GETTING HANDSY: FEMALE MASTURBATION TIPS FOR BEGINNERS

The experience of masturbating can be very astounding! For an introduction to hand pleasure, continue reading.

Hand pleasure is a really fulfilling feeling that, regrettably, most people don't get to enjoy as much as they should. Masturbation creates the ideal environment for incredible pleasure and is both enticing on its own and a delightful addition to oral play. You'll soon become an expert at getting handsy if you follow this beginner's guide to masturbation and stimulation!

FIRST THINGS FIRST

Have you recently cleaned your hands? No? (A noise that scratches the record.) Make sure your hands are clean before you even consider getting playful with your fingers. Instead of worrying about unclean hands, you want your partner—or yourself, if you're going alone—to be focused on pleasure.

Look at your fingernails for a moment as your hands are getting sudsy. Are they rough or sharp? Do your nails have any dirt under them? Just keep in mind that sexiness comes after hygiene. So, please. Make sure your fingernails are clean and polished before you add this valuable ability to your sexual toolbox.

GO FOR LUBE

A tiny quantity of lubricant is your best buddy when it comes to anything between the sheets; imagine sensuously smooth feelings with enough slip-and-slip potential to finish the job. After all, over 70% of women use lubricant to enhance the pleasure of sex, according to a 2010 study from Indiana University's Center for Sexual Health Promotion. See where you end up by following the trend!

Before you begin massaging the clitoris or exploring the G-spot, add one pump's worth of lubrication to your finger or fingers, regardless of whether you choose a water-based or silicone-based solution. In addition to facilitating a smoother entrance, the lubricant's slick texture will enhance this encounter in yet another alluring way.

SHHH. ARE YOU LISTENING?

A reliable bottle of lubricant is ready, and your hands are spotless. What comes next? Make sure the environment is prepared before engaging in physical contact with your spouse. Dim the lights and create a romantic atmosphere with kisses and other foreplay. Even a comfy position and a seductive song might help you get into the mood. Go slowly and gently when the time comes, at least initially. Each person has a preferred masturbation penetration and speed, which can (obviously) vary at any time. If you don't already know, you'll discover your preferences, but if you're with someone, listening is crucial. How do they react? Even if they might not always express it to you verbally, you will know without a doubt whether your partner is feeling happy.

To find out what your partner enjoys, try a variety of methods. Change your speed and go from one to two fingers while continuously assessing their reaction. Find the G-spot; it will be located on the upper side of the vagina, a few inches within, and will have a slightly distinct feel from the rest of the vaginal wall (bonus: these tips also apply to self-pleasure!). Make your partner's experience more interesting (and demonstrate your skill) by softly massaging the clitoris with your thumb while inserting it with one or two fingers. Choose a double whammy—oral favor and penetration—if you're feeling particularly ostentatious.

Additionally, remember to bring your reliable wingman with you; a toy will make the trip to O-Town go much more quickly. Try a few different toy types to determine whether one is best for playing alone or with a partner. Don't forget to have some enjoyable, messy fun.