Chastity Kink: A Guide to Male Chastity Cages

Why would anyone who has a penis wish to restrict their orgasmic and erection capabilities? Because exerting power and generating sexual tension can both be quite exciting.

Are you trying to find the best guide to a chastity kink? You're in the proper location!

What is a chastity kink?

Do you find the concept of intense orgasms intriguing? How about being the focus of attention for your sex drive? What about consistent sexy teasing that increases your desire for sex and maintains it high?

Well done! You understand why the concept of a chastity kink appeals to individuals in general!

Merriam-Webster basically defines chastity as "abstention from all sexual intercourse." (However, for the majority of chastity kinksters, the orgasm itself—rather than "sexual intercourse"—is focused on.)

Engaging in a lot of teasing without ever going "all the way" to orgasm increases sex drive, keeps those juicy, intimate feelings flowing all day, increases the likelihood that you'll be ready for sexual play at any time, and results in more incredible, more intense orgasms when you do cum!

But it's not simply the chaste person who gets all the enjoyment. Chaste people's lovers can also have a nice time. In addition to keeping the chaste partner energized and more inclined to be open to having sex anytime the lover wants to, many lovers also say that the chaste person devotes more time and effort to the relationship.

Chastity play also helps some couples—including myself—maintain a low level of sexual energy throughout their hectic, daily life! An excellent "excuse" for brief moments of intimacy in between activities is verbal teasing and kissing, even if you don't have time for a full quickie.

Additionally, a lot of teasing and foreplay can result in begging and moaning, which is a "bonus" that chastity lovers' partners may find quite appealing!

Giving the Chastity Kink a Try: A Look at Types of Male Chastity

Want to investigate a chastity kink?

Well, give it a shot!

You can explore a chastity kink without a chastity cage, even if that is the article's primary focus. The fun of chastity can be enhanced by chastity cages, also called cock cages, penis cages, dick cages, or male chastity devices. However, at their core, chastity cages are only as good as the person wearing them.

Even if you're playing carefully, there will always be methods to cheat!

In light of this, just quit experiencing orgasms if you find the concept of chastity appealing. That's it! Don't give in to that last explosion, but keep teasing yourself and your sex urge.

Depending on what you find enjoyable, you will establish different rules for yourself. This might consist of:

There are no orgasms, but all the hands-on masturbating you could want.
You will permit any orgasms that occur from penetration alone, but no physical masturbation at all.
You can touch as much as you like Monday through Saturday, but don't expect orgasms until Sunday night when you visit a particular website.
With or without toys, refrain from touching oneself.
Masturbation-induced orgasms are prohibited, while kink-only orgasms are permitted.
Never touch someone without your partner's consent.
Orgasms only occur with your partner's consent, but you can have all the caressing you desire.
The hour before your lover wants to have sex is the only time you are permitted to touch. To "prep yourself" before your significant other goes to bed, you can enter the bedroom one hour early.
Orgasms are prohibited when you and your partner are together, but they are permitted when you are traveling.
Anything else you can think of?

You, your wants, and your connections will all influence how your chastity kink looks, just like everything else about sex.

The duration of your chastity phase could be two hours or two years. You can choose to play with or without a male chastity device. You may or may not include a long-distance lover, a hired keyholder, or a partner. You may or may not find a platonic chastity kink companion to help you both.

Your chastity kink play is as unique as you are! Feel free to get creative with it!

Chastity Cages 101

A few kinksters decide to incorporate a chastity cage into their play. This not only makes it physically harder to touch yourself, but it also adds a tangible "reminder" of their predicament.

What is a chastity cage? What are they designed to do?

Consider a chastity cage as the penis' "jail" The wearer finds it challenging to touch the penis and achieve an erection because of this little device that encircles the penile shaft. When combined, these two factors can significantly hinder a penis owner's ability to orgasm.

Not being able to stroke up and down the shaft might make it extremely difficult for penis owners who have spent their entire life doing so in order to induce orgasm.

But that doesn't mean it's impossible. If you have a will, you can find a method, and it turns out that people have a lot of will when it comes to getting an orgasm. Some cage-wearers discover that they can experience prostate orgasms by penetration while confined, and most people find that wand massager put on the chastity cage can cause orgasms. Even using one finger to touch the penis through the cock cage might trigger an orgasm over extended periods of denial. (You should generally stay away from cages with a lot of holes and choose a full-coverage cage like the Holy Trainer V5 if you believe that describes you.)

