How to Deep Throat
Falling? When you want to go all the way down, being able to deepthroat might be an exciting addition to your blowjob repertoire.
Do you know what "deep-throating" is? Deep-throating is the practice of inserting a penis into the very back of the throat during a blow job; I'd be shocked if you hadn't, but just in case. The phrase "deep throating" refers to the penis's deep penetration into the back of the throat.
For the recipient, deep-throating can be extremely enjoyable. The tip of the penis is typically the most sensitive area, in addition to the back of the neck being generally tighter than the "open concept" design of the rest of the mouth (after all, that's how food fits in there as you chew it!).
Furthermore, deepthroat blow jobs offer an alternative visual. Giving this kind of blow job might cause the giver's mouth to wrap around the base of the penis where it meets the body, depending on how long the penis is and how deep the blow job is. The image itself may even be more arousing for many blow job receivers than the sensations that deep-throating provides.
Do I have to give deepthroat blowjobs?
Like all other sex activities, these tend to have a way of becoming the "gold standard" of sexual activity, including nipplegasms, tantric sex, multiple orgasms, squirting orgasms, and more. Whenever a new method of having sex becomes widespread, it somehow rises to the top and becomes the "end goal achievement" for the actions we were already engaging in.
Performed a fantastic blow job? Did you, however, deep throat?
Have you experienced an intense G-spot orgasm? Did you squirt, though?
Have you and your partner had some incredible sex? So, how many orgasms did you experience?
All of these factors compound the same way that carefully chosen social media can be harmful: it's simple to believe that the things we now like are "missing something." It's simple to think that our efforts aren't "good enough." Some of my pals feel that the experience isn't worth offering because they can't deepthroat; thus, they're not even comfortable giving blow jobs of any kind. Therefore, they never try oral sex at all.
Therefore, the quick answer to the question of whether you "have" to perform throat blow jobs is no. Hell no. Don't give deepthroat blowjobs if you don't want to for whatever reason. Please choose not to receive them if, for any reason, you don't want to. Here are some suggestions, though, if you and your partner think deep-throating would be a good fit.
How to Deep Throat Without Gagging
The gag reflex is the main worry of most serious oral sexers when it comes to deep throating. It turns out that the gag reaction is a really annoying "built-in" human characteristic if your objective is to jam a penis as deep into your throat as possible. Although the gag response can assist in preventing choking dangers, it is more of a nuisance in this situation because we want the choking hazard.
However, most people can gradually modify their gag reflexes. Like most things in our bodies, the body can start to react appropriately if we push ourselves consistently, little by little.
If you've been wondering how to deepthroat a penis, here is the perfect answer. The truth is that "it takes time" and "you have to do it hundreds of times for practice" are unpleasant statements to hear.
Most gag reflexes will gradually adjust to each additional penis you consume while maintaining your composure. It will likely take several months to complete this exercise.
For your comfort and safety, avoid practicing your deep throat techniques right after eating or whenever your stomach feels very full. You might have better results if you perform this at different times of the day because some people have a very sensitive gag reflex in the morning.
As you can see, I said that most people can adapt to this. Some people have extremely sensitive gag reflexes, which can even make it impossible for them to eat and drink (a condition called dysphagia). If so, it might not be in your body's best interests to develop to the point where deep-throating blow jobs are feasible. And it's all right! Do you recall the awesomeness of blowjobs without them?
How to Practice Deep Throating
Dildos are ideal for oral practice if you don't have a penis to practice on. I am aware that videos of people deep-throating bananas are constantly popular on the internet, but please choose something that won't break off in the middle of your throat. Even if you don't choke on the broken banana—which is a possibility—it will still be incredibly uncomfortable.
Fortunately, you'll also have a dildo that you may enjoy on your own time away from practice!
Your most excellent option is a flared base dildo that is safe for your body. It is difficult for a portion of a high-quality dildo to break off and become a choking hazard. Again, we're aiming to prevent choking here, so you want the flared base to make sure that something permanently anchors the dildo outside of the mouth!
Dildos also have the advantage of coming in a variety of sizes and shapes, which is advantageous if you're trying to court a particular biological penis in the future. This implies that you can work on something that will more accurately correspond to the penis you wish to gratify.
