Learning the Ropes: What Is a Rigger in BDSM?
What usually comes to mind when one thinks of BDSM?
Do you have mental images of Rihanna singing about chains and whips? Perhaps you put yourself in the "Red Room" or, even better, over Secretary Mr. Grey's knee (*drool*). The likelihood is that whatever obscene idea crosses your mind doesn't capture the essence of BDSM.
You may be familiar with spanking or leash walking, but are you familiar with the rigger kink? No? A sensual treat awaits you, so fasten your seatbelt. We're delving into the fascinating realm of BDSM in this post to learn everything there is to know about riggers.
Therefore, continue reading whether you've ever been curious about rope play or are trying to find ways to liven up the bedroom. What you should know about a rigger in BDSM is provided here.
First Things First, What's BDSM?
Although power dynamics have existed in partnerships since the beginning of time, BDSM is an abbreviation that refers to a wide range of sexual roles, behaviours, and preferences, some of which involve sex and others that do not.
Yes, you read correctly. The mental connotations of some acts are more arousing than the actual act (think foreplay) leading to sex. Therefore, BDSM does not necessarily imply getting funky in the sheets (or whips, chains, and kinky sex), as many people have come to assume.
Stated differently, BDSM is what you make it.
What Does the Acronym BDSM Stand For?
It's an actual orgy of an acronym: Sadism, Masochism, Submission, Dominance, Bondage, and Discipline. Hold on to your derrieres. We realize there are more words than letters, but don't worry, we'll explain.
- Bondage denotes being bound or confined.
- Discipline refers to established guidelines and penalties a dominating person uses to govern a subordinate partner.
- Dominance demonstrates control over a partner, whether in or out of the bedroom.
- Submission is the sexual equivalent of dominance; it is submitting to the Dom's commands and desires.
- Sadism refers to a person (referred to as a sadist) who enjoys causing another person bodily or mental suffering.
- Masochism is the propensity to find pleasure in one's suffering, particularly in sexual enjoyment.
There is no one method to practice BDSM, even if these are the more general categories. Power play, bondage, edging, sensory deprivation, role-playing, and even humiliation are just examples of the various forms. The realm of BDSM offers a plethora of diverse personas and positions to explore, including the rigger.
What's a Rigger?
After going over the fundamentals of BDSM, it's time to learn everything there is to know about the rigger kink. What is a rigger, then?
A person who enjoys using rope bondage to constrain their partner is referred to as a rigger in BDSM (also termed Shibari or Kinbachu). This could be done as a hobby, for spiritual reasons, for performance art, or sexual gratification.
A rope bunny, rope bottom, or rope slut is the term for the person who likes to get tied up, while a rigger is typically a Dom. A rope artist is another term for a rigger in bed.
However, power play isn't the only aspect of this fetish. Additionally, a rigger and their rope bunny have a trusting relationship that makes it incredibly intimate.
Think You Might Have a Rigger Kink?
This could sound a little odd to you if you have never known the absolute joy of rope play through BDSM. In actuality, though, you could be unaware that you have a rigger kink.
You can tell whether you're a rabbit or a rope artist by a few traits or interests you'll have:
- You frequently bind your lover with your hands when you're getting jiggy in the sheets.
- Generally speaking, you favour sexual positions that restrict or limit your range of motion.
- You've always desired to be physically restrained to develop submission.
- The hot and heavy items, such as ropes, cuffs, leashes, and chains, are usually what you look for when watching porn.
- You have no problem trusting someone to restrain you.
- Ropes and knots are beautiful to you.
You may have a rigger kink if any of these things apply to you. Explore your fantasies and give in to your impulse to play with rope rather than suppressing or ignoring this sexual drive.
How To Be a Knotty Rigger in Bed?
Let's review some general advice on how to be the knottiest rigger you can be now that you've admitted to having a thing for bondage.
Learn the Ropes
The first step is choosing the kind of rope you want. Because cotton or silk ropes are usually softer and easier to work with than synthetic materials (think nylon or polypropylene), they are fantastic for beginners.
For hours of raunchy bondage play, are you unsure where to acquire an excellent beginner's rope? The Deluxe Silky Beginner Rope is worth checking out. It's silky and delicate, ideal for creating intricate rope restraints and body harnesses.
Hot Tip: The Fetish Fantasy Satin Blindfold is a great way to entice and delight your victims. This sophisticated blindfold, which is silky, smooth, and flexible, completely blocks out the world so they can't see your next move.
Brush Up on Anatomy
Anyone who wants to investigate the rigger kink should learn anatomy. If done incorrectly, binding a friend may place them in potentially hazardous situations, mainly if they are bound for extended periods or hanged from the ceiling (which, yum).
To make sure your rope slut is safe, learn how all of the human body's muscles and joints function and respond to rope and shackles.
Note: Even if you know everything there is to know about anatomy, accidents can still happen. Never leave someone with a rope tied around them for an extended time, especially if you're not watching.
Communicate, Communicate, Communicate
Oh, did we mention to communicate?
Communication is essential when it comes to BDSM, or simply sex in general, regardless of your level of experience.
To keep things safe and enjoyable for everyone, it's crucial to express your fantasies, wishes, and any boundaries you're unwilling to cross. Thus, express yourself, choose a safe term, show respect, and enjoy yourself!
Practice Makes Perfect
Many folks believe they can jump right into the rigger kink because it's just ropes, right? To become a rigger, you only have to tie a few knots. Thank you, ma'am.
Friends, you're mistaken. Tying knots is an art that takes some skill, much like making oneself cum to get that delicious, sweet orgasmic pleasure.
It's a taught skill, to put it another way. Therefore, spend some time being familiar with rope before tying anyone up. You will eventually master the kink if you practice knotting.
Hot Tip: Do you need a decent rope for practice? The Black Fetish Fantasy Mini Silk Rope is worth a look. It's six feet long, incredibly soft, and full of potential knotted delight.
The Final Word
What is a rigger, then?
To put it briefly, a rigger is a fiery person who enjoys tying up a partner. Self-bondage is also practised by some riggers or people, but let's face it, it can be challenging to tie yourself up. Practice makes perfect, of course, so if that's your thing, then by all means! Just make sure that safety always comes first.
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