Cock Gagging

A type of fellatio known as "cock gagging" involves the recipient's penis being pushed deep into the giver's mouth and throat. The goal of the penetration depth and force is to cause the giver to choke (also known as cock choke), gag, or even throw up. To make sure the giver puts the penis deep in their mouth and throat, the receiving partner may hold the giver's head.

Any pair can engage in cock gagging. Wearing a strap-on allows persons of either sex to practice cock gagging. However, the providing partner is typically someone with a penis. Cock gagging is frequently referred to as a gag job or just gagging.

Cock gagging vs. deep throating

Since both deepthroating and cock gagging entail pushing the penis deep into a partner's mouth, they are connected. However, most people consider cock gagging to be a more severe form of deep-throating.

Deep throating can cause gagging and vomiting, although this is not the goal of this kind of fellatio. But the goal of cock gagging is, at the very least, to make the providing partner gag on a cock. Deep-throating enthusiasts may invest time in honing their gag reflex so they may insert a penis deep into their throat and mouth without experiencing any gag reflexes. While gagging is the intended outcome, this is not necessary for cock gagging.

The individual delivering the blow job typically controls how much pleasure their partner receives during deep throating. The power dynamic changes when cock gagging occurs. Because their partner controls the depth and rate of penetration, the individual who delivers the blow job is in a more precarious position.

Cock gagging in pornography

In pornography, cock gagging is common. According to a 2015 survey, scenes of physical aggression, such as slapping, choking, and cock gagging, are present in 88% of the most popular porn. There is general agreement that cock gagging in porn is prevalent, even though it is challenging to pinpoint the precise percentage of these scenes that contain gagging.

By normalizing and glamorizing cock gagging as a frequent sexual act, pornography contributes significantly to its popularity, according to Lilithfoxx, a board-certified sexologist and AASECT-certified sexuality educator. It frequently presents gagging as a regular aspect of oral sex, which may affect viewers' expectations and views. Gagging in porn can become normalized through repeated exposure, which encourages people to use it in their sexual repertoire.

It's crucial to remember that pornography frequently fails to depict the consent, communication, and safety precautions required for such acts, which can cause misunderstandings regarding how they are carried out and enjoyed.

Why do people like cock gagging

Cock gagging can be enjoyable for both giving and receiving couples for several reasons. Given that cock gagging has become commonplace due to its depiction in pornography, both givers and recipients may enjoy it. People find it exciting to perform sex actions they see in porn because it fulfills their dreams.

Cock gagging for receiving partners.

It can be a huge ego boost for receiving partners to set off their gag reflexes. Because they're having trouble taking such a big penis, they might think their spouse is gagging.

Those who are inclined toward dominance may find cock gagging appealing since it places the receiving partner in a more powerful position than other types of fellatio. The giving partner determines the pressure and pace in a classic blow job. The individual who enters their partner's mouth first gains control during cock gagging.

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According to Zachary Zane, a sex and relationships specialist at Fun Factory who likes cock gagging as both the giver and the recipient, "it's hot to see it worshipped." It's hot to watch someone fight to handle everything. It's hot (in a seductive, sadist manner) to watch it make someone cry or feel uncomfortable.

Cock gagging is a widespread practice in BDSM because of the powerful position it places the receiver in.

Former dominatrix Emme Witt-Eden, who discovered that male subordinates liked her cock-gagging using a strap-on, observed, "It can make the person whose cock is being gagged on feel powerful, even superior." Being the dom is all about feeling like you're in charge and "lording" over the sub. Therefore, this is a turn-on during D/s play. This sensation is caused by cock gagging, which involves controlling your sub by impaling their mouth on your cock and even (safely) cutting off their air supply. Since part of the thrill is causing the submissive to suffer, this is also a type of D/s play because it can also be uncomfortable for the person receiving the cock gagging.

Because of the additional depth, cock gagging can also produce a delightful deep blow job experience. More nerve endings are stimulated when the providing partner places the penis deep in their mouth as opposed to when they deliver a typical blow job.

"Your entire penis, not just your head or shaft, is being stimulated," Zane observes.

The bow job may be more enjoyable when the supplying partner gags since they also produce more saliva.

Cock is gagging for giving partners.

Among giving partners, cock gagging may be more divisive. The sensation of gagging or the want to throw up that can accompany cock gagging is unpleasant to some people. But via this activity, others might relish the feeling of dominance and even degradation.

"Psychologically, you feel really' slutty,'" Zane stated. I feel like such a "whore," and in a beautiful way, while I'm gagging on cock.

Giving partners may find the uncomfortable feelings associated with cock gagging enjoyable since they are aware that they are straining the boundaries of their bodies.

In light of this, Zane added, "Cock-gagging can be a form of breath play." Cock-gagging might be of interest to you if you enjoy being strangled during intercourse.

Cock gagging consent and safety.

It may appear as though the receiving partner is pushing their penis into their partner's mouth when cock gagging occurs. Consent is essential, though, even when forced to gag on the cock.

According to Dr. Michael Grey, a kink-affirming marital and family therapist, "consent can be revoked at any time for any reason, and that needs to be honored." Both participants must offer their enthusiastic assent and grasp the intricacies of consent. A safe word or signal that conveys that the person is alright should also be used, and the scene should be discussed before putting anything in someone's mouth.

Check-in is crucial to minimizing unfavorable or unexpected situations, and aftercare needs to be discussed and used.

Cock gagging and STIs

Cock gagging can spread genital herpes, gonorrhea, and chlamydia, just like any other type of oral sex. Because oral cuts and ulcers give germs and viruses an easy way to enter the mouth, there is a higher chance that the providing partner has any of these conditions. Dental dams and condoms can lower the risk.

Other Safety Risks

Cock gagging's forceful pushing can cause rawness and bruises to the throat. Additionally, there is a little chance that the penis will burst the airways. The giving partner should get medical help if they have trouble breathing after cock gagging.

There are more significant risks involved when using cock gagging as a breath play technique. Cock gagging and breath play should only be attempted by those who are interested in the method with partners they are comfortable with and trust. To ensure their safety, the receiving partner should keep a close eye on the giver and check in with them on a regular basis.