You may also want to practice your deepthroat blowjob abilities with a condom, depending on the material of the dildo. In addition to acclimating you to the taste of safer sex practices, this can also lessen the drag of any sex toy material that may not seem realistic to you, making your sex toy safer for oral use and enhancing the taste of any sex toy. It may seem counterintuitive, but during oral sex, wearing a condom on your dildo might actually make the experience feel even more genuine. They will slide down the smooth surface of a condom rather than the drag of silicone on your teeth.
I would advise searching for toys made of soft, non-porous materials for a pleasing mouthfeel when purchasing a deepthroat practice dildo. A glass dildo that is hard and unyielding won't feel very realistic or pleasurable. This toy should be non-porous so that it can be disinfected in between uses because you will be putting it in your mouth on a regular basis. (Or place that condom over it!)Do you want to eat from silverware that wasn't washed after lunch yesterday?
Additionally, you can search for other features like accurately shaped sex toys or suction cups. Although it might take some work to hold your dildo on the wall, a suction cup would undoubtedly help (though you may need a hand to support it). While it's absolutely not required if you only want to practice oral sex, a genuinely designed toy may also contribute to your sensual pleasure.
Among the toys I would suggest are:
Deep Throat Sex Positions
How well you can relax the gag reflex depends mainly on the sex position you use for your blow job. Since each person is unique, this may be a matter of personal preference. However, deep throating will generally be made easier by any sex position that straightens out the 90-degree angle that your mouth-to-throat typically sits at.
In essence, you want to straighten the throat to lessen the compression in its back.
Some of the locations I suggest are as follows:
The headrest posture might work for you. One way to ease neck tension is to use the giver's leg as a pillow. To find the ideal location for them, the provider can simultaneously move closer (or farther away) to tighten or widen the neck's angle. When breaks are needed, the giving person can withdraw, which can also be very helpful if you also need to converse with the receiving partner!
The Middle Stump position may also be somewhat successful for you. By moving or pushing the recipient's hips away, the blow job giver can easily adjust depth because they can kneel at the recipient's feet. Although you can attempt a blowjob with your head positioned vertically, the Middle Stump's sideways tilt can also assist you in penetrating further into the throat and possibly prevent your gag reflex from activating.
Many people firmly believe in the Deepthroat Position. Many blowjob givers find that this posture helps them feel deepthroat sensations, but you should only do this with someone you truly, truly trust. You have to have faith that your blowjob recipient would appreciate a "tap-out" gesture on their thighs because there isn't really any way for them to move readily in this posture. I want to include this as a reasonably familiar success story for people trying to deepthroat, but I wouldn't suggest it for your first time because it can leave some mental scars if done incorrectly.
After gaining some practice, you may discover that a basic Sofa Oral Position is a fantastic fit for you. This angle may cause the throat to feel somewhat closed up when you're first starting, but if you become comfortable pushing into the back of the throat, you'll have total control over when (and how long!) the shaft returns to that position. The eye contact here may be smoking, and it frees up your hands to add other sensations!
However, the closed-off angle of the head necessitates knowledge of the pressure required to achieve deep throating; therefore, it is not a position for those who are new to deep throating.
How to Get Better at Deep Throating
You're probably wondering how to truly "refine" this ability you've invested time and effort in after doing it a few times.
And the response is precisely what you would anticipate: you must practice.
A lot of practice may make a significant impact, especially when it comes to controlling your gag reaction!
But just getting acquainted with deep-throating blowjobs has many advantages, even if you don't have a gag reflex.
If you can make those strange, tickling sensations feel as natural as the back of your hand, you won't want to back out right away. Deep throating might go longer for you if you know how long you have until you want to come up for air and feel at ease toying about close to the limits.
You can experiment with more novel feelings after you're at ease with all of them, such as:
- Deep throating and swallowing
- Deep throating and humming
- Since deep throating no longer requires as much concentration, you can use your hands or a sex toy on specific body parts of the receiver.
- Establishing eye contact
- Permitting (or attempting to stop!) and drooling
It might be much simpler to concentrate on other elements of the encounter once you are comfortable with deep-throating and all of the sensations it involves. You can effortlessly enhance your deepthroat abilities in this way.
You can work on anything that increases your breath-holding time while you're displaying the patience I know you possess. Anything that makes it more comfortable to hold your breath for a little while longer can help you with deep throating, as it can make breathing harder. This could involve strengthening your heart, learning to swim or play an instrument, or just sitting on your couch and holding your breath a few times a day. Surprisingly, you can get better at this skill over time!
