Cocktail Weenies: Small Penis Humiliation 101

Individuals who have a slight penis humiliation kink take pleasure in being made fun of for having a little penis, regardless of whether it is genuinely smaller than average. Take all necessary measures before participating in this kind of play to make sure it remains enjoyable for everyone.

"You're not worthy of fucking me. Don't use that tiny item between your legs.

During our little impact play, those derogatory remarks whined as they struck their intended target.

You see, the foundation of my dynamic is small penis humiliation, which is enjoyable to both my partner and me. We both like to pretend that his penis is insufficient—and utterly incapable of pleasing me—despite the fact that it is of ordinary size, and I don't care for anything more significant than average.

Although we love other types of sex rather frequently, we don't often engage in penis-in-vagina penetration! For instance, in addition to pegging and threesome roleplays, strap-on harnesses and dildos are commonly seen in our bedroom.

Why do individuals like little penis humiliation, and what does it entail?

This is a brief, entertaining introduction to the world of small penis humiliation, or "SPH," as it is usually shortened to prevent fingers from falling off.

What is Small Penis Humiliation?

You can acquire the whole definition of "small penis humiliation" if you are willing to break it down. (This kind of neat conclusion is uncommon in the kink community.)

In other words: Whether or not their penis is truly below average, people with a slight penis humiliation kink are aroused (and/or like) being made fun of for having a small penis. Some fetishists of small penis humiliation may find it attractive to have their entire value as a sexual partner related to the size of their penis, and they may even like being compared to others with larger penises.

Conversely, some people like humiliating little penises because it gives them complete control. Small penis humiliation can be a component of the general humiliation that some tops (i.e., SPH-givers) relish.

Other tops love how this kind of play may transition into other fetishes, like as utilizing dildos, cuckolding, or strap-on sex, which can satisfy the top's desires while still making the situation stimulating for everyone.

Because they might not want penetration, other tops prefer little penis humiliation. Additionally, many SPH-enjoying penis owners appreciate the stereotype that they're "too small" to penetrate. Thus, it's a win-win situation.

Similar to how some emotional sadism scenes can be cathartic because you know your partner is aware of your self-consciousness and still cares about you (and/or wants to have sex with you), small penis humiliation scenes can be incredibly intimate and bonding for those who are experiencing this kink.

But How Can Humiliation Be A Turn-On?

It may surprise you to learn that many people who are fetishistic about tiny penis humiliation actually have a somewhat average-sized penis.

Like any other kink, anyone can become sexually aroused by a thought. (I've even met a couple of strap-on wielders who purposefully wear tiny dildos to express their tiny penis kinks of embarrassment!)

Nevertheless, many members of the SPH group have smaller-than-normal penises. Persons who have smaller-than-average penises may use tiny penis humiliation as a means of presenting their bodies in a good light in opposition to society structures that constantly call them less-than, much like some plus-sized persons develop feeder fetishists or piggy/cow roleplay fetishists.

Penis owners are constantly told that their penis is "bigger is better" throughout their life, even though this isn't how society should function. This might have been exacerbated (unintentionally!) when they attempted to have an intimate relationship with someone if they had a particularly nasty spouse or partner.

Some of the "wires" in the brain may eventually start to cross, and eroticism may result from those same "bigger is better" cues. A little penis humiliation kink may really begin to feel like a launching pad for some people during those unwelcome, uncomfortable moments with a nasty or emotionally abusive intimate partner.

What Should I Do If I Want to Try Small Penis Humiliation?

Particularly in the bedroom, embarrassment can be a terrible beast.

Being turned on and engrossed in the depths of lust can be incredibly seductive, but if you're not careful, it could backfire. These three actions will help ensure that any humiliation remains enjoyable for both parties.

1. Plan for Extended Aftercare

The most crucial thing in any erotic humiliation scene is to make sure that the "humiliation" is not taken personally. It is not meant to be an accurate reflection of self-worth but rather to be there for erotic pleasure.

In light of this, when you finish an SPH session, budget for prolonged aftercare. Assure each other that you still like each other and that any humiliation you have used doesn't truly represent how you feel about each other. You likely touched on real sensations, depending on your level of sadism and interest in doing so. Nevertheless, you should still budget for a lengthy aftercare period to recover, return to reality, establish your relationship, and strengthen your bond with your spouse.

2. Talk About No-No Zones

Like little penis humiliation kinksters, most of us have parts of ourselves that are too raw to be used as humiliation material.

They can object to you bringing up their value as a sexual partner or bringing up the subject of having outside partners. Issues with weight or other aspects of body image could be triggers (in a negative sense).

To avoid embarrassment, make sure you and your spouse discuss what is acceptable, what is awkward, and what is not allowed. Setting up the "fence" now can assist later because it might be tempting to bring up additional humiliating things to go along with SPH, especially when you're both engrossed at the moment.

3. Set Up A Safeword

One kink that allows you both to quickly and deeply into the roleplay is humiliation. With a safeword, make sure that the channels of communication are always open between you two. If something does, in fact, touch a nerve that neither of you anticipated, you can immediately pause, discuss it, and reroute if needed.

After taking the required safety measures, you can try little penis humiliation in a few different ways:

How to Explore Small Penis Humiliation

• Purchase condoms that are much too large for the penis owner. Play up the fact that they are unable to use a simple condom and pretend that the "small size made just for them" is the standard size that you use. It will slide off if you wear an extra-large condom that doesn't fit for safer sex.
• Get a new sex toy for size comparisons. Here, a dildo works wonderfully. Show it next to the penis of the owner and explain how the two are different in size. Emphasize how much fun the sex toy will be compared to the owner's penis.
• "Force" the penis owner to use that sex toy on their partner. Strap-on or manual methods can be used for this. Deny the owner of a little penis any sexual activity if you both want to; if that sounds nice for you both, you could even attempt denying them an orgasm because "small penises don't deserve it."
• Get a large penis stroker. The majority of penis owners are not nearly big enough to fill the entire stroker because many full-sized fleshlights are over 10 inches long. Take advantage of this and emphasize that they can't fill up an essential sex toy. If they can't even fill up a toy, how can you expect to feel pleasure? You could also chastise them for even obtaining the sex toy.
• Make them hump things. You don't deserve to have sex with me since your penis is too little! Making the owner of the penis hump things to the utmost. This could be a pillow or mattress, a sex doll, or even a penis stroker in sex furniture.
• Try out a penis extender. (The Perfect Fit Breeder is what we suggest.) Penis extenders don't necessarily need to be fetishized, but now is a fantastic moment to attempt to make their existence more embarrassing by using filthy language. Talk about how the extender makes the penis owner feel "bigger" and how much better that larger size feels when they are using it.

There you have it: a basic explanation of little penis humiliation, along with advice for beginners. I wish this small, pitiful piece were longer!