How to Use a Vibrator: Step by Step Instructions
At first, using sex toys might seem obvious, but when you crawl beneath the covers, you could be wondering how to use a vibrator properly. Are there specific methods and advice that strengthen the orgasm?
To make your sex life shine, this comprehensive Sexpert guide to vibrator use will walk you through the many kinds of incredibly cool vibrator sex toys.
Since rabbit vibrators are the most complicated, I shall start with them. After that, a decent bullet vibrator tutorial will show you how to use a vibrator to improve the sensation of intercourse during partnered sex.
Should I only search for vibrators that are the strongest and most intense? Do you find the feeling of sucking on the clit enjoyable? Some of these unusual adult toys for women are designed with tailored stimulation to boost blood flow to all of your pleasure areas, which goes far beyond the traditional vibrator.
A professional sex educator will teach you how to use the several g spot vibrators available for purchase at any decent sex shop. Have you ever wondered how to use a rose vibrator, wand vibrator, or rabbit vibrator?
This is the essential manual for someone new to using a vibrator; it will show you how to experience various sensations that will allow you to explore your body or enhance your sex with a partner.
How to Use a Vibrator for Internal and External Stimulation
Assume you have a clit vibrator that is both external and interior (think bunny clitoral vibrator). A vibrator can be used in five various ways for internal, G spot, and clitoral stimulation. You can select one approach and stick with it throughout the session, switch between two or three, or try all five.
First, we must comprehend how the body functions using the finest vibrator for female orgasm. To reach a climax, women require a slow increase of sexual stimulation, a gradual build-up. In light of this, I would advise you to begin with step number 1 and go to technique number 2 as you feel more sexually stimulated. Proceed down the sequence until method number 5 as you get closer to orgasm.
Vibrator Tutorial & Techniques
You may learn how to operate a vibrator for the first time with this video lesson. To lessen friction during the first entry, always lubricate the top two or three inches of the vibrator as well as your vagina and labia. The most straightforward technique to increase sexual desire and promote mental and physical relaxation during intercourse is to use a vibrator.
The intricate vibrator lesson skills in steps 1–5 will help you achieve an exhilarating orgasm at the conclusion. There’s no need to hurry through the steps; take your time. As you move from one method to the next, you’ll grow more excited the longer you take.
Lubricate your labia, the vaginal opening, and the insertable portion of the shaft before starting any of these procedures. Avoid lubricating the ears or the bunny stimulator. Since water-based lubricant is the safest to use with silicone sex toy materials, use it exclusively. Silicone surfaces will cause silicone lube to melt.
Technique #1 – Tickle & Tease
To put it another way, this is the finest approach to “get your engine revved up.” Withholding intense contact with the vibrating bunny is meant to arouse your sexual response. Your vagina will relax as a result of purposefully teasing yourself with the Jack Rabbit vibrator, readying it for (and desiring) penetration.
The ears are being gently lapped at the clitoral hood rather than pressed into the clitoris. It will provide a tickling sensation, and soon, you will want to push the shaft in closer to achieve more direct contact (more vital pleasure). Fight the impulse! We deliberately keep the rabbit far away so your body can sense the tease.
Does the vibrator have beads? To emphasize the teasing feeling, they will hardly touch the vaginal opening. To replicate the thrusting in and out motion of sexual intercourse, you can also gently push the toy back in after removing it from touch with the clit.
You may also set the motor to its highest power, which will give your clitoris a more intense tickle. However, most ladies leave the power at the intermediate level during warm-up because the tickle can occasionally be too fierce.
Technique #2 – Bunny Ear Hug
Lay one ear on either side of your clitoris after pushing the ears apart with your hand. Until your clitoris is crushed between the two ears, push the shaft inside even more. The clitoris will make a more vital touch the deeper you insert the dildo.
To place the clitoris correctly in its place, you must do precise movements with your free hand during this stage. It won’t happen by itself when you enter the toy into your body. Place each ear into the clitoral hood and allow the clit to “pop” out between the ears to improve contact.
Use the index finger of your other hand to press the rabbit stimulator forward to establish robust and direct contact if it cannot reach the Spot on its own (sometimes they naturally lean back too much, and this position is difficult to fix).
I need to do this to create this positioning, as you can see in my photo demonstration. A hidden benefit of using your finger to push it? It feels like the vibration is much stronger!
In step #1, we desired more vital, potent stimulation, which we have now satisfied. However, unlike the first stage, you cannot thrust the object in and out. If it doesn’t stay in place, you’ll have to reset the clit between your ears.
