Forced Bi

One BDSM practice is forced bi, in which a dominant forces a submissive to have sex with a person of the same sex. "Coerced bi," "encouraged bi," and—the long-form term—"forced bisexuality" are only a few of the many alternative names for forced bi.

Depending on their dominance style, a dominant can initiate a forced bi scenario in a number of ways. They might treat their subordinates harshly. They could, for instance, humiliate them by assessing their wants and ordering them to participate. Additionally, they could adopt a far more tactful strategy, encouraging or gently mocking their subordinate.

In a forced bi experience, the new individual assumes the dominating position while the submitting person continues to play the submissive role. For example, the new dominant might force the submissive to engage in oral sex or use a penis or strap-on to penetrate the submissive anally. The usual dominating partner of the submissive frequently observes the sexual session while it takes place. Though they are rarely involved in the scenario, they might even provide suggestions about how the new dominant could engage with their partner.

Dominants use forced bi-scenes as a means of exerting control over their subordinates. Additionally, they allow the subordinate to demonstrate their ability to obey their dominant's commands. A forced bi scenario can also be used as a humiliation play by a dominating. Since forced bi strengthens their positions in a BDSM relationship, many people find it enjoyable. The thought of being "given" to someone else and exploited for their erotic pleasure also appeals to some submissives. Within the confines of a straight relationship, forced bisexuality might be a safe way for some submissives to explore their sexuality.

More About Forced Bi

Most frequently, heterosexual BDSM couples with a dominant female and a submissive male exhibit forced bisexuality. However, forced bi scenarios can also be enjoyed by heterosexual couples with a domineering guy and a straight female. The term "forced MM" refers to forced bi with a subservient male. "MM" is an acronym that stands for "male-male." Another term for forced bi with a subservient female is "forced FF," where "FF" stands for "female-female."

The term "forced MF" is frequently used to describe homosexual BDSM partnerships. This version involves a dominant forcing their subordinate to have intercourse with someone of the other sex. "MF" is an acronym for "male-female."

The term "forced bi" and its homosexual equivalent, "forced MF," are criticized by some BDSM members for failing to represent the entire range of gender and sexuality. Many members of the BDSM community, such as pansexuals, transgender individuals, and heteroflexible submissives, are excluded by these labels.

Others also criticize the practice of forced BI itself. Although it's normal in BDSM to make submissives feel vulnerable and push them beyond their comfort zone, some find it unsettling that this approach frequently promotes same-sex sex play for humiliation. It implies that same-sex play is inappropriate by making someone play sexually with someone of the same gender in order to degrade them. Forced biphobia is perceived as homophobic or biphobic by those who find it offensive.

Many people believe that submissives who are amenable to forced bisexuality are either closed-out gays or bi-curious. Many submissives, however, dispute this, claiming that they engage in forced bisexuality only to appease their domineering. Instead of acting on their sexual impulses outside of their partnership, these submissives say that engaging in forced bisexuality is a way to demonstrate their dedication to their submissive role.

According to the definition of "forced bi," the dominant coerces the submissive into having bisexual sex against their will. Consent is essential, though, as it is for all moral BDSM procedures. To find out if the subordinate is amenable to this type of situation, the dominant and submissive should talk about the concept of forced bi beforehand. A responsible dominant will honor their submissive's desires if engaging in forced bi goes beyond the submissive's strict boundaries. The dominant might set up a forced bi scenario if both of them are amenable to the notion. Finding a third party who voluntarily consents to the scene is necessary for this. A submissive may be pushed to the edge by a forced bi scene, but they always have the option to end the scene if a safe word or action makes them uncomfortable. Some people prefer the terms "coerced bi" and "encouraged bi" to "forced bi" since they suggest consent.