THE TRANS GUY'S GUIDE TO SEX TOYS

The top Lovers sex toys for trans men are compiled by guest writer Mud Howard. These toys, which range from packers to vibrators and harnesses, are sure to offer you...

As a transgender man, navigating sex toys can be challenging. It might be difficult to determine which sex toys are worth buying because they are frequently not made with transgender bodies in mind. I want you to know that there are sex toys available for you regardless of your gender identity: genderqueer, FTM, nonbinary, transgender man, or trans masculine person.

I tested six items from Lovers intended for both solo and companion play. These toys are adaptable enough to function for a range of anatomy, regardless of whether you are medically transitioning. For comparison, I have bottom growth after taking testosterone HRT for eight years.

Every transgender person is free to identify with the language that feels most comfortable for their body and to utilize it. I will refer to trans male genitals with the terms "dick" or "junk" interchangeably for the sake of clarity and consistency in this post and silicone strap-ons with the terms "dildo" or "cock."

We-Vibe Touch-X

We-Vibe toys are among the best-made and most artistically beautiful toys available. The idea behind We-Vibe's design started with the knowledge that couples can and should utilize sex toys to enjoy each other's company during intercourse. My girlfriend and I are continuously discussing and looking for this. I enjoy taking turns, don't get me wrong. Focused fucking is incredibly fulfilling since you know that your job is to give it your all to get someone else off.

Additionally, there's something fundamentally queer about a "my turn, then yours" approach to sex. However, as a transgender man, I find that becoming physically excited when fucking or going down on a partner is incredibly gender-affirming. Touch-X, We-Vibe's potent micro massager, can help with this.

Regarding play and stimulation, this toy is an enormous multitasker. During any intercourse, two people can slip the Touch-X into each other's hands or hold it in their palms. The comprehensive, flat form of this toy is ideal for slipping between your cock or dildo and your strap or between your junk or dick and your strap if you're a trans guy who straps on. The robust, deep-rumbling motor guarantees stimulation through materials like fabric or leather. However, unless you're into orgasm denial, watch where you put the toy to avoid the buttons abruptly shutting off at the wrong time.

Speaking of buttons, using the + and - arrows to adjust the strength without throwing the toy into a series of morse-code vibrations can initially be tricky. However, after I sat down and read the handbook, it made sense. The matte surface feels fantastic against bare skin, and the silicone is smooth and silky. If you engage in foreplay, this is the ideal toy for teasing and sensually caressing your own body or someone else's. Did I also mention that this toy is waterproof? The next time, take it to the bathtub to enhance your decompression experience.

Putting the Touch-X vibrator inside a pair of packing underwear is another amazing trans-masculine hack I came about. When I initially received the toy, I used it for quiet foreplay while folding clothes in my boxers' packer pouch. Without really doing anything, this was a great way to let me get turned on passively. We-Vibe's Touch-X is a fantastic non-gendered toy that can be used with various sized and shaped anatomies, making it a terrific choice for solo and partner use.

Archer Packer

The Archer Packer was the first packer I ever owned, even though it's not a sex toy. Quality silicone dildos and gender-affirming items, including packers, STP (stand-to-pee) devices, pumps, binders, and other accessories, are produced by the sex-positive company New York Toy Collective. Their classic circumcision packer, Archer, is available in three flesh tones: cashew, caramel, and hazelnut, along with a few additional fun hues like purple and rose gold. Note: The NYTC website offers chocolate, another choice for darker complexion tones, for purchase.

Archer is a great place to start if you've never packed before. Archer, a traditional packer with a nice weight and feel, is perfect for private and public packing. Whether you're wearing your favorite pair of tighty whities or packing briefs, it looks particularly excellent under tight-fitting underwear and produces an incredibly lifelike bulge below clothing. The Archer Packer does the job well by feeling and looking fantastic in your jeans, even though it may not have tiny features or a hyper-realistic skin tone. The Archer's bulge is the ideal size to show that you are packing without being overt or giving the impression that you have a permanent erection. The 4" shaft is tiny and designed for shorter trans men. You can always choose the NYTC 5.25" shaft if you're a bigger boy or want a packer that matches your big-dick energy.

