10 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life
How frequently do you experiment in the bedroom? There are many methods to switch up your routine to improve play and enjoyment, whether it's a new sex toy or a slight change in sex position.
You can spice up your sex life by changing up your routine or by experimenting in enjoyable, healthy ways. It's not always necessary to dress up or try out new sex technology.
Steph, a sex expert at Adutoys, has compiled a list of the top ten strategies to make your sexual life more enjoyable.
10 ways to get creative in the bedroom
1. Start the conversation
How frequently do you and your spouse or partners actually talk about sex? Discussing sex is an intimate act, not to mention excellent foreplay. It's a terrific idea to have frequent, continuous conversations about sex to see how satisfied you and your spouse are and to find out if there's anything new you'd like to try. Thinking about what you genuinely want to add to your sex life and then discussing it with someone is the first step to enlivening the bedroom!
Are you uncertain about how to start this conversation? The new 50 conversation card set from Adutoys is the ideal occasion. These cards contain the answers to all the questions you've been longing to know, from turn-ons to sexual awakenings to dirty talk. You can discover more about your partner's sexual preferences and encourage creativity in the bedroom by using conversation cards. (If you've been waiting for a time to have a potentially challenging talk, they also provide an excellent opportunity to set boundaries and offer criticism.)
2. Include a vibrator
Yes, vibrators are on the list, of course.
All vulva owners should try penetrative intercourse with a clitoral vibrator. The clitoris, not the vagina, is the sex centre of the body, despite what many people think. The only body part explicitly made for pleasure is the clit. A clitoral suction vibrator, a bullet vibrator, or a dual-tip vibrator can significantly improve a vulva owner's capacity for joy and orgasm.
Not into clitoral vibrators?Equally fascinating are internal vibrators. While a partner uses their hands or tongue to stimulate the clitoris, try using a G-spot vibrator. Otherwise, why not choose to masturbate together while one partner plays with their toy?
Remember that there are other methods to apply a vibrator to various erogenous areas, such as the neck, nipples, or anus. For whole-body enjoyment, we suggest multipurpose vibrators like wands or bullet vibrators.
3. Add lube or massage oil
Lube is crucial for both solo and partnered activities. Because it reduces friction, a high-quality lubricant makes everything feel smoother and more enjoyable. Applying lube is also incredibly pleasant—it's foreplay!
Try a massage oil if you're looking for sexiness! Since massage relaxes muscles and releases endorphins, which make you feel good about your body and boost sexual desire, it can be a great way to engage in foreplay. If physical contact is one of your love languages, it's also a fantastic approach to satisfy your need for it. (But, if you're using barrier techniques, we advise sticking to water-based lubricant because oil can degrade condoms and dams.)
4. Try a vibrating stroker
Did you know that Adutoys now carries beginner-friendly, non-threatening penile sex toys? An excellent approach to add some variation to the bedroom is with a penis stroker. A stroker is similar to an expert-level handjob because it has 10 vibration settings and internal ribbing. A stroker offers a unique kind of pleasure that is impossible to accomplish with only your hands, whether you use it alone or with a partner. Try it with a companion by utilizing the penis's shaft vibrations as they use their hands or tongue to stimulate the tip. Hot tip: Before using the toy, lubricate the inside with water-based lubricant and resize the wings to fit the toy's dimensions.
5. Use a cock ring
The ideal technique to spice up sexual activity is to use a cock ring. A cock ring can extend sex by postponing ejaculation, in addition to improving erections by preserving blood flow to the penis. The best thing is that both couples will enjoy it. Adutoys' pleasure ring has motorized rabbit ears that let the receiving person feel vibrations against their clit or anus while they are having sex.
A specific technique to liven up sex without drastically altering it or going over budget is to add a pleasure ring. With the added advantage of increased stimulation for both parties, you can still enjoy the traditional sex positions—such as missionary or cowgirl/boy—that we're sure you're comfortable in.
6. Fill out a 'yes, no, maybe' list
Don't worry; we also have a ton of free options to make your sex life more interesting.
Partners can explore sex while establishing boundaries by using a yes, no, maybe list. The objective is to classify sexual activities into three categories: "firm no/hard pass," "maybe, depending on the context," and "hell yes." This system is sometimes referred to as the red, yellow, and green traffic light system. From there, you may determine what new activities you and your spouse are interested in and which ones you want to avoid. If talking about sex or communicating turn-ons and turn-offs isn't your thing, here is a simple way to get the conversation started!
Check out our curiosity quiz to see Adutoys' new couples play collection, which includes a yes, no, maybe list. This list offers a variety of enjoyable sexual activities to incorporate into your repertoire, ranging from roleplaying to dirty chat. For all Adutoys' girls, this PDF file is free, so get it right away!
7. Add a pillow
Contrary to popular belief, using a pillow or prop during sex can have a significant impact. To lift the receiving partner's hips, place one or more pillows beneath their pelvis. A pillow gives you the freedom to shift your pelvis to encourage orgasm, improves clitoral contact, and helps you engage your core and glutes to boost sensitivity. Using a pillow during sexual activity facilitates deeper penetration.
Do you lack a pillow close at hand? To support yourself, use a towel or anything else that is comfortable and soft.
8. Change up your location
It always seems more fun to have sex somewhere fresh. For a moment, put the bedroom on hold and try being kinky in the kitchen, hot in the shower, or cosy on the couch. A new place can feel adventurous, entertaining, or even prohibited (if that's how you think). Additionally, having a bench or armchair close by is sure to encourage some inventive sex positions.
Have you already completed it in every room of the house? It may be time to go. Everybody has a great vacation sex tale, so if you don't have one, here is your time to write one. Book a hotel room for a romantic staycation, or begin planning your next trip!
9. Dial up the sexting
Have you ever tried having sex online, speaking of new places? It's entertaining to explore without being in the same room by emailing nude photos and sexting. Sexting fosters intimacy and develops anticipation between partners, making it an excellent foreplay technique. It's also a chance to express your most substantial limits and deepest wishes. It's an opportunity to enhance your sexual communication sensually! However, remember to obtain consent. Additional sexting advice is available on our blog.
10. Experiment with edging
Edging is a technique used to control orgasms with the goal of making them more intense. By decreasing the stimulation's intensity right before you feel like you're about to finish and then increasing it again, the idea is to postpone your orgasm. Each time you perform this, you should experience greater pleasure, making the final orgasm feel more potent.
One excellent approach to experimenting with edging is to include a vibrating sex toy. You can change the pleasure settings on a sex toy to get the pressure or intensity you require. An alternative is to move from toys to hands (or other body parts) when you want to take a break and then return to the toy when you want to intensify. For this, we advise using a clitoral vibrator or a vibrating penis stroker.
