How to Use a Strap On Dildo & How to Put it On
Across the nation, realistic and vibrating strapon dildos are infiltrating bedrooms. We will reveal insider information and comprehensive advice to assist visitors in finding a new niche in their sex life with this blatantly kinky gadget, which is the new go-to sex toy for couples.
You’ll learn how to use a strapon (I have some unique ideas you might not have seen before), get more information on what a strapon is, and find a lot of answers to the FAQ about how strap-onsStrap operates. You should think of this as the greatest Strap On manual ever.
What is a Strap On?
The Strapon is a two-part adult toy for couples that consists of a probe-shaped device, similar to a dildo, that is secured in place by a harness that fastens to the wearer's thighs and hips. Both heterosexual and lesbian couples utilize strapons for penetrating sexual contact, whether it be anal or vaginal.
The two connected parts of this wearable sex toy are as follows:
- The adjustable harness straps around your hips and thighs provide an excellent fit regardless of your body type or size.
- The harness: Any dildo with a flat base will work as a suitable dildo. (A strap can also be attached to suction base dildos).
One partner wears the harness strap on their body, and the dildo fastens to the front of the Strap. It can be worn around the thighs, waist, or both. People of any sexual orientation or gender preference can utilize the dildo on the front of the harness for either anal or vaginal intercourse.
With the strapon dildo attachment, which has a flat base that attaches to the front of the harness, you can penetrate your lover by securing the body harness around your hips and legs. They are designed to replicate the feeling and experience of sexual contact, whether it is anal play or vaginal penetrative sex.
Why do Couples use a Strap?
Just for fun! The key to having a great sex life is trying new and dirty things. I'll be the first to acknowledge—and I hate to use such a cliché—that sex will become commonplace and usual in a happy marriage. Trying items like dildos and sex toys is part of expanding one's sexual comfort zone.
Discovering something new is an enjoyable, private, and enduring experience to share. Because they are unable to get an erection and engage in sexual activity with their spouse, men with erectile dysfunction can wear a hollow strap, which enables the couple to enjoy the intimacy and pleasures of lovemaking despite ED problems.
How to Put on a Strap On
These are the fundamentals of using a strap on; but, if you want more specific instructions, read on for additional guidance and recommendations on how to personalize your sensual enjoyment with your partner. Here is a detailed tutorial on how to put on a strap.
The typical Universal style harness, which has an O ring that fastens to the front with metal snaps, is what you think you have bought. You would skip the instructions for attaching a dildo if the cloth did not contain snaps. However, the fundamental procedures stay the same; thus, to put it briefly, here's how to utilize a strap:
- Take off the harness's O ring.
- Pass the dildo through the O-ring of the harness.
- Use the metal snaps to fasten the ring to the harness.
- Put on the harness like you would a pair of jeans or panties.
- Adjust the hip straps to ensure the harness fits at your hip bone.
- To ensure that the gadget fits snugly over your pubic bone, adjust each thigh strap individually.
- Give the dildo a good lubrication.
- To pierce your lover, hold the dildo in your palm.
- You can enjoy strapon sex without using your hands once the dildo is in place.
Many vibrators and dildos make great harness attachments. Regrettably, these products are hidden inside their own category and are never considered for strapon use. We'll outline the qualities to consider when creating your harness system here.
A creative mind may take a few items and make a unique sex toy that can be inserted into almost any bodily orifice. The strapless dildo goes straight into the wearer's vagina, negating the need for a harness. For all the juicy details and a tutorial, check out how to wear a strapless strap if this is new.
How to Make a DIY Strap on Dildo Harness Kit
With a Dildo kit, you can make your DIY strap. Make your particular version with any harness that has a detachable attachment. Using the menu filter option, we have made it simple to select the harnesses with detachable dildos. An attachment is already included with these products. Buy one of these three harness-only options to begin from scratch.
