9 Bondage Sex Positions You Have to Try
You've come to the correct site if you're interested in learning about all the many bondage sex positions that are available. The nine greatest bondage sex positions are being broken down (or tied up!) today for you and your lover to attempt the next time you're craving an afternoon or after-dark adventure. You can also learn how to do self-bondage if you'd want to try it out on yourself first! Let's determine the ideal sexual position for your BDSM activity, whether you're using handcuffs, nipple clamps, bondage rope, or sex restraints!
Just so you know, some of the following are bondage positions for couples, while others are positions you can attempt on your own. When playing with a partner, as always, please make sure that you both understand what will happen, what your or their boundaries are, and what you both hope to get out of the activity. Before you tie any knots, lay everything out on the table since bondage play demands a great deal of trust on both sides.
Let's dive right into the top nine bondage sex positions that you and your lover can try! It should be noted that although we have prepared this guide from the viewpoint of the partner in control (not tied up!), all of the following advice is equally applicable when read in reverse.
1. Spread Eagle
A timeless piece! Spread Eagle is not only the most comfortable for novices, but it also provides unhindered access to your partner's body. Their wrists and ankles are tied or cuffed to bedposts or other sturdy anchor points in this position. If you want to spend hours caressing their body or playfully teasing them, they will be at your delightful mercy and unable to resist.
Bondage Ideas: Use an ankle/leg restriction, bondage tape, or a blindfold! To prevent a sticky situation, make sure you first learn how to apply bondage tape.
You can play in the spread eagle stance while standing if you want to (literally) step up your game a bit. Have your partner stand with their arms out to their sides rather than strapping their wrists and ankles to the bed or in any other way. To do this, you might need some specialist equipment, like as a door bondage set, but fortunately, Adutoys has you covered when it comes to locating the ideal BDSM equipment.
Remember that standing will typically put extra strain on their body, particularly in the joints, so make sure to check in with them often and avoid keeping them standing for extended periods.
2. Knees to Chest
The difference in this missionary-style sex position is that your partner's legs will be restrained in place. If penetration is the goal, you'll have plenty of alternatives, but the view is also fantastic!
They can lay face-down with their legs folded under them, or they can be on their back with their legs to their chest. If your spouse is on their side, you can still use this bondage position by having them curl into a ball.
There are other techniques to accomplish this stance, however, these are the two most popular ones:
- Hold their thighs and shins together. The bound-up partner is unable to straighten their legs as a result. They can easily rest their feet on the bed or whatever surface you are lying on and drop their legs if they grow weary of supporting them.
- Attach their torso to their shins. Since the playmate who is tied up is unable to move their legs down or straighten them, this is a more intense posture. To keep your partner's muscles from tiring out, we advise newbies to fold their legs under them or roll them on their sides.
3. The Crab
Their forearms and wrists are fastened to their shins and ankles in this posture. The Crab only permits a small amount of rolling around; it doesn't permit much movement. It does, however, offer a beautiful view, support for the legs, and access to their butt and genitalia. This is a fantastic bondage sex position to pair with a vibrator, dildo, or other preferred sex toy if you're both game.
4. Downward Dog
The Downward Dog is essentially the Spread Eagle in reverse, and it's equally entertaining. Spread your partner's arms and legs while they are lying on their front. After that, you'll use rope or shackles to secure their ankles and wrists. Although there are many alternatives for bed bondage in general, the bed is a clear choice for this role, though other settings can be equally effective. Four safe anchor points for your rope or shackles are all you need. You can experiment with bondage constraints like ankle cuffs or even bondage rope with this entertaining take on the doggie position.
The Downward Dog is the ideal position for you and your lover to learn how much you enjoy spanking if you both appreciate the discipline component of BDSM. You have easy access to your partner's hair, so you may gently tug it to add excitement if you want to get a little rougher.
5. Double Column Tie
Although it may appear difficult, learning how to tie bondage is well worth the effort! A double-column tie is incredibly adaptable and can be worn on various limbs and in a range of scenarios. It is a technique for tying up your partner in a variety of sex postures, not a sex position. Although you can use any two portions of your limbs, it's a terrific way to bind two limbs together, such as the ankles or wrists.
The double-column tie's best feature is that it won't unintentionally tighten when your spouse wriggles or moves. While you should always check in with your partner frequently during bondage play to be sure, you won't have to worry about the knot getting so tight that you cut off circulation or cause any harm.
6. Hogtie
A more complex tactic is hogtying a partner. We advise delaying trying the hogtie until you and your lover are more at ease tying knots and swiftly unwinding them if you are both new to the BDSM scene or bondage. Alternatively, you may get a hog-tie cuff kit that doesn't involve any knotting!
The Hogtie operates by binding their wrists and ankles together, generally around the rear, although it can also be done around the front. To try a more difficult variant, people can attach their partner's elbows to their knees, which will make the position harder to hold. In the Hogtie posture, please be cautious. Don't leave your spouse confined for more than thirty minutes, at most, and make sure they're doing well by checking in frequently.
It's better to gently into this position because not all partners will be able to or desire to do it. To determine your partner's level of tolerance, have them attempt to maintain the position without the aid of ropes.
7. Spooning
Spooning is a kinder method to play if you and your partner want to start with something easy. To spoon, place your front against their back and bind their hands together in front of you with your own hands, some gentle handcuffs, or even a silken tie. You can also bind your partner's wrists to a bedpost if you're feeling very inventive. To get into the spooning position, just make sure you can snuggle up behind your spouse.
For novices, spooning might make you and your lover feel more secure because it's a romantic position. It can be frightening to try something new like bondage, but it can quickly turn from frightening to sexy if you can feel your lover right there with you.
8. Chair Bondage: Interrogation or Reverse Chair
A chair is used in one of the most common bondage postures. Having your partner facing the back of the chair, which can make it more difficult to reach them, is known as a "reverse chair." As you torture them with your lips, tongue, fingers, and anything else you can think of, you tie their ankles to the chair legs and their wrists behind their back. Using wrist cuffs or ankle restraints during intercourse might be entertaining in this way.
Securely binding your lover to a sturdy object, such as a chair or stool, is your greatest option when it comes to bending over bondage. Choose something that won't obstruct your hands, tongue, penis, strap-on, or anything else depending on what you plan to do once they are bound up. Simply said, there's a good probability that things may get squirmy and sexy, so make sure to pick something safe!
You can take your time giving your spouse some much-needed spankings, kisses, or caresses while their booty is in the air. Since they won't be able to see what's coming, whatever you decide to do will be unexpected. For both the dominating and the bound partner, this can be a fantastic method to increase sexual pleasure.
Time to Tie It Up
Regardless of whether you're flying alone or with a companion, we at Adutoys always want to promote thrilling, adventurous, and gratifying sex. You can make your sex life more exciting by adopting these bondage positions. Uncertain about where to begin? No issue! For more ideas, look through our extensive inventory of bondage equipment. And we certainly do have a rope!