It turns out that humans have a lot of will when it comes to attaining orgasm, and where there is a will, there is a method.

As I mentioned, there are always ways to use a chastity device to "cheat" into an orgasm. Some couples take advantage of this, and if the locked spouse experiences an orgasm while the penis cage is strapped on, they may be "allowed" to have one. All that matters is how you wish to play!

How do chastity cages work?

In general, the phrase "chastity cage" refers to a particular kind of chastity device known as a "ball-trap cage." There are two primary components to these cages. The penis shaft is covered by a lengthy tube. The tube is attached to a circular ring that rests on the person's body beneath the scrotum. By trapping the balls between the tube and the circular ring, this "anchors" the tube in place. The chastity cage will remain on the penis as long as the scrotum cannot glide through the circular ring completely.

With a lock and key, the majority of ball-trap devices are then secured. By locking the circular component to the penis tube portion, this makes sure that they cannot be separated unless the key is used or the lock is cut off.

That's it! People become "locked" into chastity in this way!

Chastity devices come in a variety of forms, not just ball-trap cages. To keep a chastity cage in place, chastity belts complete the hip circumference.

The majority of kinksters begin their kink journey on a ball-trap device, and nearly all of them remain there. They are the most reasonably priced, come in a wide range of sizes, colors, and designs (including personalized ones!), and cause the least amount of disruption to the rest of the body.

What does using a chastity cage as part of your chastity kink feel like?

My partners, who both like orgasm denial and chastity cages, are the best people to tell you about them.

One partner, who favors donning a metal cage similar to Lock the Cock's Cage of Shame, stated:

In a chastity cage, it's mainly just... present when you initially enter. The pressure and weight of it around your bits are palpable. It is impossible to forget, even when wearing underpants.

After about a week, it no longer feels "present" for daily wear. In my opinion, it's similar to wearing bulky boots. You realize that they are heavier than your previous shoes for the first few days you wear them to work, but after you grow used to them, they just... are.

Once you become used to it, it doesn't feel overpowering or like you're thinking about it all the time until you have to engage with it or think about it. As soon as you do, you'll enjoy the device's weight and compression. It's similar to the cozy sensation of a weighted blanket, but it also involves my partner's enjoyment and orgasms.

You strive to get complicated, especially when you're asleep when you truly begin to "feel" the cage. Getting an erection at night is just painful. It abruptly awakens you from your slumber to excruciating pain. It's most likely the most unpleasant aspect of spending several days in a chastity cage.

Those same erections are less painful throughout the day. In a decent cage, the hardness straining against the cage's confines is hot to the touch. When I wear a terrible cage, I can feel my dick hardening and pulling away from my body. This can cause excruciating discomfort when I tug on the rings underneath my sack. But for me, the ideal cage provides strong constriction without making me feel sick from pulling on my balls. It's like pressing hard against my hand that is squeezed tightly, but that hand is composed of metal bars.

The way the entire package moves is also slightly altered when wearing a cage. For example, I would often only move the shaft to urinate, and it would be able to move by itself. Simply trying to push the shaft will always result in an all-encompassing sensation that also affects movement in the balls because everything is related when wearing a cage. Downstairs, everything sort of flows together in a way that isn't possible without a cage.

According to the other, it's similar to a corset for your penis. If you have the correct size, it feels like a continuous, tight hug around the entire object, but if you have the wrong size, it can hurt. It is like a kinky secret that only you and I are aware of. I could avoid putting the cage on and off, but I enjoy the sense of control. Due to my dick's independent nature and constant need to become hard while doing it, it's a significant pain in the ass.

How does it feel to be in a chastity cage? It's similar to gripping my hand tightly, only that hand is composed of metal bars.

Does a chastity cage hurt?

It doesn't have to, but it can.

Based on everything you've read thus far, you may have inferred that your level of comfort is determined by how well your chastity cage fits.

If your cage doesn't fit properly, it will most likely hurt. The skin may be pinched, or the testicles may be strangled as they separate from the body. Sitting down could make it easier to "ball tap" yourself since the cage may droop away from the body. It could rub off the skin or result in rashes.

