Ultimate guide to sex positions: Wheelbarrow
Let's discuss sex positions.
This book is for you whether you're just getting started with a new partner or want to intensify your long-term committed relationship.
The sly Wheelbarrow comes next.
Wheelbarrow:
The Wheelbarrow, also known as the Standing Wheelbarrow, is a sex position that permits both vaginal and anal deep penetrative sex from behind. Since the thrusting partner must hold the receiving partner up by their legs, this position can really be a little tricky. The receiving partner must simultaneously support themselves by using their arm power.
The Wheelbarrow is one of those fictional jobs that no one really performs in their own houses, but it's truly genuine and not always as tricky as it seems. The adventurous among us know that you genuinely can't knock something until you try it, even though, for some people, this job is more of a test of strength than a fun one. It was initially heard here.
A note on terms:
We refer to the person with the penis (biological or synthetic) as the "thrusting partner" when we talk about penetration and the person who accepts the act of penetration (vaginal or anal) as the "receiving partner."
It is crucial to remember that receiving is not a submissive, passive role. It's a passionate, engaged role. The receiver is expressing their power of choice by deciding to invite their lover inside of them.
The thrusting partner is also more than just a giver. Naturally, they enjoy themselves while performing the deed as well. However, we have chosen these labels for the two sides of the dynamic for the sake of uniformity and clarity.
How to do it:
The receiving partner begins on the floor and balances with their hands in a plank-like position (yoga, anyone?) to enter the Wheelbarrow position.
The receiving partner's legs are then raised off the ground and held at waist height by the thrusting partner. Does the shape look like a wheelbarrow?
Depending on the anatomy and desires of both partners, the giving partner then inserts a penis or dildo either vaginally or anally into the receiving partner. This move does call for some core strength and agility. Although it might appear difficult at first, it's actually relatively easy, and practice makes perfect.
Reasons we love it:
It permits deeper penetration, which both couples may find heavenly. Additionally, if the receiving partner has a vagina, the angle of penetration may promote A-spot and G-spot orgasms.
Couples of the same sex can achieve this position by using strap-ons, dildos, and a readiness to experiment with anal.
Intense prostate orgasms via the P-spot may be possible for partners who use the Wheelbarrow position for anal intercourse with a receiving partner who has a prostate.
Deep penetration is not required just because it is feasible. The thrusting partner can comply with the receiving partner's requests after they have spoken about their needs. Communication is really intimate and sexy.
If you enjoy working out, this is a terrific way to work out your arms and shoulders.
Suppose the thrusting partner feels comfortable supporting the receiving partner with one hand while reaching down with fingers or a vibrator. In that case, they can easily enjoy some additional fingering with a receiving partner who has a clitoris.
It provides the thrusting partner with an excellent view of the delicious, well, assets of the receiving partner.
Variations to try out:
Strength and endurance in the upper body are key components of the Wheelbarrow. It can be imaginatively adjusted to be easier—or more difficult—even though it is what some could refer to as an "intermediate" position.
Kneeling Wheelbarrow
As you get into position, the Kneeling Wheelbarrow keeps you both down to the ground and provides additional support. While the receiving partner pushes themself up with their hands, the thrusting partner kneels instead of standing (using pillows to cushion their knees). The receiving partner's arms are under significantly less strain in this position. Before moving on to Standing Wheelbarrow, this is a fantastic variation to start with.
Seated Wheelbarrow
Seated Wheelbarrow is even more physically accessible for some people. In reverse cowgirl, you may begin on a chair or bed and make your way toward the edge so the receiving partner can slowly lower their body and use their hands to reach the floor for support and balance. Deep penetration is advantageous in this case, but it's less taxing, allowing you to work on it for longer.
Supine Wheelbarrow
The Wheelbarrow notion is elevated to a pleasant, horizontal state of mind with this variant. With their legs extended behind them and dangling off the bed, the receiving partner lies with their stomach down. The receiving partner is then lifted into place by the pushing partner, who stands between their legs. This variation still provides deep penetration and a comparable angle to the Standing Wheelbarrow, but it does not cause the fatigue or discomfort associated with pushing when in a plank.
The Wanton Wheelbarrow
The Wanton Wheelbarrow is similar to the Wheelbarrow but more difficult because the thrusting partner's shoulder raises one of the receiving partner's legs into the air. To perform this job safely, you need to be agile and flexible. Always paying attention to how it feels and avoiding pushing it too far is the key here. It should never hurt to have sex in this position; open communication is vital.
Other tips & tricks:
In order to provide additional support and reduce the amount of effort required by the receiving partner to support themselves with their arms, the thrusting partner can bend forward slightly and place their hands beneath their waist.
In order to increase stability and make it easier for the receiving partner to maintain balance, the thrusting partner might want to consider settling into a more "up and down" motion rather than a backward and forward one.
Since there is a chance that the receiving partner could fall and strike their face or upper body, it is always a good idea to have pillows, cushions, or a thick mat on the floor.
Engage in constant communication! Regarding sensation, pace, the best angles, and the necessity of stopping or trying something different. That's the main goal, sweetie.