Sex and Anal Toys: The Complete Guide

You will almost certainly ask yourself, "Can I do this while having sex?" if you begin to enjoy a sexual activity. Naturally, this also applies to butt plugs.

But it's more than simply a kinky fantasy. In fact, using butt plugs during intercourse can improve it!

Let's return to the fundamentals and demonstrate the most effective ways to use your butt plugs in the bedroom.

What Is a Butt Plug?

Immediately, when you hear the term "butt plug," you picture something plugged into the a-hole. The term it was given is straightforward and explains precisely what it does and where it goes: to plug the butt.

To prepare for penetrative sex or anal play, people of all genders and sexual orientations can stretch their buttholes using this anal toy. However, anal lovers have found that it can elevate penetrative intercourse to new levels of climax and pleasure.

Which Butt Plug?

Fortunately, you don't have to use a certain kind of plug when having sex. You are free to use whatever you choose.

However, there are a few factors to consider.

Any butt plug you use during intercourse should, as usual, have a base that prevents it from being fully sucked into your anus. Every foundation is different. If you're going to be moving around a lot, round, flared bases can lead to a lot of chafing.

Utilizing a plug with a T-bar base is considerably more comfortable, depending on what you do in your bedroom. This reduces the amount of friction against your skin by nestling perfectly between your butt cheeks.

Depending on how active you are in the bedroom, size may also be a helpful factor for you. Larger plugs could be more uncomfortable if you move around a lot or have very intense sex.

An anal dildo is what you need if you like an anal toy that looks like a penis. This butt toy contains a suction cup that prevents it from moving any higher up the rectum, in contrast to its vaginal counterpart.

Preparation - Talk, Foreplay, And Taking It Steady...

As with using butt plugs alone, there are a few things you need to do to get ready before bringing them into the bedroom.

To begin, a lot of folks prefer to take a warm shower. Make sure there is no poop coming out when you plug it in by thoroughly cleaning your butt. Additionally, the warmth will help your muscles relax, which will make inserting the plug much simpler.

You should talk to your spouse about your plans before you immediately start utilizing your plugs during intercourse. Because there won't be any unpleasant surprises, planning things out in advance can help you both relax.

Perhaps you could choose a "safe word" as well. You should avoid using this word during intercourse and immediately stop if someone uses it. With everything in place, you can both end the session whenever you want, especially if it becomes painful.

Last but not least, engaging in some of your preferred foreplay can help you feel at ease and prepared to put on your butt plugs.

Sex With Anal Toys: Men

Bringing butt plugs into the bedroom will be pretty beneficial for everyone who was born with penises. Male anal orgasm can be achieved with the use of these gadgets.

You will be experiencing increased sexual pleasure, so if you decide to wear one, prepare yourself for a fantastic playtime. The many nerve terminals in your sphincter and anal muscles are primarily responsible for this.

However, this is not the whole picture because every individual who is born into the male gender has a distinct gland that women do not. This organ, known as the prostate, is crucial to a man's orgasms. Furthermore, it is among the most sensitive areas of a man's anus.

Prostate stimulation during intercourse can significantly increase the force and intensity of orgasms!

A man's ejaculations can become more forceful and his erections harder when he wears a butt plug.

Sex With Anal Toys: Women

These anal plugs are beneficial to anyone other than men. When their female companions also wear one, it can be delightful!

The anus's nerve endings provide a large portion of the physical stimulation for women. This is more than enough for many women to experience an orgasm, and some even like it!

Wearing a butt plug can alter the stimulation you experience in your vagina, so it's not just about the anus. It's often accepted that anal stimulation stimulates the A-spot, which is the deeper portion of the clitoris. The ability to mimic both the interior and external clitoral regions can produce a mixed orgasm, which is incredibly fulfilling!

Because it rubs against the vagina's back wall, wearing a butt plug can also make your vagina seem considerably tighter. Because a tighter vagina often makes sex feel better, this can help a man and a woman have better sex!

Oral Sex With Anal Toys

You can practice oral sex to get your heart rate up if you're not ready to commit to full sex while plugged. You can still have your regular oral sex while wearing a plug, and it will usually feel much more intense, as previously mentioned.

The main advantage of utilizing butt plugs for oral sex is that it reduces the amount of movement required. This is a blessing for new users who aren't accustomed to using butt plugs or for those who find it challenging to keep them in place while moving around.