Usually, a cage made for your physique won't cause any pain. A small amount of lubricant applied to your skin in the proper size can relieve friction and rashes.

Although you should anticipate feeling pressured and heavy, a chastity cage shouldn't cause any pain. If it does, identify the source of the discomfort and try to address it. Purchasing a smaller penis tube for your cage is often the solution.

Your level of comfort depends on how well your chastity cage fits.

Can you get complicated in a chastity cage?

Both yes and no!

Even while your penis can start the physiological process of becoming erect, it won't have enough space to grow in a cage that fits adequately. One of the main features of stiff chastity cages is that they are designed to keep men from getting a full erection.

When the penis is erect, its flesh will squeeze out into any available space, such as the space between your cage's metal bars. Check out the image below to see what a penis would look like as it tries to spread out around the metal bars of Lock the Cock's Cage of Shame.

However, because the penis will not have enough room to become fully erect, it will only reach the "peak" hardness it can achieve in the cage, throb for a bit, and then the erection will go away.

This process will probably be felt by you, mainly as the penis takes up all of the cage's area. There will be more pressure and restriction around the shaft than you're used to, but the throbbing will still be the same familiar, turned-on pulsing.

You might be able to get primarily erect with a chastity cage that doesn't fit well. Doing this will probably force the cage out of your body, giving the base ring a vice-grip on your testicles. This can be really, really uncomfortable, which is why it's so crucial to acquire the appropriate size.

Can you pee in a chastity cage?

You can, indeed. The majority of cages have a hole in the chastity cage tip that allows urine to drip. The tip of a cage is more likely to line up with the urine drain hole in the tip of the chastity cage if it is fitted and oriented correctly. Urine will eventually flow out the tip of the cage like a funnel in other situations where the penis is a little off to the side of the drain hole.

Nearly all chastity cage wearers must sit down in order to urinate. The ensuing pee stream might be highly erratic due to the difficulty of precisely positioning the penis.

Some chastity cages, such as the Sevanda Golden Cage, seen below, have an optional urethral tube to facilitate urinating, though this is not advised for novices.

How to Choose and Buy a Male Chastity Cage for Your Chastity Kink

To start with, you will likely purchase multiple male chastity cages.

On your first attempt, locating the ideal cock cage is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. Despite your best efforts and six measurements, you will probably discover that your body prefers something a little bit smaller or larger than what you initially selected.

That's fortunate! It's similar to making a new dinner and then deciding to add additional spices the next time. You've gained knowledge that will improve your experiences going forward.

The majority of kinky specialists advise against spending a lot of money on your first chastity device because of this. Although purchasing the cheapest chastity cages is generally not recommended, a mid-range chastity device will provide you with a satisfying chastity kink experience and make sure you don't feel too guilty about trying something different.

I would suggest the following while selecting your penis cage:

Considering your way of life and selecting the kind of cage you want
Using your flaccid measurements to calculate the size of your chastity cage on five separate days
contacting the shop or manufacturer with any inquiries
Buying your cage

Chastity Cage Materials

The material has most likely been used to create a chastity cage if it can be used to create a "cage." But unless you're looking at uncommon, costly materials, metal, silicone, TPE/TPR, and plastic are the most likely materials you'll see. Every substance has pros and cons of its own.

Metal Chastity Cages

The stiff substance of a metal male chastity cage comes next. These are the most prevalent kinds of chastity cages you will come across. Their costs have been significantly lowered by factory manufacture, making them far more inexpensive than the metal cages of the previous generation.

You can secure metal chastity cages with a lock and key since they are completely inflexible. They are unlikely to remain on the penis unless you "lock" them in some way, just like their plastic counterparts. The lock is a fastening mechanism used in the majority of metal cages.

When it comes to chastity cages, metal cages are notoriously the heaviest. A metal chastity cage can cover you if pressure and pulling on the complete package are contributing factors to your chastity kink.

This further emphasizes how crucial it is to find a metal chastity cage that fits properly. Only a tight, solid fit will keep the cage on your junk because gravity will constantly pull it down. Because of their weight, metal cages can be very annoying for those who are unfamiliar with them; a tight fit is necessary to prevent sliding.

