Golden Showers and Pee Fetishes: Everything You Need to Know
Urolagnia, another name for pee fetishism, is not a typo. Many things can be turned into exciting sensations in the realm of kinks and fetishes. One of them is pee. Pee has entered the erotic profile of many sexually active individuals, much like other peripheral quirks of biological activities (such as eating, sleeping, and even something as basic as particular body parts).
The various facets of pee fetishism are the most fascinating, even though pee is an intriguing kink in and of itself. One person's turn-on can be another's complete turn-off, just like with any other sex act. Sexuality is so rich and exciting because of this! Want to know more? Here, we examine the main categories of urine fetishism.
The Most Common Types of Pee Fetishism
What are the various facets of pee fetishism, then? I'm delighted you inquired, though:
Watersports
The majority of people immediately think of water sports or piss play when they think about pee fetishism. In general, any activity that involves someone peeing on another person is regarded as a watersport. Frequently, this involves golden showers.
Omorashi/Wetting
In general, the Japanese word "omorashi" means "to wet oneself." Seeing someone urinate into their clothes will appeal to those who appreciate omorashi and wetness. Fetishists who are into this kink could have favourite situations, like standing in line to use the restroom or simply doing it for fun in front of the toilet. Everyone into this fetish likes to watch someone get wet or have an accident in clothes, regardless of their wetting inclinations.
Specific-Clothing Omorashi/Wetting
Some people have very particular tastes, while others adore omorashi and wetness in general. Many kinksters may associate this with their early kink encounters and their efforts to replicate those early joys. Wetting in a particular article of clothes is the only way to turn someone into this kink. Other articles of clothes might not arouse at all or might even turn someone off. Examples that are especially common are "jeans wetting," "skirt wetting," and "panty wetting." There might be even more differentiation within those categories, such as "thongs," "hipsters," "bikinis," etc.
Desperation
Desperation may be more concerned with the process of holding in urine than with the actual release of urine, in contrast to other forms of pee fetishism. People who are into this kink might like experiencing the pressure and intensity of a full bladder or witnessing someone else experience it. The situation the holder finds themselves in, or their mannerisms and incapacity to seem calm, maybe the source of their happiness. The person will involuntarily urinate if their desperation reaches a point where their bladder leaks or their bladder sphincter fails. A lot of desperate actions can result in omorashi or wetness.
Drinking
Urine ingestion is a common practice in several religious and health regimens, but for those who engage in this kink, whether they eat their urine or that of a partner, the act takes on a new significance. While some drinking fetishists enjoy the degradation of the behaviour, they detest the flavour. Others may like more or less powerful pee, but they still want the taste. Keep in mind that there are significant health concerns associated with this exercise, particularly since many drugs are eliminated through the urine. Before you even consider doing this activity with someone, make sure you are well informed of their diet, medications, and allergies.
Voyeurism
This type of pee fetishism is just the enjoyment of seeing someone else urinate. One can observe a partner go in the privacy of their own house or a public restroom. Unfortunately, some of the sexual films and photographs available are on the ethically "sketchy" side due to the fundamental tenet of this kind of pee fetishism: spying on someone, whether or not it's your kink, demands their consent.
Public-Based Voyeurism
This is comparable to ordinary voyeurism. On the other hand, this person will take pleasure in witnessing someone urinate in public or outside. The prospect of seeing someone urinate in a dangerous public setting is likely to excite them, even though they may not be interested in watching routine toilet urinating. Once more, consent is essential!
Bathroom Control
A person who is interested in restroom control may discover that urine is a byproduct of their emphasis, which is on the control. In contrast, the other urinary kinks concentrate on the pee explicitly. Telling someone else when or where they can urinate will pique someone's interest in bathroom control. This aspect of pee fetishism appeals to many kinksters since it focuses on controlling such a fundamental body function.
Flooding the Cave
The humorous phrase "flooding the cave" refers to urinating into the vagina during heterosexual sexual activity. However, it is less frequent than the other choices on this list. Many penis owners are unable to urinate while hard because an erection is necessary to enter the vagina. Therefore, patience (and practice) are definitely needed for this exercise. You can also perform this exercise anally, but be advised that it will probably result in a "pee enema," which may not be what you were hoping for.
Diapers
Diaper wearing is frequently included in the kink despite being a fringe outlier of urine fetishism. People who like wearing diapers just for the feel of them are what we're talking about here, not age players. For this kind of kinkster, the diaper itself is the main focus rather than age and role play. The smooth, squishy feeling of a soft fabric pushing against their erogenous zones is likely to appeal to "Diaper Lovers" (where the "DL" is "ABDL"). Naturally, once the individual really wears their diaper, the soft cloth starts to provide some beautiful resistance, which is one of the primary reasons DLs decide to use their padding.
I Want To Try This! Is There Anything I Should Know?
After reading about the various varieties of pee fetishism, you might be wondering what they are. However, there are a few things you should be aware of if you think you might like to attempt this kink.
The Bladder Is Flexible - Up to a Point
The bladder is incredibly flexible and made to keep in more and more liquid if you're holding yourself. This is true until you reach its capacity, which can actually grow over time with frequent holding. The majority of patients will experience bladder sphincter muscle failure, which will result in urination long before they sustain any injuries. The bladder sphincter muscles may not give out in a tiny percentage of people, though, which can be extremely harmful and possibly lethal. Take your holding gently to offset this. Please take your body a little bit farther with each hold as you gradually learn its tolerances.
Furthermore, any holding to capacity should never be absolutely painful, even if it may seem intense and uncomfortable. You should immediately empty your bladder if you have any pain, especially if it is sharp and feels like it is anywhere close to your lower back. Urine that has begun to back up toward your kidneys is probably the cause of any sharp aches in that area. If you act immediately and then take a short break, that isn't harmful, but if you don't urinate when you start feeling it, it can become severe. Additionally, most individuals don't enjoy pain, so don't push it too far.
