Pegging 101: a beginner's guide to Pegging

Pegging is really popular at the moment. That may not sound like a complete sentence, but it is true. In recent years, pegging—basically shorthand for strapping your partner up the butt—has undoubtedly gained more attention and publicity. Pegging is popular right now, so there's never a better moment to embrace it, whether you saw it on that Broad City episode or you've always wanted to strap your man up the ass.

However, please don't force them to do something they're not comfortable with because there's no assurance that every guy will be into it. It's also acceptable if they want to do it, but you disagree with the concept. However, it could be time to discuss equality and double standards in your relationship if your partner enjoys anal intercourse but won't attempt Pegging. They are just letting you know.

However, it can seem like a highly daunting notion if you have never tried Pegging or anal in general. Fortunately, it's all about being informed, talking, and taking things slow, just like any new sexual encounter. There is no such thing as too much lubrication, so here is what you need to know.

1. Communication is key 

First of all, you will want to maintain communication even if you both agree on pegging, which you should do before attempting anything. Stay in close contact while you try different things and follow the guidelines. Throughout the process, make sure your partner is secure and at ease. To make sure you're on the same page, you should discuss it before, during, and after sex. When you have your first anal experience, treat them the way you want to be treated.

2. Don't rush into anything 

Yes, using a strap-on or dildo to fuck your lover is a traditional part of Pegging, but it doesn't imply you have to use them straight away. You could want to start by inserting tiny toys or practicing anal fingering. Start small with dildos as well once you feel prepared. Since the anus is a delicate region that is prone to tearing, it is best to be safe than sorry.

3. All the lube. All of it 

What amount of lubricant do you think you'll need? That is not enough for you. Much more, actually. There is never too much lubricant because you can always wipe it off, regardless of whether you're ready for pegging or just going in for fingering. However, the process might go much more smoothly if it is applied not just to the dildo but also to the area surrounding the anus. Literally.

4. Take sex toy shopping seriously 

Finding a toy that suits you and fits correctly is essential, regardless of whether you want to start with a dildo or go for the full strap-on harness. You can get professional advice to aid you along the road by visiting a sex toy store or reading internet reviews. However, when dealing with anal, always, always, always choose anything with a broader foundation. Up there, things can become lost. It's a fact.

5. Play with the prostate 

The prostate is a beautiful little pleasure zone that makes a man feel delighted, which is one of the reasons anal play feels so lovely on him. Therefore, get a massage for your prostate when you use your fingers. Additionally, be sure to choose a toy that stimulates the old P-spot. Toys made especially for that use are widely available.

6. Pick your position wisely 

Pegging can be done in a variety of ways, but the simplest is probably doggy style, which involves your partner lying on their back and raising their legs; it's essentially a variation on missionary. Not only does this position offer excellent access, but it also allows you to see each other and establish eye contact, ensuring their comfort throughout the operation. Begin slowly and observe how they feel; in the end, you should choose the posture that makes them feel the most at ease.

7. Have fun 

Lastly, enjoy yourself since Pegging is kinky, a power play, and unique. There should be a fun spin to anything that challenges conventional gender conventions or permits you to engage in forbidden behavior. You might take things exceptionally seriously, but don't forget to enjoy yourself.

Bottom Line

Pegging can be a sensual and entertaining addition to your bedroom activities, but if you've never done it before, it can also be terrifying. So go slowly. Build his tolerance gradually at first, and then go to the significant event. Just feel free to speak up and, if necessary, seek guidance from professionals. But most importantly, keep the lube in mind, baby.