Don’t move the rabbit vibrator! Don’t push, move, or wiggle it. If you haven’t already, now is the time to increase the motor’s speed to its maximum.
Technique #3 – Into the Clitoral Cave
Using this approach, many women will experience an orgasm. Of all the steps, this one has the most muscular clitoral stimulation. This is the only method I will employ to finish a task fast if I’m pressed for time and have little time for a “quickie with myself.”
The rabbit ears cannot be inserted to reach this position; considerable manipulation is needed. Raise the clitoral hood with one hand.
Pinch the ears shut with the other hand and tuck them inside the clitoral hood. Lifting the hood and “tenting” it over the ears is probably necessary. The clit will still infiltrate the narrow opening at the top, but the ears should stay together.
When positioning for this method, turn off the motor. Why? The ears will wiggle out of the hood when the engine runs because they vibrate and move. After applying pressure to the ears, please turn on the motor; the tented hood’s pressure will hold them there.
Set the motor to its maximum power. To raise arousal, you can also apply pressure on the clitoris with your index finger. This is when investing in the most excellent clit stimulator will pay off because the motor will be stronger than one produced with inferior materials.
But I have to warn you, the vibration is powerful! This stage will work for you if you enjoy orgasming with strong bullet vibrators, but many women can’t handle it this high. Due to the simultaneous vaginal stimulation and massage, it will feel even better than simply holding a bullet.
Technique #4 – Bunny Head Butt
The deeper penetration you’ve been longing for is now here! The vagina feels relaxed, the tissue is loose and receptive to the thrusting motion, and the sensation of the spinning, massaging beads is lovely after the clit is wholly gratified. Around this moment, a revolving bunny sex toy will provide the best sensation ever!
In contrast to the first two methods, this one doesn’t call for any particular body part location or moving. As seen in this picture, the stimulator will naturally rest in this position if you lubricate the rabbit dildo and insert it far.
As I mentioned, here is a clear example of how the bunny is ergonomically shaped to fit a woman’s figure.
The clitoris and the rabbit head are positioned perpendicularly. The small, pointed nose prods the clit’s base. The ears extend far up the pubis and sit together. This position provides the most significant external vibration compared to the earlier methods. The filling sensation is also exceptionally sexual because the shaft is more bottomless.
The toy can be thrust in and out and jiggled, and its functions and vibrating patterns are experimented with. For ladies, the deep head rotation and intense vibration provide a full-on sexual encounter.
Your vagina will completely encircle the beaded section of the shaft, which will massage a wide area of your body. Pressing the bunny vibrator harder on your body with your thumb or finger will intensify the external vibration.
Technique #5 – Clit Vibrator Tango
This last stage is necessary to maintain pleasure if you want to have several orgasms, but it’s not required to orgasm—you’ve probably already done it. The shaft will be inserted as far as possible to maximize full-on body contact while pushing the rabbit form against you. Enjoyment, magnified!
The “insertable” measurement on each women’s sex toy product page should be noted if you are a petite lady or have a shallow vagina. Every shaft varies in length; some are as tiny as 4 inches, while others are as large as 6 inches. You must insert the entire insertable length of the jack rabbit vibrator to finish this procedure.
The picture shows my index finger rubbing against the bunny’s back. As I show in this approach, the rabbit sex toy is made to touch the clitoris with the head or the ears, not the belly. To get the belly to feel your pubis, it will probably require assistance.
The shaft and the belly will squeeze the clitoris. You can see that the motor is always found in the bunny’s body if you look at the external stimulator. In contrast to the higher pitch sensation you experience when your ears are flapping against you, your clitoris will feel “lower intensity” in this position because it will be in direct contact with the bunny.
The ears tickle around your pubic hairline and the nose presses above the clitoris. This full-on contact stimulates all erogenous zones, and the spinning beads massage the tissue more profoundly within the vagina. On the other hand, insertion at this point will be too far away to reach the G spot if you have a rabbit dildo with a G spot.
How to Use a Vibrator During Sex
To make sex more exciting, married couples frequently use vibrators during intercourse. It gives the partners a more interactive way to fully interact with one another’s bodies. I’ve included the top vibrators to use below since some kinds of vibrator sex toys are better suited for sex than others.
In conclusion, vibrating cock rings, wand massagers, and bullet vibrators are the ideal vibrators to use with your partner during foreplay and penetrative sex.