Additionally, because of their weight, metal cages may swing more forcefully. People who exercise vigorously while "in chastity" can discover that they must take the device off in order to exercise safely. If not, the penis cage can cause their thighs, testicles, and penis to become bruised. (The cage's pull and velocity can be lessened with the use of snug, incredibly supportive underpants.)

The majority of metal chastity cages will also trigger any metal detectors, which makes them an unwise option for those who frequently fly, work in secure environments, or may be employed in specific medical specialties.

Even still, many chastity kink players find that nothing compares to the appearance and feel of a metal chastity cage. Other materials are unable to match its "straight from the dungeon" appearance. It is far more difficult to forget the wearer's position because of the penis' "jail" appearance, the cage's weight, and the shining, eye-catching metal.

Silicone Chastity Cages

Our silicone chastity cages are among the newest products on the chastity cage market. They are a hybrid of TPE/TPR alternatives and plastic chastity cages. Although their material is more complex than TPE/TPR, they are not entirely inflexible.

However, the majority of silicone chastity cages are reasonably sensation-proof because of their thick silicone coating.

Due to its nature, silicone has a certain amount of "grippiness" in contrast to the smooth material possibilities of plastic and metal. This may make it easier for the chastity cage to remain in place. Additionally, it provides a certain amount of friction between clothing and undergarments; this friction can help a silicone cage stay tighter against the body than a metal cage.

Despite this, silicone chastity cages are more challenging to put on at first than their metal and plastic equivalents. When sliding a silicone chastity cage onto the penis, you should use more lubrication because that tacky friction affects the skin of the penis.

Many of the cock cages currently available on the market are made of a combination of silicone and other materials in order to maintain a low price point. If you are sensitive to certain materials on your skin, be cautious when purchasing chastity devices because many manufacturers do not reveal their blends.

Plastic Chastity Cages

Then there are plastic chastity cages. These cages will cost more than their TPE/TPR counterparts but less than those made of silicone or metal.

They do, however, provide the inflexible, "no sensation" functioning that many chastity kink players seek. When worn, the hard plastic creates a solid shell around the shaft, eliminating any sensation in the penis.

Beginners frequently choose plastic cages early in their adventure because they are typically the least priced of the stiff options. Just watch out for low-cost possibilities; if you don't purchase your chastity cage from a reliable retailer like Lock the Cock, it can have sharp, unfinished, unsanded edges made of plastic. Before trying to wear a chastity cage down there, make sure to rub your fingertips over all of its surfaces. Otherwise, you'll experience what it's like to cut your penis.

Because plastic is a rigid material, a plastic cage may be secured with locks and keys. However, the parts of the cage frequently won't close unless they are secured with a lock.

Plastic chastity cages aren't just for novices; some people still like them after years of experience. They don't set off metal detectors and weigh less than their metal equivalents. With a metal lock securing them, they are less prone to "jingle" and offer a pleasing look that some people find appealing.

TPE/TPR Chastity Cages

Although TPE/TPR cock cages are the least familiar material, they do exist. Their unique material can feel something like a penis stroker, and they are soft and squishy.

Advocates of TPE/TPR cages appreciate the cages' extremely low cost and lightweight nature. For those on a tight budget who can only afford one cage, TPE/TPR chastity cages are an excellent choice because most of them are "stretch to fit," which also means that there aren't many sizing concerns.

But because these cages are "stretch to fit," they don't offer as much confining as cages made of hard materials. It is still possible to squeeze the entire chastity cage to enjoy the penis. Also, there isn't an actual lock and key.

How to Measure and Size for a Chastity Cage

The sizing profile of each chastity cage you are considering buying will vary. Every male chastity cage is different, after all. The fact that every cage you try has a distinct appearance and feel may be part of what makes them enjoyable!

After you've chosen a cage that appeals to you, follow the manufacturer's instructions for determining the size of your penis for your chastity cage.

Generally speaking, you should measure the length of the flaccid shaft and the area beneath the testicles (for example, pressing the balls away from your body by making a circle with your thumb and pointer and placing it underneath the balls against your torso). Additionally, specific cages could call for a flaccid penis circumference or diameter.

