A Couple's Guide to Having Sex in the Water

Sex in the water appears effortless on TV and, more significantly, really attractive, thanks to showers, baths, hot tubs, and swimming pools. However, as anyone who has ever attempted to put it on underwater knows, appearances can be deceiving. If you're not careful, things can get slippery (and not in a good way).

You can still have incredible sex in the water even if your dry-land sex moves don't work in the shower. Aside from getting some waterproof sex toys, you might need to make some changes. Here are some suggestions from the professionals at FunLove.com for the greatest and wettest sex of your life.

Water Does Not Equal Lube

Let's establish some guidelines for having sex in any damp setting before we get started. First and foremost, bring some lubricant for the sake of orgasms and all things sacred. We get your question: Why would you need lube if you were surrounded by water? Selecting the appropriate lubricant is crucial for having successful sex in the water, even though it may seem paradoxical.

This is because, despite their apparent similarities, water and the natural lubricant produced by the body are highly different. Water causes drying since it removes your natural lubricant. Make sure you pack a durable silicone-based lubrication to help prevent this. (Note that silicone lube is more likely to degrade silicone sex toys, even if it is ideal for this type of setting.)

Lube may be necessary if you're having sex in a shower or underwater, even if you don't typically need it for comfortable sex. Inadequate lubrication can cause excessive friction and even excruciating microabrasions, particularly while having sex in saline water or a chlorinated pool. Numerous infections, including a higher risk of sexually transmitted diseases, can result from the same microabrasions.

Another justification for using lubricant when engaging in water sex? Condom* breaking can also result from the same friction and dryness. Avoid using water-based lubes (which won't last long if you're submerged) or oil-based lubes (which can harm condoms).

*A note on safe sex: Condoms will usually still function in the shower, but if you attempt to use them underwater, there's a powerful possibility they will completely slip off. You might want to reconsider having sex in the water if you are not in a monogamous relationship and are not using another form of birth control.

Get Creative With Sex Positions

You might need (or want) to be creative about how you have sex, depending on the available space. For every type of wet environment, you can attempt these tried-and-true sex positions.

Sex Positions for the Bathtub

If you don't have a large bathtub or if you or your partner are taller or more prominent, bathtub sex may seem a little challenging. Think of this as an excuse to reserve that opulent hotel room with the Whirlpool spa for the weekend if you're a tub sex enthusiast but your home bathtub is too small. Take bathtime to the next level by experimenting with these positions and setting the ambience with seductive candles.

Cowgirl. Straddle your spouse with your knees while they lean back in the tub. Hold onto the tub's sides with your (dry!) hands to ensure you're adequately supported. (For greater leverage, try reverse cowgirl.) There will undoubtedly be a lot of splashing, so be careful not to fill the bathtub too much.

Doggy Style. It's not precisely in the bathtub and not quite doggie style, but sometimes you have to make do. While the other partner enters from behind, one can lean over the tub's side or end. This is a fantastic chance to test that new strapless shoe you recently acquired.

Lotus. The lotus posture can be romantic and intimate if your bathtub is sufficiently spacious. Sit on their lap, face each other, and encircle their body with your legs. In a bit of time, you will be able to feel the motion of the water.

Pro Tip: To avoid any unwelcome slipping and sliding, get an anti-slip bath mat.

Sex Positions for the Shower

Unrealistic expectations for shower sex are one of the things porn has given us. In actuality, having successful shower sex requires perseverance, self-control, and a little commitment. But we're confident you'll get there with practice and these fluid techniques.

Standing Doggy Style. This position lowers the chance of falling because both partners keep both feet on the ground. One partner leans forward with slightly bent knees and places their palms against the shower wall. Using their fingers, penis, waterproof dildo, or another preferred tool, the other partner pierces them from behind.

One Leg Up. This position, which is most effective if you have a shower-tub combo, involves the standing partner placing their foot on the tub's side. For some sultry oral sex, the other person can get down on their knees and between their legs. With your knee raised on the shower and your lover standing behind you, you can make this posture penetrative.

Wrap Around. Try this position for more private shower sex. While the other partner penetrates them, one person raises one leg and wraps it over their partner's hip while leaning their back against the shower wall. Balance on one leg may require practice, but the wall behind you will also support you. For added stimulation, try using a waterproof vibrating cock ring.

Sex Positions for the Pool

The orgasmic possibilities are nearly limitless if you're fortunate enough to have access to a private pool since buoyancy makes it possible. See which of these bold new positions appeals to you by trying them out.

Flotation Device. With your legs off the edge, lie in the water with your stomach down on an inflatable pool raft. Position your lover between your legs, then take hold of your hips and pierce you from behind. You can respond to their thrusts by gliding back and forth on the pool raft.

Submarine. A pool with stairs is necessary for this one. It would help if you lay on your back on top of your partner's thighs while they sit on the first or second step. To help you stay in place, hang onto their calves in the water and raise your knees under their underarms for some traction. Your partner can also grip your hips as they thrust for added stability. Keep your head above water, please.

On the Edge. To begin, place your arms on the side of the water and cross them. Keep your legs apart and stick out your butt till your body forms a straight angle, then have your partner approach from behind. Your bodies will fit together flawlessly and weightlessly if they grip the pool's edge with their legs between yours (you can both brace your feet against the pool wall).

Sex Positions for the Hot Tub

Entering your hot tub with your significant other is the most sexy thing you can do. All those bubbles, steaming hot water, strong jets...Use these moves* to intensify your intercourse in the water.

*A note on safety: Needless to say, hot tubs are hot. Dehydration and elevated body temperatures can result from intense water sex, mainly if you're simultaneously drinking alcohol. Limit the time you spend in the hot tub and consider lowering the water temperature to avoid overheating. Additionally, some vaginal users may be more susceptible to UTIs after using a hot tub. You might want to put off doing this until after your hot tub soak if you have sensitive skin or are prone to infections. 

You are standing Up. Make sure the central event is above water to protect your nether parts. For a face-to-face makeout session, blowjob, handjob, or some classic penetrative sex, put up one foot on the hot tub seat or bench. You remain partially immersed in the soothing hot water, protecting your delicate areas from chemicals. Add some waterproof nipple clamps for a full-body encounter for even more stimulation.

Underwater Handjob. You can essentially have sex on the penis underwater, even though underwater penetrative sex might not be the best for vaginas. Allow your significant other to recline on the stairs and experience the joy. Using a male masturbator that is wholly submerged will increase the intensity.

Jet Off. For both men and women, hot tub jets can be an unexplored source of sexual pleasure. This can serve as a built-in sex toy in your jacuzzi, provided the water pressure isn't too high, and the jets aren't too hot. Try all your erogenous zones with vibrating sensations for results that will make your spine tingle.