How to Deep Throat a Big Dick (or Dildo!)
You have an uphill battle if you encounter a specific long or wide phallus. If it's even physically feasible, that is.
You see, your mouth, throat, and, if physiologically attached, their shaft are fixed elements. Both your mouth and their phallus cannot be magically made bigger or smaller (unless you're using a dildo!).
Thus, even if you spend hours honing your gag reaction, it might not be physically feasible for you to deepthroat a wide variety of penis diameters, even though it is theoretically possible.
You will need to practice more if you have to deepthroat a large phallus, whether factory-placed or aftermarket. It could take months (or even years!) of effort to overcome the initial difficulty of getting the tip down your throat.
However, don't be too hard on yourself if you can't deepthroat any of it. There isn't much you can do about it, and it is a physical constraint.
Instead, concentrate on other methods to make your blow job experience more enjoyable—there are countless possibilities available! You have the potential to become the most inventive blow job giver in the world. That is far more valuable than just having one essential skill.
How else can I give a better blowjob?
In oral sex, deep-throating is not the ultimate goal. There are many different ways to add enjoyable sensations to oral sex without putting the penis in the back of the throat, even though some people might find the sensation pleasant. As anyone who has ever read an article with the "best blow job tips" will tell you, there are a ton of different methods to improve a blow job, but some of those ideas are unquestionably superior to others.
Therefore, don't worry if you don't feel comfortable doing deep-throating blowjobs or even if you don't want to.
Other suggestions for improving the oral pleasure you're providing are as follows:
- At the base, add a little more feeling. Although you can do this with your hand if you want, some unique sex toys, such as the bluish B Handy, make it easier and keep your hand from growing fatigued. While your mouth enjoys the tip of the penis, the B Handy can enjoy the base. To achieve the "all-encompassing" feeling that deep-throating might offer, think of moving them simultaneously. If there isn't room at the base, consider investigating anal toys or applying a vibrator to the perineum.
- Use flavored lube, such as Wicked Aqua Flavored, to get slick. The blowjob giver will undoubtedly notice this one, even though the blowjob recipient might not. Consider squirting on a flavored lube rather than using either no lubrication or an unflavored lube. This will not only help things go more smoothly, but it will also give you some exciting and unique tastes for extra enjoyment.
- Changing the temperature. During oral sex, a cold mouth can produce some intriguing sensations. A temperature that is different from what you would expect—such as holding warm ice in your mouth or sipping cold water just before sliding onto the penis—can be a nice change of pace. Straight-up "cold" is usually too frigid.
- Include your personal enjoyment and eye contact. Don't undervalue how much it pleases recipients to see you having fun. Their enjoyment can be significantly increased by making eye contact and adding groans. When performing an oral sex technique that is already challenging, it might be difficult to stimulate oneself physically. However, you can utilize hands-free sex toys, such as the Hot Octopuses Jett, Wild Flower Enby 2, or Orion Vibe Pad 2, to deliver hands-free stimulation without adding to your workload. (With the aid of a sex toy mount such as the Liberator Bonbon, you can also sit on top of any of your cherished, reliable toys.)
- With a penis stroker, switch locations. A penis stroker makes it simple to enter a threesome fantasy in which two individuals are stroking the owner of the penis. You can use whatever penis stroker you own, but a realistic one might assist in creating a more immersive image. After a little period of oral pleasure, switch things up with a penis stroker. In addition to giving you a brief opportunity to relax, the penis stroker allows you to regulate your partner's ascent to orgasm by ensuring tight or looser pressure.
- Use oral sex toys creatively! There are other methods to incorporate sex toys into your blow job, such as using the Fun Factory Manta or Satisfier Men Wand along the shaft or wrapping a toy like the Hot Octopuses Jett around the base!
- Try other places. The bed and couch are fine, but just changing the location of your blowjob might have a huge impact. Said people adore novelty. Therefore, just delivering a blowjob in a car rather than a bedroom can immediately increase the intensity, whether you're parking it in your garage or on the way home!
Honestly, improving one's blow job is a commendable objective! It's A+ to go out of your way to make sure your spouse has extra enjoyment. Just be aware that deep-throating is not required.
There are hundreds of techniques to please your lover, including one that involves the back of your throat. I hope these recommendations will help you explore the world of deep-throating, but if you're not interested in this deep-mouth experience, that's okay, too.
