How To Use A Clitoral Suction Vibrator
The vibrator that simulates oral sex—have you heard of it? Whatever you call them—clit sucker, suction vibrator, clitoral vacuum stimulator—they are highly praised by the public, but there is also some misunderstanding about how they function. With Steph, the specialist from Adutoys, let's go over all you need to know about clitoral suction vibrators.
What Is A Clitoral Suction Vibrator?
A sex toy made especially for the clitoris is called a clitoral suction vibrator. Without coming into direct contact with the clit, it sends waves of stimulation there via vacuum suction or air pulse technology. In contrast, the majority of other clitoral vibrators vibrate directly against the clit. The clitoral glans, or the external nub on the clit, are sealed off by suction vibrators. (Read our blog post on Helen O'Connell's discovery of the clitoris to gain additional knowledge about clitoral anatomy.) In summary, clit suckers should be thought of as having more air sensation and less direct vibration.
Why Use A Clitoral Stimulator?
1. Clitoral Stimulation
The clitoris is where it's at during sex and self-pleasure, even though many people concentrate on the vagina or internal genitalia. The only portion of the body made specifically for pleasure is the clit! Compared to the penis, anus, or vagina, it is more sensitive. External toys like bullet vibrators and clitoral suction vibrators are ideal for activating the clitoris, a delightful area that is occasionally overlooked. For someone with a vulva, clitoral stimulation is frequently the quickest and most straightforward method of experiencing an orgasm.
2. Unique Pulse Sensation
When compared to other vibrators, many individuals gush over the novel sensation that a clitoral vacuum offers. Instead of intense vibrations, it feels like seductive waves of pleasure. People know they like it and that it's different from other toys they've used in the past, but they sometimes lack the words to express how they feel. You can actually sense the difference.
3. Small & Subtle
A first-time sex toy customer won't be frightened by clitoral suction vibrators because they are sufficiently modest. Sometimes, it's difficult to tell if they're even a sex toy! A few of them do resemble vacuums, you know. The majority of them can be used in coupled sex because they are small enough.
How To Use A Clitoral Suction Vibrator
Since a suction vibrator differs significantly from conventional vibrators, it may take some getting accustomed to. It's worth the wait, so take your time and don't quit if it doesn't feel right the first time. Here are some pointers to get you started:
1. Get In The Mood
The brain is where sex begins. Remove any tension from your mind and focus on enjoying yourself (we know it's easier said than done). You can get there by paying attention to your breathing or by observing how your body feels. Try using sexual affirmations like "I make time for my pleasure" or "I deserve to feel good." Make your room a pleasant haven by cleaning it and lighting a candle.
2. Add Some Foreplay
Penetrative sex and partners are not the only uses for foreplay. Examine your body's many erogenous zones by caressing your thighs, hips, neck, and chest. Start with your hands when you're prepared to dig down to the level where the magic occurs. Before utilizing a toy on the clitoris, it's always a good idea to touch the entire genital area yourself. Make fun of yourself!
3. Use Lube
Apply lubricant to the entire vaginal area, paying particular attention to the clitoris, to prolong the foreplay a bit. You must not skip this step! Even with external toys, Lube is a necessary self-pleasure item. Lube makes the thought of simulating oral sex feel more lifelike, which is especially great for clitoral suction vibes. You may be sure that lubrication will improve your solo performance!
4. Start Slow & Low
Before increasing the intensity or experimenting with different modes, start on the lowest setting and observe how it feels. Clitoral suction vibes are beautiful because they are subtle rather than overt. Hard pressure is not necessary because of the seal the toy makes on the clit. Give yourself time to experience the feelings. Higher settings result in quicker speeds. However, the vibrations feel less suction-like as the speed increases. To experience the positive vibrations, have patience and concentrate on calming your entire body.
5. Adjust The Settings
Feel your way through the other settings as you gain comfortable with the toy and the controls. With controls to change the mode or adjust the level, many clitoral stimulators offer more than one purpose. With 40 customizable pleasure settings, consistent suction vibrations, and several pattern modes, Adutoys' Clitoral Vacuum Vibrator is guaranteed to have something you adore.
6. Explore Pressure, Positions & Parts
Remember to change your stance in addition to the toy's different settings! Try resting on your stomach, or your back with your legs spread wide. Depending on how you hold the toy, you can even change the pressure (try keeping it a little bit more away from the clit to get that seal). Since some people discover that one side of their clitoris is more sensitive than the other, you can even position it on its side. Use your toy in the shower or bathtub if it's waterproof! Remember that clitoral suckers can be used in other body areas, such as the nipples, even though they are made for the clitoris.
7. Invite A Partner
Invite a companion instead of keeping the fun to yourself! Because they don't interfere with penetrative sex, small, handheld clitoral vibrators are ideal for paired use. Mutual masturbation is another situation in which clitoral vacuums can be employed. Why not get each other a vulva if your companion already has one? As an alternative, a partner can use their hands, mouth, or genitalia to enjoy the remainder of the vulva, vagina, and anus while the vibrator is applied to the clit. For additional advice on playing with partnered sex toys, see our guide on integrating sex toys into coupled sex.
8. Relax And Enjoy
We're confident that you'll feel great very quickly once you start using your new toy regularly. Breathe into and allow an orgasm to occur if you do sense one coming on. As an alternative, consider edging, which is a method in which you increase the intensity when you're ready to climax, then decrease it a bit before orgasm to postpone the finish. This procedure is made easier by a vibrator's many speeds and patterns, which allow you to extend your solo play by going down a level or switching to a patterned mode, then increasing the pleasure settings when you're ready for an orgasm.
Don't worry if you don't feel like finishing; sex and masturbation don't always result in an orgasm! Orgasm and pleasure can occur independently of one another and are not always interchangeable. It's working if it feels wonderful and makes you feel hot and heavy (or, conversely, refreshed and relaxed).
9. Rinse And Repeat
Cleaning your toys is the last phase in the self-pleasure procedure, which allows you to resume as soon as possible. Silicone, which is used to make many suction vibrators, should be cleaned with warm water and mild detergent or sex toy cleanser. If a vacuum vibrator's head is not entirely waterproof, use caution when cleaning it since this could interfere with the toy's functionality.
