Handy Handjob Tips!

Sometimes, a classic is the ideal choice when it comes to changing things up in bed; you don't necessarily have to go for something "bold," "kinky," or even novel. There is so much to discover about handjobs; regardless of whether you are a regular handyman, this type of paired stroking is a throwback for you, or you are just starting in the realm of becoming handsy.

For many things, but particularly for enjoyment, our hands are excellent instruments. Our fingers can tap and tease, our fists can grasp, and our palms can caress. Examining every sensation our hands can produce on the cock, from the balls to the shaft and head, can elevate the handjob beyond a straightforward stroke.

First things first

We'll start by sharing with you the universal key to a better handy: LUBE.

Lube reduces friction without sacrificing any of the sensations, enabling you to manipulate pressure and speed in ways that would otherwise cause uncomfortable skin twisting and tugging. Lube's slickness will make it possible to incorporate a variety of new manoeuvres.

With a texture more akin to oil, silicone lubricant provides long-lasting slickness, and a small amount goes a long way.

You should use a lubricant that works well with toys, like a water-based or hybrid lubricant if you want to add devices like cock rings, vibrators, or strokers. These can provide your motions a little more cushion and have a feel that is more liquid or gel-like.

You can add a little something extra for both the provider and the recipient by stroking with flavoured lube and then licking it up when you're done or as you go.

Know what's up

The next tip involves communication, which is crucial for improving sex in general. A decent HJ may seem pretty self-explanatory, but there is no one-size-fits-all approach because the cock is covered in nerve endings that may feel sensations as uniquely as any other part of the body.

To discover the ideal amount, try varying the pressure as you move your hand or hands, checking in as you add a little more grip or tension. For example, what feels like a 3 on one shaft can feel like a 6 on another. Keep in mind that the cock's tip is its most sensitive area, so any sensation there may feel even more intense—which is undoubtedly a good thing!

Since the testicles can be really sensitive for many people, it's also crucial to take your time and observe what kinds of sensations feel nice there if there are balls involved. The same is true whether either you or your partner have an intact foreskin. Start gently and work your way up to the point where you and your lover have the most incredible feeling.

Hands-on learning

While you observe from behind, have your spouse rub themself in front of a mirror. Put your hand over theirs to feel the motion as they move, then follow along until you replace their hand with yours to complete the task. (Like the scene in Ghost, only it's a handjob rather than pottery. More enjoyable.

Watching your spouse get off and play together in the mirror adds a whole new dimension of sexiness to it, in addition to being a terrific way to find out precisely what they prefer. You can incorporate roleplaying, or perhaps you'll even find that you have a slight exhibitionism/voyeur kink as you go.

Add a helping hand

The hand portion is undoubtedly the most critical aspect of a handjob, but why not give your hand some more feel? Toys can improve our HJs by adding a feel and texture that our hands don't naturally have, or they can offer variation to the practice.

Ridges, bumps, twists, and more are all features of a textured brush that, despite their apparent subtlety, can have a profound impact on experience. These strokers are effective on a wide range of cock sizes, including some transmat growth.

When it comes to penis play, vibration is frequently disregarded, which we believe is a tremendous lost opportunity. Hot zones throughout the cock, which are highly nerve-rich, can react well to the extra stimulation of a buzz. Even vibrators made especially for shafts are available!

The purpose of cock rings is to assist in limiting blood flow and generate pressure, which many people find enjoyable and believe improves their erection. Cock rings can enhance your play with fun, a sensual or cool design, and even vibration.

Incorporate some interior pleasure to make it a mixed orgasm! The sensations of your handjob can be improved, and your O can be supercharged by wearing an anal plug made to apply pressure or vibration to the prostate.

Bust a move

Try these well-liked moves from our well-attended Blowjob session if you're unsure where to begin learning some new ones:

Pump up the Jam:

This method is ideal for getting things going. Concentrating on the shaft, use your fingers and thumb to circle the base of the shaft, which is located just above the balls. As you work your way up the shaft from base to tip, squeeze lightly in little pulses. Repeat this a few times, moving upward with each repetition, to help increase blood flow to the cock and aid in achieving an erection.

Hot Tip: To help trap blood flow in the erection for increased pleasure, put on a cock ring such as the Ahoy before beginning this manoeuvre.

Waterfalls:

Slide a well-lubricated palm up and off the tip by grabbing it around the base. It will feel as though they are continuously pushing out of their body if you use the other hand to do the same thing as you get to the tip. Start from the base and slide up again, switching as you go.

Hot Tip: For a longer-lasting buttery soft feel, try using a thicker-based stroke cream like the Please Stroke Cream.

Do the Twist:

Make sure the hands and shaft are properly lubricated, then use one hand to corkscrew up and down while holding the cock with the other hand, giving the tip a small squeeze. The significance of lubricant for this action cannot be overstated; you want as much slickness as possible to prevent the skin from pulling against the hand.

Hot Tip: To give this technique more sensation, use an open-added stroker, such as the Good Hea serve.

Thumbs Up:

Use your thumb or thumbs to apply pressure down the shaft's bottom, up, and onto the head when performing any type of stroke. The frenulum, which is where the raphe meets the head of the penis, and the raphe, which is a seam that runs along the underside of the shaft, are two key hotspots that are extremely nerve-rich and typically react favorably to extra feeling.

Hot Tip: For even more stimulation, move a vibrator along these hot points. Some vibrating strokers are made with these areas in mind, such as the Hot Octopuss Pulse line, which includes a pulsating plate that targets the frenulum, and the Manta Vibrating Stroker, which has textured wings that grip the cock.