The Universal Harness is the most recent choice. This well-liked device is exceptionally durable and has an excellent back brace for maximum comfort. Although the user must see what is happening, the Fur Strap On Harness Kit is an excellent choice for adding extra colour and a wild touch. It comes with a blindfold. Lastly, the SX harness is more straightforward, elegant, and lighter.
Look at the dildo kits’ do-it-yourself Strap:
- Sexual Harnesses
- Compatible Dildos with Straps
Making your Dildo Fit the Harness
Most folks ask how to make sure your dildo fits when they ask how to put on a strap. A harness ring’s interior diameter is typically 1 3/4 inches. A dildo will slide out of the ring if it is fragile. It could be tough to get it to slip down if it is too big. Choosing the appropriate ring size for the task is a key to creating your harness kit. Think of ring sizing similarly to shoe shopping: the proper measurement ensures a fit, and the ring cannot be too big or too small.
How may one obtain more rings for a strapon? Visit your neighbourhood hardware store and buy a rubber or metal & O-ring from the hardware or plumbing departments to expand your possibilities. Gathering a good variety of sizes can achieve the best fit for a dildo.
There are two options: metal and rubber. Rubber can stretch to fit a slightly flared base or bend to let the ring move over variations in circumference, like a mushroom head. The best long-term choice is metal. Rubber rings might break over time, while metal rings are sturdy. Both have advantages and disadvantages, but since getting other rings at a hardware shop is so simple, the ring material should never be a factor in harness selection.
Suction Cup Dildos for a Harness
Without a decent dildo, what’s a strapon? The suction cup dildo is the best attachment that was created specifically for harness sex. A dildo with a large circular base fits the firmest and maintains the shaft facing straight ahead, whereas those without this circular extension tend to flop slightly downward.
How to mount a dildo to your harness:
- The Fashionable Way:
Insert the suction cup through the ring, as seen in the picture below. If the ring is too large, it will slide out; if it is too tiny, the suction cup may distort as the edges are pushed through the ring.
A warning: prolonged use may eventually result in the suction cup coming loose from the dildo. If handled roughly, the suction cup is more likely to come loose, but a quick fix may be made by going to the hardware shop for some super glue or a silicone-compatible bonding agent.
2. The Practical way:
Wrapping the straps over his testicles is the second method of attaching a dildo. Beginning at the tip, slide a ring down the shaft. A dildo sticks straight out without its suction cup breaking off due to ocean motion or gravity pulling it lower, providing a considerably more secure fit.
This is the epitome of unbreakable sex. Additionally, there is little contact needed to switch postures with this fit. There is no need to use a hand to manipulate penetration because a dildo remains firmly in place and won't move. Simply shove forward to effortlessly hit any target!
How Does a Strapon Work with Flat Base Dildos?
A suction cup is not necessary for a dildo to function as an excellent harness attachment. You can use any sex toy that has a flat base. Adjust the ring diameter (do you recall the hardware shop visit?) then use it to get kinky!
My favourite alternative attachment is any suction cup realistic dildo or vibrator that can be used with a harness strap to create a realistic-feeling strapon dildo to simulate penetrative sex.
They almost appear to have been designed with harnesses in mind. The shaft's flared tip keeps it from overflowing over and dropping out, and the lengthier testicles give it leverage to stay erect. The top eight items that appear in the search bar when you type "Super Cock" are ideal sex toys for this use. But that's not all; there are plenty of additional flat-bottomed sex toys that can be used; see the picture below for a few examples.
Best Strap on Dildo Attachments: Thinking Creatively
Other ingenious sex toys that fit and have a good range of uses are available in addition to strapon attachments. I've discussed all the top dildos and encouraged customers to choose for themselves, but let's now push the boundaries of originality. Which Strapon dildo attachment best suits your needs and preferences?
Attachments like butt plugs are fantastic. As a safety precaution to keep it from pushing into the anus, almost all butt plugs have a flat base. This feature is crucial to the best-selling pegging toys and kits ever made.