It is best to take these measurements while feeling relaxed. You don't want to imagine erotic things, but you also don't want to be frigid. If you were bored and sitting on a wonderfully comfy bus, your penis would be in its "ideal" state.

(Unfortunately for you, when many people consider measuring for a cage, they may begin to become aroused!)

I strongly advise taking the measurements over several days at various points. Arousal level, temperature, and even your morning workout can all have an impact on shaft length. Being aware of the measurement on any given day can be a fantastic place to start if you may be wearing a chastity cage during all of these cycles.

(If you intend to use your dick cage for a specific activity, try taking multiple measurements on different days during that activity.)

Get in touch with the manufacturer if you have any questions or concerns regarding the differences between the dimensions you have taken and the size of the chastity cage you are considering. Size is the most frequent query that chastity retailers receive. The experience and knowledge of retailers, such as Lock the Cock, can assist you in deciding whether to acquire a new cage or size up or down. Make use of them to your advantage because they want you to love your cage and return for more!

(Some upscale chastity producers might also provide sizing kits. Investing in one of these measuring kits to find the ideal fit for your physique can be worthwhile, particularly if you're considering a custom cage or a high-end purchase. However, for the novice or casual player, this might not be at the degree of seriousness you're interested in.)

Tips for Exploring a Chastity Kink with a Chastity Device

There are a few ways to improve the experience if you decide to use a chastity device to explore a chastity kink:

Use a bit of lube to put it on. To get the cage on, the majority of cock cage owners swear by a small amount of silicone lube (if you're using a silicone cage, use water-based). Also, keep that bottle of lubrication handy. Any place that feels constricted while wearing the cage can be treated with it. That cage might slide off you, though, if you apply too much lubrication. There should be just enough friction to hold the chastity device in place but not enough to make insertion uncomfortable.
Ensure you have access to a key. I am well aware that being unavoidably locked is a component of the "hot." However, "inescapable" is only enjoyable up until an emergency occurs. Without the key, your only alternatives, if your penis begins to turn purple from pinched blood flow, are to have it cut off by a professional locksmith or by going to the emergency room. You should always have your key on hand in case of an emergency, even at work. (Plus, if you're merely enduring a lot of agony that could be avoided by just taking out the cage and readjusting the skin, is it delightful to be in chastity?)
Start slow. You are considering putting a delicate body part in a heavy "jail" in a manner that you have never done before. It won't be possible for you to start wearing it constantly right away. If you want to become used to the feel of the gadget, try wearing it for a few hours at a time during foreplay. Keep in mind that although wearing a chastity cage is frequently marketed as a way to achieve hands-free orgasm, it takes time and effort to achieve (and it's cool if you never do!). Instead, try to enjoy the moment for what it is: amazing on its own.
Try wearing it to new places! Although you can wear your chastity cage anywhere you choose, the wonderful thing about a cage that fits neatly into your underwear is that it can travel most places. With your key in hand, you can go to almost any place. While wearing your cage, try going on a stroll in the park, going grocery shopping, or having supper.

Even while it's common to wear chastity devices all day and all night, you may still have a great time only wearing your cage for some foreplay!

Consider:

Put on your favorite erotica, mental fantasy, or porn and strap yourself inside the chastity cage if you're alone. Try to turn yourself on by experimenting with various sensations. Are you interested in trying butt plugs? Getting your nipples touched? Are soft textiles falling across your skin? When you remove the penis from the equation, how else does your body feel pleasure?
A couple's play can benefit from the same concept. While their partner does everything in their power to try to turn the chaste spouse on as much as possible, the chaste partner may be restrained and confined. To see what's feasible, they can even try touching the cage or going through it. You'll both have a terrific time if you consider the chastity cage to be a different kind of "sex toy" to play with.
An excellent "excuse" for a service evening is being imprisoned in a penile cage. Set a timer for a few hours after the chaste person has been placed in a cage, during which the locked partner is supposed to "serve" the unlocked partner. This might be doing housework or just giving the unlocked partner a back rub to help them unwind. It could involve endless glasses of wine, head-scratching, or hours of oral sex. After spending so much time together, the cage can be removed after the allotted time is up to explore your respective moods.

