Flirting with Squirting

Now you're in the splash zone. Get some towels and get ready to get wet! We're discussing squirting, which is frequently called "female" ejaculation (though it doesn't always need to be gendered).

Ejaculating, also known as squirting, is the act of releasing fluid from the urethra when stimulated, usually with an orgasm, and can occur in either gender. Today, we'll concentrate on this topic because it's often talked about and familiar to people with penises. Still, it's rarely covered in mainstream sex education (assuming anyone was fortunate enough to receive any sex education) for people with vulvas.

Even though it's not the sole factor that causes squirting, g-spot stimulation is one of the most popular ways that people experience it. By inserting one or two fingers and bending them up towards the front of the vagina back and forth with a forceful "come hither" motion, one may typically reach the g-spot vaginally. Since the G-spot is located beneath the bladder, on the other side of the vaginal/anal walls, and wrapped around the urethra, some people may even discover that they may access their G-spot through anal penetration.

People frequently picture squirting to look as it might in porn, but it's actually doubtful that you'll have ejaculation on par with that of a super-soaker. While some people might squirt a few drips, others might generate a heavier load. The clear-ish fluid that is released is called ejaculate, and it typically ranges from a few drops to 30 milliliters, or roughly the size of a shot glass. Let's toast!

Many people mistakenly believe that the fluid, which originates from the urethra, is urine, but it is actually highly similar to prostatic fluid (chemically). The "G-spot" is really known anatomically as the Prostata Femina, which is Latin for "Female Prostate." Again, gendering bodily parts is unnecessary, but knowing that the g-spot is "homologous" to the prostate aids in our comprehension of this fantastic anatomical characteristic.

Want to give squirting a try? To get you started, here are some valuable pointers!

The key is arousal: Make sure you're already aroused before you go exploring since the G-spot will swell with fluids and become easier to stimulate when you're excited. Additionally, the experience will feel much better. While exploring the G-spot, consider reading some erotica or engaging in other sexual behaviors. Additionally, remember the lube!

Blended orgasm: Experiment with more than just foreplay. A tremendous, full-bodied orgasm can result from clitoral stimulation combined with g-spot stimulation. Mouths, fingers, and, of course, vibrators can all be used for this!

Curves in the proper locations: Curling your fingers up like you're calling someone closer is a tried-and-true method of g-spot stimulation, but the appropriate toy with the correct curvature can help. The Pure Wand and the Limba Flex are two toys that provide the ideal shape for getting to this region.

Comfort is important. In addition to having a sensation akin to the urge to urinate, the pressure of g-spot stimulation can be tremendous. Once more, urethral fluid can make you feel as though you're urinating, but if you can get beyond this worry, understand why it feels like that, and know that you have a leak-proof throw underneath you like the ones from Liberator, then try to let yourself enjoy that enormous release you've made. You may discover something new that you like!