Read the comprehensive instructions for your particular toy type before your new toy arrives. There are various vibrators, and their methods vary! To access the detailed step-by-step instructions and user manual for the different kinds of vibrators for ladies, browse the database here.
How to Use a Bullet Vibrator
The most excellent sex tool to make sex more exciting is a bullet vibrator. During penetrative sex, bullet vibrators can be utilized for both clitoral and anal stimulation. If you’re considering using a bullet vibrator for the first time, I’ve posted a comprehensive guide with more information and details here.
- Directly place the bullet vibrator on top of the clitoris.
- The tip should be pushed beneath the clitoral hood.
- Insert the tip into the opening of the vagina.
- As your level of sexual arousal rises, repeat steps 1 through 3.
- Go around the perineum.
- When engaging in sexual activity, hold the bullet vibrator against the clitoris.
Wand Vibrators
Wand vibrators can be rubbed in a circle around the vaginal opening or inserted shallowly into the vagina, much like bullet vibrators, which are designed for external stimulation. Because of their discrete, non-phallic appearance, wand massager vibrators are a favourite foreplay and first-timer sex item.
You’ll read recommendations for various types of lube when learning to use a vibrator, but if you’re using a wand or palm vibrator, I advise avoiding lube entirely. The vibrator head will slide off and miss the pleasure point if the clit is very slick.
While water-based lubricant is recommended for most vibrators, wand vibrators should be left dry to allow them to “stick to the clit.”
How to Use a G Spot Vibrator
You must first understand how to locate the G Spot to enjoy G Spot vibrators fully. Following that, you may see my video demonstration and tutorial on how to use a G Spot vibrator for what is likely to be one of the most pleasurable orgasms of your life.
- Mark the Spot with your finger after measuring down the G Spot vibrator shaft by roughly 3 inches.
- With the curved end toward your belly button, insert it inside the vagina until the shaft reaches the 3-inch mark.
- Press the G Spot vibrator forward until it comes into direct contact with it after turning on the motor.
- Instead of thrusting the object in and out as you would with a dildo, jiggle it in a circular motion or leave it motionless inside the vagina for the most G Spot stimulation.
With G Spot vibrator toys, you can use either silicone or water-based lubrication, but if the curved vibrator is thin, you might not need any at all. Try using a G Spot stimulation cream, which makes the pleasure point seem more sensitive and boosts blood flow. The increased intensity will be felt as soon as the motor is powered up.
Vibrating Cock Rings
A little ring vibrator that fits on the base of an erect penis is called a vibrating cock ring. To add further sensations, they can also be applied to a vibrator. See my video demonstration and detailed instructions on how to use a vibrating cock ring.
Any reputable sex toy store will carry a nice assortment of flavoured lubes and vibrating cock rings to add some spice to oral sex. The purpose of the vibrating cock ring is to arouse the labia’s and clitoris’ delicate nerve endings during intercourse. You’ll feel more stimulation the deeper you go!
Many of these sex toys are flexible enough to fit penises of any size. To make sex more exciting, any licensed sex therapist will advise experimenting with a vibrating sex ring. It is a simple, hands-free sex toy that occasionally has a bunny theme to make it appear playful and amiable.
Anal Play?
Feel free to experiment with your own body because any decent vibrator can be used as a vibrating anal toy. Women love anal play because these other devices with rumbly vibrations and varied intensity settings make it fascinating, while men purchase vibrators for prostate stimulation.
You can tease and tickle the anus by rubbing the vibrator’s tip around it; no insertion is necessary. External stimulation feels just as good as internal stimulation, so rub it over the inner labia and give the inner thighs a little tickle!
Vibrating anal devices should never be used in the vagina for sexual health reasons. Switching holes is never safe, even when the sex toys and materials are safe for the body. Keep butt toys apart for anal play and purchase a vaginal canal vibrator.
Sex Toys and Your Pleasure
Your climax will be just spectacular, provided that you are utilizing a comparable approach to the one shown in my “How to use a rabbit vibrator” video above. Why?
To begin with, no other form of sexual stimulation can create orgasms as intense as clitoral vibration. Because it causes women to come more powerfully, couples frequently use a bullet vibrator during sex.
The external rabbit is just a bullet vibrator, but it has a head that rubs against the clit and ears that emit a higher-pitch tickle from the motor underneath. To ensure complete clitoral contact, the hood is further stimulated by the ears’ curve. It’s like a potent vibrating egg on steroids.
We also need to look into why the spinning beads exist, even though they provide a pleasant interior massage. What is the sensation of a vibrator? Continue reading to learn all you’ve ever wanted to know!
