Tips, Toys & Advice: How to Have Fulfilling Sex in a Wheelchair

In a wheelchair, there are countless ways to have creative and thrilling sex. Communication and exploration are necessary, but what good sex isn't?

Wheelchair users know differently than others who are non-disabled, who frequently question whether using a wheelchair reduces sex. Anything you may want from sex—passionate, intimate, rough, humorous, kinky, spontaneous—can be had while in a wheelchair. The list is as diverse as your desires. Additionally, there are other options. Here are some ideas for sex in a wheelchair that you might not have considered, along with some methods to add toys to make sex in your chair even more exciting if you're trying to add more variety to your bedroom routine.

Significant Positions for Wheelchair Sex

The variety of sex positions you can try in a wheelchair is surprisingly extensive despite the common misconception that it restricts your possibilities. Explore some of the classics first; with only minor modifications, the majority can function flawlessly in a wheelchair.

Reverse Cowgirl Position

With the added stability of your chair, this classic becomes even more intense when your partner can bounce on you. With their feet and legs tucked under them, your spouse can sit on your lap, facing forward, and slide into the chair seat around your legs. Your companion can ride you gently or rough by using the wheels to support you when you apply the brakes.

Face-Off Position

This pose, which is sometimes referred to as "The Lap Dance," is excellent for gradually building to a huge climax. With their feet on the wheels or tangled around the back of the chair, have your lover sit on your lap and wrap their legs around your waist. Because the intercourse is face-to-face, chest-to-chest, and belly-to-belly, this is an excellent position for deeper penetration and creates a genuine sense of intimacy.

Shoulder Holder Position

In this position, your spouse raises your legs and places them on their shoulders while standing in front of your chair, just like they would if you were sitting on the side of a bed. Deep penetration and G-spot stimulation are excellent in this position. You can achieve the whole banging-in-the-headboard effect by backing your chair up against a wall or door, but you might want to bring a pillow as well.

Seated Wheelbarrow Position

Your partner places their pelvis across your lap and wraps their legs over the back of your chair while facing forward and putting their hands on the floor or a footrest. By holding onto your partner's hips and cheeks and regulating their movements, you can lead yourself into them.

Oral Sex

For oral sex, a wheelchair is an excellent location because it's comfortable for you and convenient for your partner. Place your hips on the edge of the seat and place your legs on each side of the chair. Your legs will stay wide apart in this position, allowing your partner to play and explore wherever their mouth wants.

The Hot Seat Position

Your partner should sit on your lap with their legs and feet over yours while you move to the edge of your chair. In addition to controlling the depth, speed, and angle of your sex, your partner can use the wheels or armrests for support.

Getting Into Position

During wheelchair sex, positioning aids can help you think of new choices and make both traditional and more exotic sexual positions more stable and accessible. You may utilize a doggie-style strap for a number of wheelchair positioning applications. You can use the strap to help direct your partner's rhythm as they grind into you in the Face-Off example above, where they have wrapped their legs over both the back of the chair and your waist. It might also provide the Seated Wheelbarrow with a more robust grip. Because it keeps your legs in place against your partner's shoulders, a sex sling will make the Shoulder Holder position considerably simpler. The sling is simple to wrap around your neck or the chair's back.

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Toys and Restraint Play Ideas for Wheelchair Sex

You can have even more alternatives for positions and wheelchair sex activities using restraints and other toys in addition to positioning aids. If you have trouble controlling your hands or legs, or if you find it difficult to hold your hands or legs in one position, the correct toy can help you play with your partner (and they with you).

  • Put your feet firmly in place. Some wheelchair users want to tie leg shackles to their feet. Try using cuffs and a spreader bar for a toy that offers even more excellent support. If your chair allows it, you can use either toy with your backrest up or down; adjust it to your comfort level. Place your legs over your partner's head and place them around their shoulders after sliding your hips to the front of the seat and facing your chair. Your feet will remain connected above your partner's head as a result. It's the perfect position for all types of anal and vaginal play in addition to anal and vaginal sex.
  • For extra enjoymentConsider pairing an anal explorer kit or strap-on with a spreader bar. Your spouse can experiment with different positions and angles with their strap-on if you place your shackled legs over their shoulders while they stand in front of your chair.
  • Use those wheels. Playing off of the wheelchair's inherent mobility is made simple with restraint devices like door cuffs and a leash and collar set. You and your significant other can alternately guide each other into, out of, and within the bedroom. As they play with your nipples or perform oral on you, your lover may also bind your arms to a door.
  • Could you give them a different ride? The ideal toy for all types of satisfying wheelchair sex is a thigh strap-on. In order to allow their standing partner as much access to the thigh with the dildo as possible while still supporting the leg with the chair, the partner using the wheelchair and the strap-on should slide forward to the front of the seat. Some wheelchair users, whether by themselves or with a companion, even like wrapping the thigh strap-on over a pillow for personal enjoyment.
  • You can use your chair as a toy on its own! Allow your lover to climb into the seat as you perform oral, fit a cock ring onto them discreetly, or attach nipple clips if you are able to move out of your chair. We really need to talk more about the practice of having sex on a throne of wheels because not everyone is fortunate enough to do so.

In a wheelchair, there are countless ways to have creative and thrilling sex. Communication and exploration are necessary, but what good sex isn't? You need to be open-minded and willing to try different positions, toys, and restraints to find the ideal sex on wheels if you want to incorporate your wheelchair into sex.