Chastity Cages and Safety

Chastity cages are not risk-free. In actuality, you're limiting the range of motion of a body part that was designed to move. To secure everything in place, you're also encircling the balls' bases with a pseudo-cock ring.

Depending on what triggers your chastity kink, you may wind up wearing that device for hours on end, feeling aroused while exercising, moving, and going about your regular activities.

Regretfully, peer-reviewed research isn't actually available for our particular pastime, like many other things. Chastity cages haven't made an academic appearance yet. However, there are some studies on the safety and dangers associated with wearing cock rings.

My girlfriend and I have had numerous injuries as a result of wearing chastity cages, and we are now much more concerned about safety when it comes to chastity devices. (In fact, I spend a lot of time teaching risk awareness in my chastity workshops, which could have helped us avoid some of our injuries if we had known!)

My purpose is not to frighten you! The only reason I'm here is to let you know that using chastity cages is not risk-free. You can harm "the goods" by wearing a male chastity device, just as having intercourse can cause a heart attack or break your penis. Nevertheless, despite our past injuries, my companions and I continue to experiment with chastity cages on a regular basis; we're just much more cautious now than we were before.

Your most significant risks at the moment, based on peer-reviewed research on related activities and the best predictions of urologists, are:

Reduced blood flow from the circular testicular ring being too tight. Invest in a cage that fits appropriately to lower your danger. (Actually. Necrosis may result from persistently decreased blood flow. You do not want that in this place!
Skin sores and rashes can result from the cage rubbing against your skin. Make sure your cage fits correctly, remove it to clean it and yourself regularly, and apply small amounts of silicone lubrication to reduce excessive friction.
Potential loss of erectile tissue strength from constant constriction over multiple months. If this worries you, play with chastity cages in brief bursts and don't wear them while you sleep so your nocturnal penile tumescence can stretch your tissues.
Potential formation of Peyronie's disease from achieving erections or orgasming in the cage. Avoid lengthy, deliberate erections and ejaculation while wearing the cage if this worries you.
Potential blockage of the cords or serious injury from orgasming while wearing the cage. Avoid ejaculating while wearing the cage if this worries you.

Get help right away if you're worried about your penis at any time. You should seek medical attention within 48 hours, mainly if something is "stuck" on your penis (such as a chastity cage!). Get assistance as quickly as you can; depending on the hospital's triage level, they might not have the tools needed to remove a cage and might need to call in experts.

Do you have a chance to experience these things? Hopefully not. However, until it occurs, you can never be sure that you will be that statistic. Take action before something goes wrong to reduce any risks that don't fit within your risk profile.

Fortunately for everyone, the majority of health issues associated with wearing chastity devices may be mitigated by choosing a device that fits well, paying attention to your body, cleaning the device and yourself on a regular basis, avoiding orgasms while wearing the cage, and not always wearing the device to sleep.

Other fundamental guidelines for chastity cage safety include:

If it hurts, take it off. The purpose of a chastity cage is to cause discomfort, similar to that of a tight corset. It is not intended to be painful. Remove it if you experience any pain.
Ensure your chastity cage is a good fit for your body before wearing it long-term. Cages that don't fit properly can increase your risk of getting hurt.
If your penis or balls turns black or blue (or show any other signs of blood restriction), take it off. It's possible that your cage is not a good fit or that it has adjusted itself incorrectly.
Put on and take off your cage very slowly. Talk up if your partner is placing it on you in a way that hurts or makes you uncomfortable. The phrase "I'll just tolerate it for a little bit" may indicate an impending injury. Additionally, it is best to wear and remove the cage when the penis is not flaccid because the more blood in the area, the tighter the cage will be, making self-harm more straightforward.
Avoid grinding or any pressure on the chastity cage while worn - especially when erect. In addition to putting additional strain on the scrotum, this may cause damage to the ligaments that support the package.
Avoid high-impact activities while wearing your chastity cage. While this might be as "innocent" as a game of basketball or CrossFit, it could also be as sexual as ball-busting. To lower the risk of damage, if you plan to perform those activities while wearing the cage, pick a lightweight cage, put on very supportive underwear, and consider adding padding.

Chastity cages can be an exciting new method to experience orgasm denial, have a chastity kink, and intensify your orgasms. Pick the appropriate cage, exercise caution, and have fun.