Classic Bed Bondage Sex Position

The Traditional Bed Due to its ease of usage and accessibility, the bondage sex position is among the first bondage positions that couples experiment with after receiving a pair of handcuffs.

The tied person must lie flat on their back with their head close to the bed's headboard in order to enter this sex position. The freed partner will next use some restraint to hold the bound person's hands over their head to the headboard above them (cuffs are seen in the picture, but any type of restraint, such as rope or bondage tape, could be used). While the person in the restraint is tied to the bed, the unbound spouse is then allowed to come and go as they like.

The Spread Eagle posture, which uses four bondage points and attempts to spread the limbs out as much as possible, is a heavier bondage variation of the Classic Bed Bondage posture. Never leave a person in bondage alone. The unbound partner should never leave the bound partner alone in the room, even though they can quickly move about and adjust their position.

More About Classic Bed Bondage Sex Position

One of the first bondage positions that most couples experiment with is the Classic Bed Bondage position. The Classic Bed Bondage position makes bondage seem less intimidating than some of the other bondage positions out there (we're looking at you, Hogtie!) since it takes place in a familiar setting (your bed!) and only requires one basic object (a single pair of cuffs!).

Additionally, it may be adjusted to accommodate the pair by simply adding wrist cuffs. The Classic Bed Bondage position can work well if oral sex is your partner's preferred method of intercourse. The Classic Bed Bondage position also fits the bill if you and your lover enjoy vaginal sex! The Classic Bed Bondage position can also be used if you and your spouse enjoy cuddling while frotting and viewing porn together.

Because of its simplicity, the Classic Bed Bondage position may meet a couple where they are and while they are engaging in their favourite activities. This can be one of the easiest ways to introduce bondage into the bedroom for the first time, and it only costs a small amount of money (just the price of the handcuffs!). (And, if you're skilled, it's an easy, fuss-free method of adding bondage without having to open the bondage toybox!)

Challenges With the Bed Bondage Sex Position

Choosing a bed frame is the most significant obstacle that most couples will encounter. A headboard with patterns that could serve as bondage points is necessary for this bondage sex position, as shown. However, many couples might not have a headboard that provides this utility as design trends shift away from the column-based headboard.

There is yet hope! The spirit of this position can be achieved in a number of ways without the metal bed frame:

  • Straps are woven under the mattress as part of the Under-the-Bed Restraint system. Your body weight on top of the mattress holds these straps in place while they rise from below it. The hands can be secured to the bed with this. Bondage points are located on either side of the sex furniture in the Liberator Black Label Wedge. Just make use of the cuffs being right there and utilize the wedge as a pillow. (The Assisted Queen provides a simple illustration to help you grasp this.)
  • Under a pillow, a spreader bar might be placed with its ends protruding close to the tied person's hands, where cuffs may be fastened.
  • If your bed frame includes feet but no headboard, you can attach the bound spouse with tethers or chains by using the feet as a bondage point leading up to the bed's wrist cuffs.
  • Standard bondage cuffs can be used to secure the wrists together and hold them up above the head. Attaching them to any bondage point in the house is not necessary.

Bed Bondage and Accessibility

This is one of the most accessible bondage positions for persons with chronic pain or disability because it takes place on your existing familiar bed and only requires one or two limbs raised above the head. In this posture, any devices that are often used to make the bed more comfortable—such as bolsters, heating pads, sex furniture, nasal cannulas, and more—are welcome.

Additionally, the Classic Bed Bondage position may be accessible to bound partners who are wholly or partially paralyzed. The bound partner only needs to recline on their comfortable bed and engage in activities that suit them best. Those who are paralyzed or with a new or unfamiliar lover may find this to be of particular use. It can be simpler to get into bed safely and comfortably with their typical adaptive bed support devices, requiring less help from a stranger.

The Classic Bed Bondage position may also be appreciated by anyone who has a chronic disease or pain. Someone who wants to experience intimacy but is physically in pain can use the pain-relieving tools they require to have fun, thanks to the bed's soft surface and minimal movement requirements. While lying strapped in this position, you can wear compression devices, cooling pads, medical vibration devices, heating pads, TENS units, and more. Either partner can continue to enjoy the position without bothering the pain relief device, as they would want to do anyhow.

For whatever reason, keep in mind that you are not required to elevate both hands to the top of the bed in order to do the Classic Bed Bondage posture. All you have to do is hold one hand. A set of tethers allows you to move your hands practically anywhere around the upper part of the bed while still staying in the bound position, which is helpful if you have shoulder mobility issues or your body finds the overhead position uncomfortable.

Additionally, think about doing away with the bed-based bondage element entirely if that doesn't work! The wrists can be held at the side for mental bondage with cuffs surrounding the wrists for extra sensation, or they might be linked to one another while lying on top of the bound person's tummy.

This bondage position can be used for a wide variety of paired activities because it is so adaptable. There is no need for sexual action if you would rather have a non-sexual bondage. You two can cuddle and watch TV if bondage calms your partner while they are doing other activities.

Because it allows the unbound partner to move freely while the bound partner's lower body is totally accessible and mobile, it's also great for activities that centre on the bound partner. This stance goes nicely with cock worship, pussy worship, orgasm denial, edging, or orgasm torture. In order to provide an orgasm, the unbound partner may also use a sex item on the tied partner.

The Classic Bed Bondage position is on top of your bed, although we do not advise sleeping in it. It will become painful to keep the hands over the head for extended periods, and they might try to roll while they sleep and unintentionally pull a shoulder muscle.