SPANKING 201: BELTS AND PADDLES

Erotic Spanking

Therefore, you have been spanking your bad little submissive over your knee dozens of times, not just once or twice. You are quite an expert when it comes to punishment based on the ass. In just a few minutes, you can turn your sub's adorable little tush from comfy to scarred and ashamed right before you hug them and declare your love for them.

To put it briefly, you are addicted to sexy spanking.

You're at the correct place, then. Today, we'll discuss what to do if you and your subordinate need more than the typical spanking session.

While belting and paddling are kinds of impact play, Purists will point out that they are not spanking. And they would be correct, so they will have to pardon me for this article's title. Or perhaps they will also be lenient and give me a well-earned punishment.

Where was I, sorry?

Indeed. Impact play in other forms.

If you're starting in impact play, belts and paddles are readily accessible and relatively simple. Since you probably already have one or two belts around your house, they are very accessible.

But putting your submissive on all fours and belting or paddling them the manner you would punish them isn't as simple as that. Although the restrictions for the exercises are similar (never, ever hitting the lower back, pelvis, collarbones, backs of the ankles, or backs of the knees), they are slightly different from one another. So, let's go over each one individually.

Belting

Genuine leather is always preferable to synthetic materials for belts, and softer leather is healthier for the tush. While a thinner belt may be more of a sting, a broader belt will give you a resounding, wonderful smack of agony. Follow your sub's preference if they have one. If not, everyone will be thrilled if you get your toy box with various belt widths.

Spend time practising before approaching a play partner if you have never belted someone. Hold the end of the buckle—NEVER hit with the buckle—I hope this is clear. You can hold the belt tightly and buckle it around your fist for convenience.

Smack the belt into your open palm with your arm's force, and your wrist flip. To find out how painful it is, try it a few times with different amounts of force. Additionally, try it on your legs, especially the inner thighs. This will assist you in determining the appropriate amount of force to use. Another option is to bend the belt in half and hit it with the bent end. This creates a beautiful, gratifying sound.

Practice repeatedly striking the same area with a pillow, then use both sides of the belt to hit the cushion with a fluid figure-eight motion. You can bring in your substitute once you are comfortable with that movement.

As always, you should warm up your sub's body, mind, and mood. A light spanking can help get blood flowing to the bottom and put your sub in the correct frame of mind.

Start slowly and steadily with the belt, and periodically check in with your sub to gauge comfort and pain levels. Please don't overdo it on your first session. Later on, you can always become more evil, more muscular, and more devilish!

Paddling

Although various everyday items can be used as paddles (wooden spoons are incredibly excellent), it's worthwhile to purchase a genuine paddle that is made for the purpose. There are numerous varieties, so do your homework and select one that suits your requirements. A small, thin paddle will sting, whereas a large, hefty paddle will thump. Make the appropriate choice.

A wide variety of paddle materials are also available. Although leather is my preferred material, rubber, silicone, and bamboo are also enjoyable and provide your sub with varying levels of discomfort. Another standard option is wood.

Paddles composed of porous materials should never be used with different partners. Get a different paddle for each partner and write their name on it if your paddle is made of a porous material. As Oprah once said: You get a paddling! A paddle is yours! Everybody receives a paddle!

As previously mentioned, it's beneficial to practice on a pillow before using a real ass. Never strike with the paddle's side, and avoid striking the knees, ankles, elbows, or any other joint. Steer clear of the face, neck, spine, and tailbone. Don't strike the kidneys.

Don't touch the breasts; instead, focus on the thighs and ass. Subs like to lie down to get their paddle punishment since it is frequently more painful than spanking. This is perfectly OK. Regularly inspect your paddle for cracks and splinters, and replace it immediately if you find any.

Afterwards

Similar to spanking, the most crucial aspect of belting and paddling is frequently the aftermath. Arnica cream is excellent for treating abrasions and bruises. If bleeding or skin splitting occurs, you should administer first aid as needed. If the situation is more serious, you should get medical help.

Submissives frequently feel vulnerable during impact play, and withdrawing from subspace can highlight feelings. Because of this, you should tell your sub that he's gorgeous and that you adore him and give him the freedom to choose how much physical touch he wants. After you've played with him, caress his skin and give him sugary, carby food. Permit yourself to feel connected and bask in your encounter's aftermath. That's the primary goal of BDSM.