Vibrating Velvet Harness

This vibrating harness's design is ideal for trans men and trans women who have always desired to experience greater physical pleasure while strapping on. The front of the harness, which is composed of velvet fabric and has simple snap-on straps that suit hips up to 60", is surprisingly comfortable. The most excellent feature of this harness, however, is that it has a bullet vibe that fits into a pouch under the O-ring to excite your junk while fucking the front or rear holes of your lover or partner.

Now, I had a mixed experience with this harness. Although the harness's operation can be challenging, this design is just what trans guys require. It can be a bit tricky to fit the dildo through the O-ring after it's on your body, so make sure you place your cock into the harness before putting on your straps. There's no need to hold back because, despite their seemingly insignificant appearance, the straps are solid and capable of withstanding hardcore fucking.

Because the vibrator can be uncomfortable when it presses against your pubic bone, it may take some trial and error to find the ideal position. I would suggest beginning in the doggie style or missionary position to get your rhythm and flow down initially. Although the bullet vibrator's battery doesn't last very long, you can always replace it with a slightly more dependable vibrator. I suggest Dame's reliable USB-rechargeable Zee Bullet Vibrator.

The design is a step closer to the kinds of sex toys and harnesses that we need for transmasculine bodies, even though it's not the most user-friendly or stylish harness available. Even if you don't get to the big one with this harness, playing around and trying different things is still enjoyable.

A word about the packing: I want to let you know that this harness's packaging is highly gendered. To avoid experiencing dysphoria or feeling strange after removing the harness, plan to discard the box right away or ask a partner or best friend to open it for you.

Le Wand Rechargeable Vibrating Massager   

At last, a wand that will endure forever. I advise you to stop reading this and reconsider your life decisions if you have never used a wand. Wands have been a fantastic, shockingly potent, gender-neutral sex toy for the past thirty years. Le Wand has released a new shade of Pacific blue for its acclaimed vibrating massager. You should use this wand if you are a power-king. It performs a fantastic job of stimulating everywhere and is rechargeable and cordless. It also includes adapters for the US, UK, EU, and AUS, allowing you to take your new best buddy wherever you go and still get off.

A trans man who has undergone testosterone hormone replacement therapy and seen bottom growth may occasionally find that his dick becomes sensitive to sudden pressure or sensation. Nevertheless, this vibrator's gentle silicone head and enormous power have enough surface area to stimulate everything simultaneously. This sex item can assist in lessening bottom dysphoria since it makes it hard to pinpoint the precise source of the pleasure. The most challenging times for me to orgasm are when I can't identify precisely what's happening to my junk, but I know that it feels incredible.

We-Vibe Nova 2.0 

This toy isn't for every trans guy, but if you love Rabbit toys, you'll love the We-Vibe Nova 2.0. Look no further than the Nova 2.0 if dual stimulation is your thing. With its simple design, this sex toy seems to hit the ideal angle without exerting too much effort. For people who enjoy penetration but don't want something profound, the Nova 2.0 is perfect.

The toy is made for G-Spot stimulation, so even if you tried, it couldn't get to your cervix. This makes it an excellent choice for trans men who want to get fucked but don't necessarily want a lot inside of them. Think of this toy as a chokehold for your G-Spot and your t-dick on lockdown. Before you lay down with this one, ensure you have your towel or waterproof sheet available if you are a squirter. And after using this toy, you might become a squirter if you haven't already. We-Vibe's Nova 2.0 has a magnetic port charging and is completely waterproof.

Snake Oil Cum Lube 

One of my all-time favorite cum lubes is this one. Cum-lube is precisely what it sounds like, in case you haven't heard of it. Snake Oil is a hybrid lubricant that mimics the texture and appearance of ejaculate. The enormous 8-ounce bottle will last you a lifetime. This lubrication is a hybrid, meaning it works with all silicone gadgets, including strap-ons, and feels just as lovely as silicone lube while cleaning up like water-based lube.

Use Snake Oil lubrication with an ejaculating dildo or a 3-in-1 pack, play, and pee device (like the Peacock), which has a hole at the head of the cock to fulfill all your sexy cum fantasies, if you want to step up your play.