Just relax, allow your lover to gratify you, and relish the powerful feelings that are in store!

Best Anal Toys for Different Sex Positions

P-in-A (butt sex) is fantastic, but to double the excitement, try penetrative sex with a plug in your butt. This sounds like a hassle-free threesome.

You'll likely want to try it once you've moved past the initial phases and become accustomed to the emotions involved. When wearing a butt plug, which positions are ideal to try?

Doggy Style

We like to use glass butt plugs for doggy style because you can see your partner's butt being stretched as you enter from behind, and the additional weight of the plug will make each thrust much more intense. Doggy style is a classic, and it's still a great option when plugged in. For the person receiving, every thrust will bump against the base of the plug, pushing it further into your body and making the entire experience much more enjoyable! If you're the one humping, gravity will be working against you, so you'll constantly need to hold the plug in place, and engaging your muscles in this way will often result in intense erections and orgasms.

Lazy Doggy Style

The lazy doggie style is similar to the standard doggy style in that it is pierced from behind. Instead of lying on their hands and knees, the recipient lies flat on their stomach. Then, their partner enters from behind, straddling them.

The lazy doggie method relieves some of the effort of holding in your plug while still giving you the same thumping sensation each time it is pushed deeper into your body.

A collection of anal beads is an excellent addition to any lazy dog look. You can add a ton of extra pleasure while keeping things relaxed by gently drawing them out and pressing them back in as you thrust in and out.

Cowgirl

Many couples prefer cowgirls because they allow the lady to dictate the tempo and rhythm of the experience while also providing you with a variety of stimulation opportunities. Every time they thrust down onto their partner's penis, the woman sitting on top will experience the plug beating into their body, just like a dog!

Vibrating butt plugs are our preferred option for cowgirls. Your lover will be able to sense the vibrations as you ride up and down on him, touching his penis before vanishing once more. You get to enjoy it all the while you ride him, and he will be frantic to reach climax as the vibrations repeatedly tease him.

Reverse Cowgirl

Try reverse cowgirl if you're a woman who prefers to have a little more control over your sexual experiences. The butt plug base knocks against the receiver's partner's pelvis, giving the receiver the same thumping sensation as in our earlier positions. But the woman is in charge this time!

If you both want to wear a plug at the same time, this is frequently a fantastic position to try out because many guys find them a little odd and unpleasant. While the lady performs the majority of the thrusting and movement, they can lie down and relish the feelings!

Why not try a jewelled butt plug, as you'll be able to view your partner's butt while they ride you? As you watch them bounce up and down on top of you, you may enjoy the beauty and vibrant nature of this type of plug!

Chair Sex

Although chair sex is frequently mentioned, there aren't many sex positions that are remarkably advised for butt plug use.

The thrusting motion tends to drive the woman's butt plug farther into her body in most situations. This is the opposite with chair sex. The man's plug is pushed more into his butt each time the woman thrusts down upon his penis.

He might experience intense pleasure as the plug brushes and rubs against his prostate with each thrust!

Please give him a prostate massager to wear as you ride him to go one step further. Each thrust is assured to strike his prostate and provide him with an orgasm unlike any other because of its curved design!

Standing Sex

Having sex while standing is an additional choice if you're searching for something a little more unusual. To push your girlfriend against a sturdy wall or hold her in the air, you'll need strong upper body muscles.

Because you'll be fighting gravity to keep it in place, adding a butt plug to the equation can add even more intrigue. Everything else feels much more intense because you're continually tightening your anal muscles to keep it in during sex!

For standing up for sex, we advise using a silicone butt plug. You can focus more on having sex with them than on keeping your plug in place because they are usually easier to hold inside your body.

Oral Sex

You don't have to perform full penetration just because you're using a sex toy! During oral sex, butt plugs can also be quite helpful.

A tail plug is our preferred choice for a butt plug during oral intercourse. The entire while, you can use your free hands to control these long, opulent tails to tease and massage your companion!

Plain Old Missionary

Of all, without the classic, no list of appropriate sex positions would be complete. This is one of the most popular sex positions for a reason!

Your movement won't have an impact on the plugs in Missionary, unlike our other suggestions. Instead, as you have sex, they will sit and softly touch your anal nerves.

This position is an excellent option if you're new to butt plugs or don't enjoy the sensation of something shoving about in your butt, even though the feelings may not be as strong as some others.

