Water sports 101

Some people participate in a different type of water sport over the summer, while others are out water skiing on lakes or skipping through sprinklers in their backyards. Yes, I'm referring to pissplay here.

Intentionally wetting the bed or taking golden showers are just two examples of how much fun pissplay can be.

You ask, what is pissplay? Its actual meaning is to enjoy and obtain sexual pleasure from anything related to urine. At the same time, its name is associated with urolagnia, which is defined as a "tendency to derive sexual pleasure from the sight or thought of urination."

As long as you and your partner or partners are consenting adults, it doesn't matter how you play; for some, it's the warm wetness, while for others, it may be connected to power dynamics and BDSM.

I encourage you to maintain an open mind and remember that kink-shaming is never cool, even though it may initially seem disgusting or conjure up jokes about Donald Trump enjoying golden showers.

In addition, it's much more common than you may imagine to have a fondness for water activities. A University of Montreal poll found that 3.5% of women had thoughts about urinating on (or having urinated on) a partner, while the percentage was considerably higher for men.

WHY DO PEOPLE LIKE IT?

It's never easy to pinpoint precisely what makes someone gravitate toward particular kinks and obsessions, but several motifs regarding water sports keep coming back.

Taboo:

First, it is taboo, like a lot of other kinks. Everyone in our immediate vicinity teaches us as children that any bathroom-related matters should be kept confidential. Pee, in general, is also viewed as unclean in our society. Many people experience sensations of exhilaration and naughtiness when these concepts are repositioned and when they experiment with introducing "private" and "taboo" practices into the bedroom.

Voyeuristic component: 

Furthermore, a lot of us enjoy being stared at or being stared at in bed, and this is made even more enjoyable when we are the ones being watched or watching urinating.

Power play: 

Giving your obedient spouse a golden shower can also be the ultimate act of power—some people even like to gargle or drink their partner's urine. Participating in water sports is a highly sensory experience. In conclusion, your senses will appreciate your "pool party."

We also know that the physical feeling of urinating (or holding in urine) can be a direct source of sensual pleasure for confident women. Tension can build up as our bladders press against internal organs like the clitoris and urethral sponge. As that tension is released during urination, it can cause what some refer to as an "orgasm."

Therefore, know that you are not alone whether you choose to get off on the toilet by yourself or with your other golden buddies at a fetish party.

IS PISSPLAY SAFE?

The response is YES IF

It matters when it comes to water sports since the "if" is always present when you intend to exchange, go into touch with, or consume someone else's bodily fluids. Before opening any floodgates, it's crucial to inquire about your partner or partner's sexual health constantly.

The response becomes a resounding YES: pissplay is safe, provided that everyone is clean and nobody is showing any signs of open wounds.

Urine is 95% sterile, despite popular belief, so if you're willing to try it, you're good to go in the eyes of the medical world. It's okay if you want to swallow some urine, but we wouldn't advise drinking a lot.

WHERE TO START?

Consent is the first and most crucial step in any sexual act. Discuss your interest in water sports with your partner and see how they respond. You're off to the races if they're down too.

You could view a video of pissplay and see if it turns you both on. Porn is usually an excellent place to start. Or perhaps take a shower together and relax while they observe, or vice versa. You'll also avoid the cleanup by doing this.

Start slowly and continuously checking in with each other; pace is everything. Communicating is very sexy.

SAFETY/ CLEANUP TIPS:

Before starting your splash party, drink a lot of water at least an hour beforehand to ensure you are well hydrated, that your pee is diluted, and that your bladder is sufficiently complete. This will ultimately be much more enjoyable than preparing for a doctor's appointment.

Think about where you want to get wild and soaked. As was already noted, taking a bath or shower is a terrific method to get started with water activities without becoming messy. However, if you want to use this in the bedroom, consider using a towel or purchasing a blanket or protective cover like The Liberator Throw. In any case, you determine that cleaning up after yourself is essential to avoid any mess after having a good time.

Finally, safe phrases are fantastic. Anyone can easily alter their mind at any time, particularly when having sex. Everybody is human. Therefore, things can go much more smoothly if you and your partner develop a term or many words that help you navigate the seas.