Eat Ass Like a Pro: Rimming 101

Many people's thoughts will naturally turn to penetrative anal play because it's Anal August, but what if I told you that there are a ton of enjoyable alternatives to penetration for anal play? Indeed, there are, and among the most common is anal, oral play, sometimes referred to as rimming or, for the more hip, eating the booty like groceries. How do you eat healthily so that both you and your partner enjoy it? Let us explain how.

Step 1: Have a Conversation

Even if the genitals (vulva or penis) and the anus are near together, you can't presume that your spouse is on board by seeing deeply between their cheeks. It can be scary to start a conversation about anal play, particularly oral anal play, but you're not the only one.

The conversation can be started in a variety of ways. Sending them this article is the first choice. "Hey, would you be interested in trying some anal play?" text your partner the URL you copied. Instead of only putting forth a suggestion, using this article provides you with a starting point that delivers knowledge. Additionally, since you are not required to speak directly, using an outside resource sounds less intimidating. In addition to providing talking topics for questions you and your spouse might ask, using tools as conversation aides will relieve a lot of stress.

Social media might also be used to initiate the discussion. You can send one Instagram post about ass munching if you can send 20 TikToks or memes in an hour. It's also a fantastic idea to start with books if you and your spouse are more cerebral. You can read a wide variety of books with your significant other or by yourself.

If you are a more straightforward person, ask your spouse how you would explain any other behavior in the bedroom. I suggest not having the conversation in the bedroom. If you bring it up in the bedroom, it can put pressure on you to complete the task at hand.

Step 2: Prep the Butt

The top three preparation tips for any anal play are to clean the anus, avoid alcohol, and quit eating early. About three hours before you intend to have anal play, begin your preparations. You can digest and get rid of the final bit of food you've eaten by eliminating it beforehand. To reduce the possibility of some straggler poop during the enjoyment, you should clean your anus after removing the meal. Showering, douching, or washing your butt with warm, soapy water or cleansing wipes can all be used to clean the anus.

There are a few key considerations when it comes to douching. To start with, you don't want to overdo it. Because it can remove vital intestinal enzymes, overdouching can be dangerous. Next, use cool water or room temperature. Although you may believe that cleaning requires the use of warm or hot water, douching your anus involves inserting the water into the body through the anal orifice. It will be safer and less shocking for your body if the water is at room temperature. To reduce mess, douching should be done in the shower or over a toilet.

To avoid having to repeat the preparation steps, hydrate after douching and only drink water after that.

Step 3: Start Slow

Therefore, you don't just dive into their booty cheeks, even though the purpose is to devour ass. Regardless of the kind of sexual activity you intend to partake in, arousal is crucial, but it's especially vital when trying something new, like rim jobs. Thus, begin slowly by stroking their thighs. Next, please give them a seductive back massage to work your way down or work your way up to their rump. As you stroke their cheeks, plant a few kisses on their butt. You can then travel between the cheeks as the excitement increases.

Use that tongue as you get more at ease. Rimming and rimjobs aren't the only terms for using your tongue around the anus; don't be scared to do so. Be inventive and experiment with different methods, tempos, and tongue twists. However, make sure to talk to your spouse and pay attention to them. This will allow you to determine what they find enjoyable or what they would like you to try or alter.

Optional: Kick It Up a Notch

Consider adding toys, lubricants, or other items to your rimming if you and your partner are trying to find ways to make it more enjoyable. For clitoral or perineal stimulation, for instance, you can include a bullet vibrator. I recommend the We-Vibe Tango X or the Diablo Rechargeable Bullet. Flavored lubes can enhance your partner's inherent deliciousness. Some of my favourite lubes are from the Wicked brand. Trying out different postures can also make the ass-eating experience more enjoyable. Starting in a position similar to doggy style might be simpler, but as you and your partner become more at ease, experimenting with different positions can lead to new pleasures.

Safe Sex Practices

Because anal intercourse can result in STIs, safer sex practices are nevertheless advised even though they might not appear common during oral sex. Additionally, I am aware that many people will argue that oral sex is less enjoyable when barrier techniques are used, but I don't think that's the case. Dental dams and my personal favorite, Lorals Panties for Pleasure, are just two of the many options available for safer sex that yet permits enjoyment. You may still feel the stimulation without coming into close touch with the skin because to the thinness of the barriers in both alternatives.

Go forth now and eat like the champion you are!