Alcohol can be helpful in this situation, even if I don't usually support it to aid in sexual activities. Alcohol can relax the body, including the bladder sphincter, if you are a comfortable drinker and already know your tolerances. For many people, this can result in inadvertent urination long before they experience that pain.
Urine Can Be Messy
Aside from holding, you should know that pee is most potent when you're thirsty or just after waking up. Your urine will taste less yellow and more benign if you drink lots of plain water to stay hydrated. If you intend to perform any soaking, be aware that urine's yellow tint can discolour white garments. Remember that it can also discolour delicate floors or white furniture.
Pee Play Carries Risk
However, you have to focus more on internal nuances when playing with a partner. Urine is a reasonably easy way to spread allergens. There may be a reaction if your partner urinates on you after eating peanuts that day. Before engaging in any pee play with a partner, discuss all allergies.
Pee can also spread drugs. This also applies to illegal and non-prescription drug types. You should discuss your medications with your partner, mainly if there will be any drinking play.
The standard agreement is that urinating into a safe body part (one free of injuries or sores) is unlikely to raise any worries about STIs, despite the fact that professionals are frequently silent on the matter. However, drinking is far more likely, and once more, you and your companion should talk before thinking about that kind of activity.
Preparation Is Key
Urine can be cleaned up quite quickly. Excellent goods like the waterproof Liberator wedge/ramp combo, which can comfortably carry two or three bladders without any issues, can be thrown into the washing machine when you're done. Though they don't absorb moisture, disposable tarps are inexpensive and effective at protecting your furniture. Therefore, you will need to absorb liquid with some old towels before discarding them. Urine can be caught on tile or other hard surfaces, but you will need to use a towel to absorb the liquid and clean the surface thoroughly after play. Unless you don't wipe it up quickly away, urine doesn't create a lingering smell or cause any issues.
But I Have a Shy Bladder!
The fun term "shy bladder" is typically used to describe people who have trouble urinating in a variety of settings, such as a different position, an exceptionally crowded restroom, or, of course, the majority of the activities in this article. It may take a little longer for people with shy bladders to get the "flow" going because they are anxious about urinating or have other mental issues.
The body may be educated to become more accustomed to strange peeing situations, though, as many people with shy bladders have discovered. All it needs is a great deal of patience and time. It could be time to discuss your shy bladder with your lover and request some distance if you intend to enjoy your pee fetishism with them. When someone is leaning over you expectantly, it doesn't help to learn to overcome the anxiety of not being able to urinate. The best way to practice this is alone.
Waiting until the urge to urinate is pretty strong is advised after you have some alone time. Sometimes, your body will "go" when it usually wouldn't because of the urgency alone. We're going to practice going to strange places once you actually need to leave. It is totally up to you and your goals to determine "where" that strange location is. Try wearing diapers if you want to wet diapers. Try going in cups if you want to urinate on your companion. Wearing some old underwear could be worth a try if you're eager to get your clothes wet.
First of all, some of these tasks are best completed while using the restroom. For instance, you can wear some clothes and urinate through them while using the restroom, or you can wear a diaper while using the restroom. Sitting or being close to the toilet actually performs a fantastic job of calming the brain, even if this isn't the fantasy you're imagining. By offering the body a new challenge in the form of clothing or a diaper, you're letting it experience the comfort of the toilet. Try it out!
After you've moved past that, it's time to start exploring more daring concepts. Try the same concepts in the shower or bathtub instead of the toilet, but without the water running. Your body will ultimately start to relax sufficiently to allow you to urinate while taking a shower, albeit it may require some effort and deep breathing.
We're going to advance it further after that. We're going to leave the restroom, ideally to a tiled or easily cleaned location. Make sure that you have covered the floor or the furnishings wherever you are. Even something as basic as the dread of damaging or destroying your belongings might prevent someone from being able to "go." Go ahead and try it again now that you're in your new location. Although you may first need to return to the shower, as your body adjusts to the experience, it will gradually begin to permit you to use other areas.
You have a few choices from here. You could try using an empty bladder to urinate in these areas. When the need isn't as strong, it can be more difficult to urinate, but that's what we're teaching you to do! If not, you can experiment with several positions for urination, particularly ones that you'll likely employ during this kink. You might try crouching or spreading your legs wide if you want to urinate on your companion. Laying down could be your next course of action if you want to wet the bed. Go ahead and try walking in place while urinating if you like the idea of getting wet while strolling around the house.
If you have a partner, it's time to invite them back in once you have a basic understanding of everything. Make sure to emphasize the value of patience and choose a posture that is comfortable for you, preferably one that involves a full bladder. Ensure that the floor and furniture are also protected! You may find it helpful to keep things informal the first few times. You can talk about non-sexual topics or your day together. As I previously stated, it may seem hot to attempt to make things seductive and full of suspense, but performance anxiety can really result from thinking about performance. Therefore, keep things casual for the first few times and worry about introducing the sexuality later. However, keep in mind that it may take several attempts before you are comfortable approaching your spouse. Although the body can be a strange creature at times, it will learn to cooperate and urinate in new (and likely more enjoyable!) locations with continued practice.
Still, Want More Inspiration?
Keep in mind that there are many wonderful things on the Internet, including porn. Pornography frequently features pee fetishes, particularly the kinky kind. Hentai is especially well-known for its numerous depictions of omorashi. I would suggest looking for any stories or movies to view if you have any questions about anything I've covered and want to see whether the concept appeals to you. Check to see whether you still like the idea. Try it yourself if you can. Just a tiny amount of laundry that you most likely have to clean anyhow, so there's no harm in trying!