How about a basic bondage kit to provide even more sex? You can completely control your lover by tying them up. You will have complete control over what butt plug you want them to wear once they are immobile, and they will be powerless to stop you!

Other Ways To Enjoy Anal Toys During Sex

While most of us automatically think of positions when we want to spice up our sex lives, there are other options as well!

While wearing a butt plug, there are numerous other ways to alter the sensation of intercourse.

Temperature Play

Several methods exist for experimenting with temperature play in the bedroom. Two of the most common methods are using ice cubes and candle wax.

Butt plugs can also be used for temperature play experiments. The sensation of wearing them may be totally altered by warming or cooling them, which can result in some memorable sex!

Warming Up Anal Toys

Submerge one of your butt plugs in a basin of warm or hot water for a few minutes to warm it up.

As you can see, we used the phrase "warm or hot." Boiling water should never be used to heat your plug. The anal muscles are among the most sensitive in the body, and our bodies are susceptible to temperature fluctuations.

A butt plug will most likely burn your insides if you boost its temperature even slightly above that of boiling water!

Instead, warm the plug gradually by taking it up and feeling its sensation frequently. If the water is still chilly, try warming it up a bit further. It may take a few tries to reach the perfect temperature you like, but it's far better than burning yourself.

It's sometimes suggested that you warm up your plug in the microwave. We consistently advise against doing this! Microwaves can melt your plugs in addition to rapidly reaching high temperatures, which increases the risk of burning your anus.

Make sure all butt plugs are suitable for heating by reading the instructions that come with them. Even if you slowly heat them in warm water, some may still bend and melt since they cannot tolerate high temperatures.

Cooling Down Anal Toys

The procedure of chilling butt plugs is simple, just like warming them up.

One easy method is to put your butt plug inside a bowl of water with some ice cubes. The plug won't get too cold too quickly if you use water, and if you want to lower the temperature any further, you may easily add additional ice.

However, melting ice in bowls might be a bit messy, so if you want something even more straightforward, put your plug in the refrigerator! Select the lower shelves rather than the higher ones because they are typically colder. To avoid unpleasant surprises, make sure your roommates are aware of what you're doing or conceal your plug inside something else.

Now that we've brought up the refrigerator, you may be wondering if it makes sense to plug in your freezer. Since freezers don't get as hot as refrigerators, we generally advise against doing this.

You would have to keep opening and closing your freezer to check the plug's temperature. If it drops too low, inserting it could result in freezer burns!

Once more, we suggest that you make sure your plug can be cooled and that doing so won't harm it.

Try A Blindfold

If you're not into temperature play, you might want to try blindfolds. However, butt plugs are the ideal toy to heighten the mystery of being unable to see what's happening.

After selecting and inserting a vibrating butt plug, give your spouse the controls. You'll be taken aback by the delightful feeling each time they turn it on because you won't be able to see what they're doing!

Roleplay - Petplay, Animal Roleplay, and BDSM

Roleplaying is the last method for integrating butt plugs into the bedroom.

Submissive/dominant relationships, complete BDSM scenarios, animal roleplay, and pet play are just a few examples of the various genres of roleplay. Butt plugs are, fortunately, perfect for all of these.

It is typical for the dominant partner to "make" their submissive wear a butt plug in both sub/dom and BDSM partnerships. This is frequently a sign of ownership between the two lovers, so the submissive is reminded of their partner by their plug even when they are not together.

Some like to go one step further and use the butt plug as a kind of insurance. The submissive must always be plugged in when they are apart. As a result, they are unable to engage in any sexual behaviour with another person.

To start investigating some of the pain dynamics typical of BDSM relationships, you could even use vibrating butt plugs and electroshock!

Butt plugs are most noticeable in pet play and animal roleplay. Animals like foxes, wolves, cats, dogs, and even horses can be imitated using tail butt plugs! You can adopt the attitude of the chosen animal by donning a collar, ears, and even a plug.

Additionally, they alter your appearance, which might make many individuals much more attracted to you than they otherwise would be! After all, anthropomorphized animals from cartoons or TV shows have inspired many of our fantasies!

Don't Forget Your Imagination!

We haven't discussed every possible way to use butt plugs in your sexual life, but these are some of the more popular ones. We haven't even begun to explore!

As with any form of sex play, it's crucial to experiment and discover your preferences. Don't hesitate to try new things! You never know—you might land a job that provides you with the most amazing sex you've ever experienced!