Intensity Settings and Your Orgasm
A woman’s vaginal muscles pulse and convulse during an orgasm, like an involuntary spasm. To improve the odds of egg fertilization, semen is drawn deeper into the vagina by these contractions, which is an intelligent design of nature.
Find out more about the fascinating events that take place during a female orgasm. The fact that nature has produced such a surge of sexual pleasure to entice us to procreate is rather remarkable!
You can understand why the rabbit dildo is such an effective instrument for female sexual enjoyment by being aware of these muscle spasms. When experiencing intense pleasure, the convulsing muscles have something to clench around, thanks to the spinning beads. Insane, overwhelming pleasure was the outcome.
Secret Tip on How to Use a Vibrator
Three things are happening simultaneously with the conventional rabbit sex toy:
- Clitoral oscillation
- Beads spinning
- head that rotates
If you look at the energy source, they are powered by a chamber that holds AA or AAA batteries. The batteries draw the same amount of power for these three functions. The residual energy is sent toward the other motor when one or more motors are turned off.
The energy distribution of USB rechargeable rabbit vibrators is comparable to that of a battery-operated sex toy, even though they are a recent fad in sex toy stores worldwide. The finest aspect? There are some exceptions to the general rule that rechargeable motors are far more potent than battery-operated ones.
Focus on Clitoral Stimulation
Turn down the spinning motor and turn up the clitoral motor, for instance, if you prefer the clitoral vibration to the internal rotation. The function you want will be much stronger than if all the motors ran equally because the extra energy from the other functions will be directed toward it. Turning off the different motors and leaving only one motor going can let you harness that energy spike, which is my most excellent advice for using a rabbit dildo. It will have more power!
Internal Stimulation with a Beaded Vibrator
A vibrator toy featuring a beaded shaft can be made in two different ways:
- In the centre of the shaft are metal beads that revolve on a central fixed axis. Most styles with multiple speed settings also feature a button that lets the user adjust the spinning axis’s speed. As the beads move inside the shaft and press against the silicone shell they are enclosed in, this creates an evenly distributed massage sensation inside the vagina.
- The shaft’s open cavity is filled with loose plastic beads. The motor stirs the beads around as the shaft rotates, creating an uneven crunching sensation that stimulates the vagina. The sensation is distinct since this form typically protrudes farther from the shaft than the previously stated type.
Comparing Vaginal & Clit Vibrators
Which of these two choices seems better, then? They are different and cannot be compared, like most women’s vibrators. Although the loose beaded form is less widespread and less popular than the first, which features rotating beads on an axis, the second is equally good. Since appearances are crucial when making an online purchase, I assume the first variety is more popular because it appears better!
The One (and Only) Rabbit Vibrator Con
You just read about how incredible these great toys are for a while. But there is a drawback to all of this splendour and wonder. It will be noisier if there are more motors and functionalities. Though they all produce noise, high-end and costly models do better deadening sound than inexpensive rabbit vibrators.
The head and revolving beads of the rabbit vibrator generate noise. When using maximum power mode, the axis turning produces a mechanical low-end “whirring” sound. One thing I must point out, though, is that the body naturally muffles some of the sound when the shaft is inside it, making it less loud. You can use it to block out any noise in the shower as long as the type you’ve picked is waterproof.
Shopping for the Right Vibrator Online
Deciding which of the many features you’ll appreciate best is difficult. Hopefully, this information made enough sense for you to purchase online with confidence for a new vibrating dildo that you’ll adore. Please email me with any more questions about any of my vibrator usage lessons, demo videos, or other stuff, and I would be pleased to assist you.
Just as no two women are alike, neither are bunny sex toys, so it’s critical to get the ideal vibrator for your needs. Finding the type you’ll love the most requires some detective work. You’re prepared to shop now that you’ve read my guide on using a rabbit vibrator!
We have a wide range of options that satisfy all of your needs, whether you’re looking for a giant rabbit vibrator or would instead try a little bullet or egg vibrator. We also have affordable options if you’re on a tight budget or want a more feature-rich model. Happy shopping for sex toys!
After Using a Vibrator: Cleaning & Care
For any internal vibrator, a sex toy cleanser is crucial. The integrity of the body-safe materials and your favourite silicone toy will be preserved by these antibacterial sprays, which are also a kind of porous material.
Cleaning is simple; any competent sex educator will tell you to store oral, anal, and palm vibrators separately and never use them in the same hole.