Pillow Princess

Generally speaking, a pillow princess is a woman who enjoys receiving pleasure, especially oral sex but does not try to give it back. In the LGBTQ community, the phrase is most frequently used to describe gay women.

It is thought that the term "pillow princess" first appeared in lesbian periodicals in the 1990s when the word "princess" indicated someone who demanded special treatment or favours. In contrast, the word "pillow" described someone who was docile. Around 2010, the phrase was broadened to include heterosexual partnerships.

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People may use the term "pillow princess" in-joke or even to describe their sexual preferences, like in a dating profile. However, some contend that it also carries some unsettling overtones. Since not everyone enjoys both giving and receiving the same acts, direct reciprocation is not necessary for consenting sexual encounters. A patriarchal culture that emphasizes male pleasure may be the source of the idea that someone who relaxes and puts their pleasure first is lazy and unworthy.

Being a pillow princess may be a regular aspect of a submissive's role in a domineering/submissive relationship. Some have even suggested that being a pillow princess is a valid sexuality or fashion sense.

Sexual partners are in charge of negotiating their interactions. It is not an issue if both couples find that passively experiencing sexual pleasure in specific situations is beneficial.