How to Use a Prostate Massager: Tips & Techniques
A popular item hidden away in American bedrooms all around the country is male prostate massagers. There is nothing else that can cause such intense orgasms. Milking, another name for prostate massage, stimulates the gland and produces a powerful feeling of sexual excitement. Men’s prostate toys can also make ejaculations feel “heavier” and more robust than average when utilized correctly.
Men who already like using a sex toy to help them masturbate frequently add a vibrating prostate massager tool to their collection and use both in tandem. P-spot sex gadgets can also be utilized during sexual activity and included in kinky couples’ foreplay.
Although it’s an entirely different subject for a future blog post, having oral sex while your spouse is utilizing a prostate massager is an unmatched sexual experience! I’ll go over strategies and advice for novices who want to use a male P-spot massager for the first time in today’s lesson.
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How to Insert a Prostate Massager
The most crucial tip I can provide any man looking into using a prostate massager is to apply a lot of lubricant before anal penetration. Men who experienced a wrong first time with any anal toy neglected to lubricate both the anus and the anal object adequately.
The rectum will always stay dry without your assistance because the anus does not typically lubricate itself. Without lubricant, pushing something up your butt will cause painful friction and a “pulling” feeling. Not attractive.
Moreover, it is also unsafe. The most significant risk of utilizing a prostate massager toy is that it could damage the sphincter or tear delicate tissue inside the anus and rectum. Using a lot of anal lubrication when entering the toy will prevent this from ever happening.
For the simple reason that it is less runny than standard sex lubricant, thick and dense water-based anal lube is the most widely used option. We believe silicone lubricant is too harsh to remove (it is not water-soluble) entirely, yet other men swear by it. Men appear to really like hybrid lubes since they are the ideal compromise.
The next stage is to gradually ease it with a gently thrusting motion repeated “in & out.” Why? As previously said, the anus does not lubricate itself; thus, to disperse lubricant equally throughout the cavity, you must slowly drive the object in and out. You can only really relax and savour the intensity of the prostate massager orgasm once there is no more friction.
How to Use a Prostate Stimulator:
- Lubricate the toy.
- Put some lubricant on your finger.
- Touch the anal sphincter with your lubricated finger.
- Using your free hand, hold one butt cheek open.
- Using your other hand, slowly “poke in” the toy.
- To distribute the lubrication evenly, slowly slide the toy in and out after inserting it.
- You’re ready for pleasure once you can insert it far enough to reach the prostate gland.
How to Use a Male Prostate Massager – Step-by-Step Guide for Beginners
Prostate massager sex toys come in a variety of sizes and shapes, as you may have noticed if you’ve been looking through the men’s prostate toys category. Some even include strange-looking elements like teasers and external stimulators that are meant to touch your balls. The exact feature of the particular device will dictate the steps needed to use it properly, so I’ll list the instructions based on the features and shape of the toy:
Example 1: The Long Handled Prostate Stimulator
Because this tip is so crucial, I’ve included a video demonstration demonstrating how to use a prostate massager and ensure you locate the gland. Since the majority of men’s anal toys are too long to correctly identify the hot spot, this video demonstration can be used with almost any insertable device longer than 4 inches (remember that the prostate gland is situated between 3 and 4 inches within the anus facing the front).
A lengthy probe will completely miss the gland if you jam it into your butt. It’s simply far too lengthy. However, guys like long-handled stimulators because they are convenient to hold in one hand while masturbating with the other. To ensure that you will immediately detect the prostate gland when you enter the instrument, you must first locate it with your finger and then compare the depth to the tool.
- With your finger, locate the prostate gland.
- Keep in mind the depth required to locate it on your finger.
- Compare the toy’s shaft with the indicated spot on your finger.
- Use your thumb and index finger to hold onto this location.
- Insert the device by following the instructions in the previous section.
Example 2: The Continuously Curved Prostate Tool
This shape, sometimes referred to as male G spot toys differs from the previous example in that it has a huge, noticeable, or continuous curved shape. The “marking” processes are unnecessary because, once placed, the device will easily follow the rectum’s natural curve and rub the P-spot gland. Due to their ease of use, this style is frequently chosen by beginners:
- Use the previously described directions to insert it into the anus.
- Continue applying pressure with your face forward (toward your scrotum) while you slip it in.
- Stop there as soon as the pressure starts to tingle.
- Rock the base toward the front in a “come here” motion while holding it firmly in the palm of your hand.
Example 3: The Male Prostate Massager with Cock Ring
The only genuinely hands-free prostate massager, this “set and forget” male erection aid wraps around the base of your erection, which is essentially a cock ring, pushes the P-spot, and increases the pressure between your testicles. It should come as no surprise that the combination of all three of these erotic cues produces a fantastic sensation.
As you can understand, when you ejaculate, the sensation of both internal and exterior pleasure is just unique. The male butt plug is entirely hands-free so that you may use it during intercourse, and it won’t fall out. Men wear the cock ring prostate butt plug combo primarily during masturbation.
- Place the cock ring at the base of the shaft after sliding it down your erection.
- Lubricate both the plug and your anus.
- Stretch the scrotum strap with one hand to provide additional room for the butt plug to be inserted.
- With your other hand, insert the plug, then take pleasure in
How to Use a Vibrating Prostate Massager
When males ignore the vibrating prostate stimulator, I think it’s a terrible shame. Some people believe that having a butt vibration is too strange. You should try it, in my opinion, since the additional buzzing will take your sexual response to a whole new level. Yes, orgasms are always really powerful. Your assortment of anal toys should include the anal vibrator.
A decent option for novices is the wireless vibrating prostate massager. An easy-to-use, cordless anal vibrator buzzes when you click the button on the bullet vibrator or adjust the dial at the handle’s base.
In the images above, I provide an example of a corded vibrating prostate stimulator. Unlike any wireless model, this vibrator is the strongest for guys and emits an intense sensation. One like this should be on your radar now if you want to dive right in and go for enormous enjoyment.
- Before turning on the motor, use the toy to locate the prostate gland.
- After positioning, turn on the motor.
- Keep the device stationary and allow the vibration to remain on the P-spot until you cum
Can you turn on the motor before putting it in? You can, of course!
The reason I recommend turning off the motor of a vibrating prostate massager until you’ve found the P-Spot is that pleasure spreads across the entire cavity when there is vibration in the butt, making it difficult to tell if you’re “hitting the mark” or not. Like any vibrating anal toy, it will feel fantastic, but it’s best to identify the prostate’s location before using the vibrating gadget to stimulate it adequately.