We can make your small hands-off butt toy by utilizing this capability. Better than any dildo, a butt plug that is compatible with a harness will remain in place without the leverage of a longer shaft. Precipitation is undoubtedly humming in overly kinky thoughts right now. It's cool to push your butt a little with a partner's thrust from behind, freeing up your hands to touch your penis, clitty poke, and nipple. That sex play is fantastic!
For safety reasons, many prostate massagers also have a flat base, but any harness enthusiast would see this as the ideal g-spot item ever created. Although a g-spot harness attachment is a common choice, most g-spot vibrators have a straight shaft, making them unsuitable for harness wear.
Purchase a prostate massage for g-spot use because a standard male prostate toy has the same curve (the prostate is technically the male g-spot, even if it is in the same place but in a different hole). As a warning, never use a sex toy that has been in the anus in the vagina; instead, get a fresh one specifically for vaginal usage.
How to Choose a Strap on Dildo
Do you want it more kinky? Please take a look at our squirting strapon review.
Do you want it to be incredibly lifelike? While we adore realistic-feeling, extremely soft dildos like Cyberskin, they are too floppy and delicate for a satisfying strapon experience. Because cyberskin is so pliable, it cannot remain pointed forward while fastened to a harness. When placed inside a harness O-ring, Cyberskin suction cups may distort. Additionally, they can quickly leave the ring when the fight gets too intense and heavy.
When attached to a strapon, firm jelly dildos will perform well if the shaft is sufficiently rigid to allow body penetration. For the same reasons why Cyberskin works, soft jelly dildos won't.
Of course, a smaller ring might be bought, but thrusting could eventually result in a depression in the base. Because of the friction between the ring and straps, removing the dildo may result in small tears on the skin’s surface. Vibrators and Cyberskin dildos are perfect for hands-on play. For those who want sex to feel really realistic, I've included a list of some of our most realistic suction cup dildos here.
Since glass dildos typically have a flat, spherical base, we’ve seen many advertisements for them as excellent harness attachments, so it makes sense! However, glass is not a good option for a harness attachment. When I tried the glass dildo in the picture below, it was simply too heavy.
We could observe stretch marks developing on the harness backing due to the weight’s constant downward pressure and dragging on the waist straps. The base appeared to wiggle itself out of the holding despite the metal ring we were using. The best dildo will be stiffer. Rubber is preferred, but hard gel also works well.
How to Wear a Strap On
Men's and women's straps will be different because men's penises and balls can easily obstruct them! These tips are for guys since women may quickly wear them without their physical features interfering.
- Men can tuck their penis and balls to the side of the Strap if it has a T-back or thong style.
- Men can fit their slender penis into a male strap’s hollow centre. He won't be able to wear this kind of Strap if he can achieve a full erection.
- Guys place their penis and balls in the opening of the Strap has a crotchless base or two straps between the legs.
Think about its intended function as well; get proficient in inserting a dildo to ensure that its dimensions, width, girth, and size are appropriate for the body. Keep your size preferences front and centre when looking for the ideal option for you and your partner.
Vibrators that Work with a Strap On
Only 18 of the 80 strapons that are in stock at our online sex shop vibrate. See the top vibrating Strap for Dildos in one location right now! In actuality, the majority of harnesses have a non-vibrating attachment. Here's how to use your imagination to create your own vibrating set:
Strap on sex is comparable to pure chocolate or a dark addiction (some claim they are interchangeable). You want more after only one taste. Fortunately, the selection of vibrating sex toys that can be used for this purpose is rarely limited by an adult. Although it may not be as visually appealing as a flat dildo with a broad base, a vibrator with a flared base can also function. The user can experience vibration in the kinkiest way possible in this posture.
