginning out and only have one finger tapping on the rear door. To add additional lubrication when necessary, keep that bottle handy.

Your choice of lubricant depends on your preferences. Trial and error will determine whether you like water-based, silicone-based, oil-based, or hybrid lubes. Learn about various lubes and their properties, including viscosity, durability, and constituents.

Take Your Time

Be careful not to keep an eye on the time if you're planning an anal fisting session. Anal fisting is probably not a good idea if you have something in the oven or the kids need to be picked up at a specific time. Anal fisting requires patience and time, so neither party must rush to "make it happen."

Pornography should not be used as a guidance in this situation. Those people may indeed be able to jump in the poop chute very quickly, but that's because they've done their homework beforehand, they're experts, and, well, we have no idea what has been cut out. Keep in mind that before engaging in any exercise, we must warm up our bodies. Hurried anal fisting can lead to discomfort, injury, and a strong desire never to do it again. Never forget that the one setting the pace is the one getting fisted. Always. Complete halt.

Into Position!

The two primary postures that are most effective for anal fisting are missionary with the legs raised and doggie style. Once more, you will need to experiment with both to find what suits you best. Your partner's fingers and hand can enter your body more efficiently and directly when you adopt a doggie technique. It might not be as personal as some individuals would prefer, though.

However, given how long anal fisting can take, leg tiredness from spreading is a real possibility. On the other hand, maintaining eye contact while lying on your back will facilitate connection and communication.

Think about using some assistive technology in either position. To rest your body, arrange cushions in a pleasant wedge shape, just like a dog. This will allow you to unwind and focus on opening your body rather than supporting yourself.

Straps, harnesses, or a spreader bar that keeps the legs up and drawn back will assist you in maintaining an agreeable posture and significantly lessen muscle strain when you're on a mission. Consider attempting anal fisting during a sex swing if at all possible.

Getting in There

Both vaginal and anal fisting involve a similar hand posture and necessitate a great deal of foreplay. You may help your partner get their body ready for anal stimulation in a variety of ways. Your spouse can be turned on and relaxed at the same time with massage, fingering, and rimming. Gently insert one, two, and then more fingers inside your partner's butt to help them get used to the feeling of growing circumference.

Construct a cone form with your fingers when they're ready to go on to more. Until you reach the knuckles, it usually won't be too difficult if your companion is genuinely into the sensation. Patience and communication are crucial at this point. Try not to push too hard.

If at all possible, the target of the fist can press their ass up against the knuckles. Please leave it to them to handle this most difficult challenge. Many people, to be honest, never get past the knuckles. Because you're still feeling incredible, it's still fantastic.

If it is feasible, though, the subsequent stage in which the entire hand is absorbed is an incredible experience for both individuals.

And That Other Hand?

You will experience a great deal of stimulation as a hand enters your body, including some feelings you have never experienced before. This event will provide enough excitement for some people to have a significant mental breakdown. Keep in mind that your prostate will be the focus of a lot of attention. However, other people will simultaneously appreciate various forms of sexual and/or calming contact. As you adjust to new sensations, stretching may cause some discomfort, but this can be eased with light massage and rubbing. The sexual excellence at the heart of anal fisting can be intensified by genital play.

All right, a round of applause! Is anyone up for trying anal fisting right now?