The Ultimate Guide to sex positions: Solo Cowgirl

Now, let's discuss sex positions.

This set of guidelines is for you whether you're dating someone you've been seeing for a while or are trying to get back together with a former romantic interest.

The Solo Cowgirl comes next, which should not be mistaken with the paired Cowgirl, huh? The Cowgirl position is usually used for sex with a partner, but it can also be used for self-gratification.

Solo Cowgirl:

First of all, it goes without saying that coupled and solo cowgirls share several characteristics. Though you're, well, alone instead of with a lover, the general concept is the same. Taking self-gratification to the next level is the primary goal of Solo Cowgirl.

The receiving partner straddles and mounts the thrusting partner, who lies on their back in the Cowgirl (also known as the rider) posture, ready to ride off into the sunset. Therefore, exploring Solo Cowgirl involves using toys, cushions, hands, and nothing more than your dirty imagination to simulate the receiving/straddling partner.

Replicating a ridable, grindable masturbation setup may not seem obvious, but it's actually quite simple and may be incredibly empowering. In addition to providing opportunities for imaginative fantasies, Solo Cowgirl can also be surprisingly fulfilling for people who find pCowgirlowgirl exhausting or ineffectual or who are self-conscious about being too "on display."

A note on terms:

We refer to the person with the penis (biological or synthetic) as the "thrusting partner" when we talk about penetration and the person who accepts the act of penetration (vaginal or anal) as the "receiving partner."

This caveat is still pertinent even if the article discusses a solo position because it also discusses the partnered variant.

It is crucial to remember that receiving is not a submissive, passive role. It's a passionate, engaged role. The receiver is expressing their power of choice by deciding to invite their lover inside of them.

The thrusting partner is also more than just a giver. Naturally, they enjoy themselves while performing the deed as well. However, we have chosen these labels for the two sides of the dynamic for the sake of uniformity and clarity.

How to do it:

The Solo Rider straddles a folded pillow, a customized sex cushion, a rolled-up towel, their fist, their fingers, their favorite sex toy, or anything else they might feel like using to get into position. They do this while kneeling on their bed or any other secure and comfortable surface.

Dry humping a pillow is an excellent way for beginners to start since it stimulates the clitoral hood and labia. You grind your vulva against the lucky cushion and let it loose to attempt this.

The Bellesa Luxe Dildo might be the perfect Solo Rider toy if you're ready for some new toys. It is precisely formed for g-spot stimulation, comes in three sizes, and has a suction cup at the base that can be firmly fixed to your wall, floor, or mirror. Next, you can select from a variety of innovative toy mounts, such as the Liberator Wanda Toy Mount or the Tula, her sister mount. Both can be used with a wand vibrator and because two toys are better than one in this situation, you may equip your homemade sex machine with a wand vibe on the side and a dildo on top if you'd like. You, its lone rider, are free to enjoy this actual pleasure palace!

It is up to you to choose the motion in your ocean at that specific time after you have your preferred arrangement ready. It could be a bounce, a grind, or a stroke. Or perhaps it's a combination of motions. You make the decision and establish the rhythm and tempo. Enjoy exploring any sensations that call to you since it's all you, sweetie. Descend until you have a desired sensation, be it clitoral, penetration, or both.

Reasons we love it:

It's a fantastic workout and the most active self-pleasure session you can choose.

Because you control the speed and decide whether and how you want to achieve orgasm, it's incredibly empowering.

-Your hands are free to caress yourself, whatever you like, when everything is set up correctly.

-Orgasm is more likely when direct clitoral stimulation is combined with a high degree of control.

-Adding toys or experimenting with endless creative ideas is simple.

Variations to try out:

Reverse Rider

Take Missy Elliot's advice and go backward with that. Simple fantasizing, altering the toy's angle, or rotating your body if you have a toy securely jammed in a mount are some examples of how to do this. Work it if it works.

Leaning Rider

Lean forward and place some of your weight on your hands as if your companion were beneath you. For more clit stimulation, this stance is fantastic. It might also feel amazing to get back onto it.

Grounded Rider

Place your feet firmly on the floor with your knees bent, then use your newfound control to move back, forth, up, and down as you like. Ground control for a big excursion.

Grinding Rider

Try a gradual grind as an alternative to bouncing up and down. To increase friction over the entire vulva, spread your legs wide. You may be taken aback by the unfamiliar territory you encounter.

Other tips and tricks:

As you ride, explore, caress, squeeze, stroke, and caress your many erogenous zones.

Allow yourself to become engrossed in a fantasy that piques your interest. Shut your eyes and visualize being watched, being transported by someone you know, or whatever motivates you.

To find out what kinds of sensations you prefer and those you might want to combine for maximum effect, experiment both with and without toys.

- For an extra stimulation bundle, wear a butt plug concurrently, nam sayin'?

Solo Cowgirl exploration can be done using any method. Everyone will experience it differently; therefore, the best course of action is to feel happy and be creative. You can get closer to knowing what really drives you crazy just by experimenting with fresh and various sex positions on your own.