Typically, a tapered tip finishes in a rounded base; these designs give the user a handy handle to grasp while enjoying themselves. Nestle it as far as it will go after sliding a ring over the top. One benefit is that the user will experience some vibration, which allows them to reduce the harness. The pubic bone can be the objective of this position, and the love zone can be slightly vibrated. Two flaring vibrators that fit this configuration are as follows:
How to Use a Strap On: Dildos that Don't Require Work:
Aside from those with detachable attachments, the following harness designs are available for purchase as part of a pre-made strapon package:
- Hollow Dildo
Typically, the option for erectile dysfunction in guys. A sturdy shell that fastens to the waist is called a hollow dildo. Women can also wear them because the hollow Strap on the dildo is sturdy and does not collapse. Some are extraordinarily huge, yet they must be large to accommodate the man's penis. A completely erect penis can fit inside some of these enormous models. Women who have a “big urge” can still engage in the same lovemaking motion with their partners and have the lustful sex they desire. It is the realization of the ultimate fantasy.
Every hollow dildo we have is hard; a soft one won't function at all. A soft hollow dildo is a prosthetic penis extension that a guy puts over his erection; it feels like skin. Although they are unable to employ penile extensions, men with erectile dysfunction can use a strapon harness.
Please be advised that hollow dildos have a significantly larger diameter. Consider a unisex, open-base harness with a smaller penis attachment for sex in a realistic human size. For males with ED, the American harness is a popular strap: American Realistic Strap On Dildo is a straight penis, while American Whopper Strap On is a curved penis. Furthermore, these two pre-made life-sized combinations are the most realistic.
- Strap on with a Removeable Dildo
As you can see, some dildo straps have a few extra metal or rubber O rings. Because you can switch out other dildos with a flat base, these give your sex toy partner play a great deal of versatility.
Since harnesses are costly, choosing one with detachable parts makes sense, so you can only purchase the vibrator or dildo attachment and avoid buying a new strap. Some butt plugs are also very effective; because they fit into the butt, the majority of pegging toys are butt plugs or anal dildos.
The simplest way to put on a strap correctly is to first attach the dildo to the O-ring, then step into the Strap as directed in the tutorial and instructions above. Make sure to lubricate the probe’s tip and the upper portion of the shaft before putting the Strap on.
What Does a Strap On Look Like?
A strapon will have thigh straps and some waistbands. Some have a thong-like fit, while others may resemble boxer briefs or underwear. A dildo is held in a hole in the front of the Strap. Please take a peek at this video demo to see how it appears.
The purpose of a strapon is to simulate penetrative sex between lovers if you think about it. To be able to stay in position during penetrative sex, it makes sense that it will fit any body shape or size and wrap around the hips and waist.
Some strapons are used for pegging sex, which is when a woman penetrates a man’s anal region. To stimulate the prostate in this situation, the pegging dildo probe will be tiny or curved. Because a woman wears the harness, it may appear more feminine, and the front attachment is much smaller than a conventional strap on the penis for heterosexual sex. That is the only variation in how the Strap looks.
How Much are Strap Ons?
The device’s complexity and material quality impact its price. Although pre-made kits range from $40 to $120, there are less expensive options. Check out our sex harness area and buy a separate attachment if you’re wondering how much strapons cost because you have to stick to a strict budget. By mixing these two distinct parts, you can go as cheap or as pricey as you like.
The more affordable sex toys are an excellent option for beginners who are unsure about how to use a strapon because they are easier to put on and have fewer adjustment points. What is the operation of a strapon? It’s easier with fewer features! There is a lot to consider when shopping online because greater adaptability means it will fit more body shapes and sizes.
What qualities you value and what you can live without will determine the true answer to the issue of how much strapons cost. For instance, vibrators cost more than attachments that don’t vibrate. Prostate toys or slim butt plugs will also be less expensive than a full-size realistic dildo. Because the attachments are thinner than usual and less material means less expense, pegging sex toys are also less costly.
What is the cost of strapons? You may spend as little or as much as you like creating your modest teaser for trying something new in the bedroom or a very kinky sex toy for couples. The only limit is your imagination.
